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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/7/2008 3:54:15 PM   
Deliena


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Status: offline 		Master often comments on how i try to pick up on the things that are important to Him and anticipate His needs.  He finds it pleasing to know that His comfort is uppermost in my mind at all times whether He has communicated specific desires/tasks or not.  i just love the look of pride in His face when He tells me i've been good and that He chose well, a compliment like that can keep me warm for weeks.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/15/2008 6:32:16 PM   
subsadie


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Status: offline 		Daily, getting up with him much earlier than I normally would so I can iron his pants for work makes me feel incredibly useful and valuable.  Other than that, a lot of the little things come down to paying attention to what he says...like I know he loves chocolate and peanut butter, so I get him Reese's on occassion when I go grocery shopping.  There's a particular kind of soap that he likes that I'll get if I happen to be in that particular store where it's sold.  A surprise foot rub is always good for rewarding moans and groans from my Owner.  Really, for me all the little things are why I am in this sort of relationship to begin with.  I love serving Him.  In return, He fulfills me and makes me feel cared for.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/15/2008 6:59:31 PM   
subsfaith


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Status: offline 		I completely agree with the OP, the very small things can mean the world.  Some of my favourites are:

Thinking about his smile when he comes home when I cannot be here to greet him, the kettle is full, the teabag and sugar in the cup.

Packing his case when he goes away, making sure there is everything he needs, and unpacking and replugging his phone charger in when he gets home.

Having the TV already on the England match when he comes homes, and his laptop booted so he can place a bet on it.

I try so very hard not to have expectation of receiving recognition for the little things, but it feels so wonderful when I do....  :: smiles ::

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/15/2008 7:04:41 PM   
jim64


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Sometimes it is the smallest of gestures, of things unsaid, of those things that might otherwise "go to the end of the line" that bring the greatest pleasure to the Dom and the sub .


Yes, it is the little things that can mean so much. In BDSM or vanilla, short or long term, those tiny details can really make someones's day.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/15/2008 8:53:30 PM   
lizcgirl


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Status: offline 		My Master and I don't live together and spend most of our time at my house so I try to make my home His home too as much as possible. When I go to the grocery I make sure I have His favorite soda, snacks, etc, so if He comes out to see me without having had a chance to eat first I know there's always something here for Him that He actually likes. I pay attention to the small things He says in a conversation then use them later, it always blows Him away. We both have a Myspace and if I find something about the lifestyle that I agree with or find beautiful, I post it in a blog where any one can read it. (He loves how proud I am to be His girl) The thing that I did that got the best response from Him was one night we were discussing diaries and how He trusted me and wouldn't violate my private space. I have nothing to hide so the next day after He left I sent Him an email that included a poem I had written the day I became His slave that I kept in my diary. He was so touched He couldn't talk. Needless to say, I felt like I was floating when He told me how much that meant to Him.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/15/2008 9:04:14 PM   
Sandyshores29718


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Status: offline 		Thats super sweet! I try to do things like that. Hes coming over tomorrow and I made sure I bought him his favorite soda to have at the apartment.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/15/2008 9:14:48 PM   
tammystarm


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Status: offline 		it is wonderful when He writes me lil notes telling me how proud He is of me.. too sweet (but i aint fallin for it just yet ;)  ), i love the chats we have everynight before bed tucking each other in....
i love to make sure He loves my cooking (He didnt hear the fire alarms go off), and i love to massage His feet as i am a certified reflexologist and massage therapist   those are things that make life so sweet for me and i pray Him as well

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/16/2008 2:53:58 AM   
maleslavemarcus


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Status: offline 		I have been an alarm for my Mistress. Being in different time zones, it was not easy to be calling Her or leaving Her an sms at the times specified. and She enjoyed awakening to my voice or sms.
marcus.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/16/2008 3:18:29 PM   
subboidave


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Status: offline 		Wow, this is a great topic! i absolutely adore serving my Mistress and making Her happy in anyway She chooses. Making Her happy engenders a certain inner peace within me that in turn puts a smile on my face and skip in my step.

Lately Mistress has me doing all sorts of things for Her; from the simple, like researching something She needs or is interested in online and providing Her a full report to Her all the way to some harder tasks like keeping in shape with an exercise regimen She laid out for me.

Through it all i think of Her and how serving Her brings Her pleasure knowing Her property is working for and carrying out Her wishes. It has gotten to the point that all i want is to please Her and make Happy so i go the extra mile when She asks me to do something for Her.

