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RE: gaaarrrrhhhh (this is a rant... ignore it) - 8/7/2008 4:59:35 AM

housesub4you

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I hate it when people ask to see my Tits, cause I have to walk over to the dresser, find them in the bottom drawer, take them out of the box and hold them up to the web cam.

By that time the person who asked to see them is gone

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RE: gaaarrrrhhhh (this is a rant... ignore it) - 8/7/2008 5:25:51 AM

badlilthang

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ORIGINAL: DavidS8ist

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ORIGINAL: badlilthang

i am me - easier to remember the truth, i say - than to create a fake personality for online use. Hell, i am blonde - i have more than enough being me..lol..

Reminds me of a quote - a life lesson, actually - from the movie "Spy Game" with Redford and Pitt: "What if she was an asset? You just told her four lies that now have to be true!"
*oooh...i remember that movie - and that quote - good words to live by, indeed*
Yeah, and the BS flows on both ends of the whip, the drama queens, the "sorry, sobbing, psycho, subbies" needing rescue, the...
*i never needed rescueing - (except from myself at times) not even now - i am very much my own person - and i also tend to shy away from "Doms" that has nothing good to say about any of His former submissives...that always makes me wonder - why are they ex'es - and how did it end this badly with them all.maybe it was not all the submissives fault*
Oh, hell, you know it all. But again, it speaks to my thesis that if someone can't treat and be treated as an equal in the beginning of an interaction and wait to see if a dynamic develops naturally, they're probably not worth the pixels on the screen.
*i do not mind the natural dynamic between a dominant and a submissive personality, i just do not feel like i should have to crawl or kneel before He even knows my eye color*
And they're probably nothing like the person they're pretending to be.
*i have found it to be true many times - the more impressive the chat name - the less impressive the person*

but now...off for a 3 day harley meet...YAY......

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RE: gaaarrrrhhhh (this is a rant... ignore it) - 8/7/2008 7:08:06 AM

MasterHermes

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ORIGINAL: Corvidae

I tell them they've got a nice dick (which, obviously, is the second thing they showed me) Eventually it evolves to some webcam stuff. They go "My, what nice tits you have." I say, thanks, and I have a brain too. They say sure sure... can I see your stomach. What the heck. They go good, now turn around and pose as if I were spanking you.

Since this was your very first conversation with him, what were you expecting to happen after you tell him he has got a nice dick? This whole webcam conversation seems to start going to downhill at the very begining the moment he showed you his dick and you commented on it.

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RE: gaaarrrrhhhh (this is a rant... ignore it) - 8/7/2008 8:53:07 AM

restlessdreamer

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ORIGINAL: housesub4you

I hate it when people ask to see my Tits, cause I have to walk over to the dresser, find them in the bottom drawer, take them out of the box and hold them up to the web cam.

By that time the person who asked to see them is gone

- Cackle! -

To OP, I offer some reassurance. I think that sometimes, despite the fact that yes, you know better - you still hope that the person on the other side of the screen will be 'nice' and behave like a gentleman.

I think that regardless of the anonymity pertaining to the interwebs, comments and namecalling hurts more than you'd like to admit. Going by my own experiences of this nature (sans cam), these little 'fights' on the interwebs are most aggravating because you end up getting hurt and you just don't have the armory to make that person either see that you've been upset, or possibly hurt them back to the same degree. You can't even get the last word in without the whole thing escalating even further.

Sometimes, all you need is a little acknowledgement that you've been hurt, not be reminded over and over that what you did was dumb. You already know that part.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and have a giggle. After all, if you really think about it, his dick probably wasn't all that great. It was probably a little crooked and if you drew a face on it with a black sharpie, it would be a dead ringer for Darth Vader. Poor little boy, he deserves your pity and nothing more for his asshole personality forces him to look for pussy on the net and threw a temper tantrum when you foiled his plans for a good jerk off session.