HeidiAnn
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Hi ashwolfe, i guess i am the kind of person you'd call non-op tg. i have always been attracted to people, not gender. When i was younger <20<, i thought i should be something that is easy to define and decided that i'd grow up to be gay. :D i had lovely time while cruising in the gay scenes, but as my mother hoped, it was just a phase... To answer your question. What ever it has been i have thought about my parts, i have never projected that to the bodies of others. i adore all kinds of bodies and body parts - for me the person to whom the parts belong to is much more important than the parts themselves. i still have moments of confusion with my body - like these little moments when i just get confused about what to do with my body and how to enjoy it fully, but i am getting better at it with time. :) As for dating other tgirls or tmen. i am not sure how well that would go. Being transgendered has sure fucked me up, and left me traumatized on some areas. i don't know how well it would go with someone with the same kind of sore points. It would definately depend on the person and how far they are in the process, but it could just be too hard. heidi
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