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ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1

~~FR~~

Sorry, but I am one Pro that NEVER engaged in sexual release.  EVER.  I follow very strict observence of any local and federal laws against obscenity, nudity, sexual acts, touching, etc.  I do not have my clients nude, nor do they see me nude.  I do not give hand jobs, nor even allow them to masturbate in my presence.  They are allowed to do whatever they wish once they are in a room alone.  I keep telling people that I am retired from that profession..... but I do have some select clients that I continue to see.  I'm good at what I do.  I don't have to be a sex worker.  If someone wishes for more, they are free to go elsewhere.

Now, I also do happen to session people on a non-professional basis.  There can be some nudity there.  BUT, then again, I do not have sex (no strap-on, no anal play, no hand jobs, and absolutely no intercourse) with them.

I only have sex with persons I am involved in a committed relationship with.  And then it is absolutely safe sex.  I have lived almost 49 years without any type of STD at all, and I sure don't wish to change that.

So yeah, it's been a while since I've had sex.  Thank goodness for vibrators and dildos!

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Thank you MsMia, you are spot on

MamaDomme1, I do not doubt for a second what you say about your own practices

But you do not make a living as a professional dominatrix.

By way of contrast, Dr Jodie Hanson PhD (aka Mistress J) has published a "warts and all" account of staying in business as a pro-domme long term called "Private Theatre"
http://www.mistressj.com/Author.htm

Dr Hanson was an academic and researcher into the sex industry before crossing to the Dark Side

She is absolutely honest about the kinds of clients (married men on their way home from work to the suburbs) and the kinds of services that keep them coming back (ejaculation)

Of course, we probably all play with friends on a  non-professional basis with absolutely no sexual release

But so what if there is sexual release??  So what if someone pays for that release?? Who cares if that is what many (not all) pro-dommes really do?  And why? 

Thank you for the link MsC, it looks like a very interesting read.

well educated.

It is now on my reading list.

Look at the majority of the threads that are posted on the message boards?
Did I wake up and land in Oz?

while the other millions are not?

mal has been posting similar threads for years, so I am not sure what the big

deal was with this one, or the other many similar threads floating around.

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ORIGINAL: malloves69

thank you ladys for your comments ..im sure you are all quite wonderfull indeed  my mistress is quite real ..thank gawd  she is a amazing woman indeed  after one of our get togethers we even went to see sex and the city movie together which was alot of fun too as we shared alot of laughs together about the movie ...and yes we do lunch together sometimes as well  i hope she never gets old of me she does mean alot to me  we laugh sometimes when we are 60 or 70 will she still be fisting me ..guess time will tell  the after glow thing is starting to wear off but it really is amazing how wonderfull the lady makes me feel ..have a good day  mal

mal you are becomming a collarme celebrity

I am glad you are so happy and have found someone

that satisfies your needs

I hope you are stillhaving fun at 90 and 100 

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

So am I going to have to start seeing a pro Domme to get this much attention???

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

So am I going to have to start seeing a pro Domme to get this much attention???