This is in great part due to the fact that She is one of the kindest Women i've ever met in my life. Sure She's strict and punishment comes swiftly and severely when i mess up but She's always kind and generous with a thank you or a good boy, etc when things are done to Her standards. Her praise really makes my day and drives me to work harder for Her.

i live for my Mistress's pleasure and love being Hers. i wish every person could have someone to love and live for like my Mistress.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/16/2008 7:08:06 PM   
shivermetimbers


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Status: offline 		Waking up early, just to call her and be her alarm clock, when she had a very important place to be.  I was so happy to do that for her, especially seeing as she enjoyed me doing it for her.  She had an alarm clock she could have set up, but knowing that she trusted me to make sure she was up in time, sent my heart fluttering.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/16/2008 7:16:42 PM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		Good evening!
During grocery shopping, I will pick up fat free chips or ice cream-(he is diabetic) and other goodies that are good for him. Or I will rub his feet or neck without him asking me to...I just do it. and when I cook homemade things like beef stew or bread or such, I will always put aside a portion to bring him next time I see him...usually 1-2 days later, so that he has a snack or dinner for that day.  Sometimes I get in trouble for doing things without permission, like going thru his mail (I am huge on not having credit card balances or late bills so  I sort them out for him automatically) or sorting out his closets or drawers (50 gadgets all in different drawers so he keeps buying duplicates) but since he knows I do it for his own good or to ease up his life, Daddy often just smiles and pulls me away for cuddles saying, "You don't need to do that now, do you?"

Love,
Zechriel 
 

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/17/2008 9:30:13 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		i enjoy just sitting at my M'ladys feet most, but i do like to surprise her as well, on valentines day she worked hrs on days and came home to find a new flower bed in the front for her.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/18/2008 6:25:23 AM   
blueskyboy


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Status: offline 		my first domme was so polite...our language -  that of a lady to her butler...rather than the usual pissed off tramp to a drunk lazy husband...she reaped the benefits too

she worked late and i would wait up reading waiting for the sound of the garage door

had a tub of warm water to wash her feet ...toothbrush ready...

a glass of good wine covered by a napkin waiting on the bed side table

sit on the bed and allow me to take off her shoes while she sipped the wine and i washed and massaged and moisturized

newly flip flopped i would help her out of her clothes...naked pees are the best

she brushed her teeth and washed up and i massaged her to sleep...while she read...starting with her head and scalp

i marked her place when the sandman had taken her fully...her breathing soft and regular

cold water and hot coffee and the paper in bed started her up the next morning while i showered for work

hope she misses me once in a while but bet she is doing just fine
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or anything you can wear or buy
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respect the same

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/18/2008 8:29:12 AM   
servantheart


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Status: offline 		For me, it is the most mundane of tasks.  Things like setting up His coffee maker just before bedtime (I don't drink coffee), bringing His vitamins/supplements and juice to Him each morning as He lies in bed, folding and putting His laundry away, replacing His bar of soap in the shower if I notice it is almost used up, tending to His needs as He enjoys His meals (e.g. refilling His drink as neeed), basically anything that makes His life more enjoyable and comfortable.  Even cooking takes on new purpose and I find great happiness in serving Him this way.  Normally, I loathe cooking meals (years of having one's effort met with the upturned noses of very picky UMs tends to dampen the joy one feels in doing these things, though now that adolescence is in full swing, the pickiness is fast becoming a non-issue.  Think swarms of locusts descending on a large crop ).  There is nothing as satisfying as serving in this way, though if He comments positively on my work, my satisfaction and motivation to do even more increases exponentially.  Little things really do mean a lot. 

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 8/18/2008 8:02:24 PM   
MistressofPAboi


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Status: offline 		My boi is my personal assistant in all tasks I can have him personally attend to.  Recently, he put together an amazing word document that sorts information by several aspects, creating a place I can go to get information several different ways.   It is an excel sheet that makes my information easy to access and visually easy to read. When I had asked him to do this task, I had no idea he was going to work so diligently on creating a document that is innovative, and amazingly creative in design.  He added color and many other design aspects to enhance it's readability. When I asked him to do it, he was at work. He immediately left work at his designated time, only to rush home and start his project for his Mistress. He worked a total of 5 straight hours and did not go to bed til finished.   He tells me he was dripping in heat during the entire project. It kept him in a semi erection  which motivated him to complete the project to the best of his ability. He does several tasks for me on a routine basis....such as making dinner reservations, Dr appointments, sending email reminders, providing directions  and researching topics I assign, as in travel destinations or finding health clubs with Olympic size pools in different cities.  He tells me doing these tasks provides him with a focus that creates a great deal of pleasure for him. As good as sex!  He gets extremely turned on providing this service to me and  I am very pleased I have such a talented slutboi. 

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 9/10/2008 12:30:11 PM   
frz411


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Status: offline 		i also get turned on for doing non sexual tasks for a woman.  i am submissive, and i have a desire to serve.  I find it amazing how turned on i get from doing menial tasks

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 9/10/2008 12:33:08 PM   
frz411


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Status: offline 		Was just wondering......do any other subbies get sexually excited by doing errands or chores??.....Do Dom/mes tease us with this?

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 9/10/2008 1:50:05 PM   
batshalom


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ORIGINAL: Sandyshores29718

What are some small things you have done that bring you a great deal of pleasure?


The things he hates doing most give me the greatest pleasure. Folding socks and ironing come to mind immediately.

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RE: Pleasure from doing small things - 9/10/2008 10:08:24 PM   
Sandyshores29718


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quote:

ORIGINAL: frz411

Was just wondering......do any other subbies get sexually excited by doing errands or chores??.....Do Dom/mes tease us with this?


I don't get sexually excited by doing these things, only inner peace. When I do something for him it makes me get butterflies in my stomach and this joy washes over me. Ahhh I love it!

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