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ShiftedJewel -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/9/2008 6:03:40 PM)
Never be afraid to speak your mind and stand up for what you believe in, but always be open minded enough to see that your way may not be the best way. It's ok to be human in front of your sub/slave, in fact, it's a good idea. Asking their advice isn't a sign of weakness and listening to it won't make you less "dominant" but it does make you a better partner. And that's a big deal, your relationship is, after all, a partnership. *Jewel*

darchChylde -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/9/2008 6:41:50 PM)
If at first you don't succeed, breathplay may not be for you. Any time you want to try something new to you and/or your partner, talk with them about it and above all... do your research. It's not undommely to ask for help. If you're drained and at your wits end, you won't lose your MasterCard (said with a nod to MasterFireMaam, as i agree with her use of the term... and it makes a good joke winks) by letting your submissive cater to you and pamper you... It may seem to go without saying, but i've known many a dominant woman who take the term "independent woman" all too seriously in my opinion. If your submissive is particularly drained or just plain deserves a treat, you won't lose your MasterCard for catering to and pampering them. There really is nothing that is undommely, so long as a dominant chooses to do it.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/9/2008 6:55:42 PM)
Your relationship does not have to look like anyone elses to be working exactly how you want it to. Most people will tell you you are doing it wrong, becasue you are not doing it their way. Remind them that the reverse is true, you could say they were doing it wrong becasue they werent doing it yours. And a gem of wisdom I got from a fortune cookie once: "If you can not change your mind, how are you sure you still have one?" DV

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/9/2008 7:58:04 PM)
1) Don't take yourself too seriously. 2) If you are not having the time of your life, don't do it 3) Listen politely to advice but make up your own mind about people 4) Don't compromise your own values. The pain of regret far outweighs the thrill of the moment 5) Don't hesitate to stop if you are just not into it. You don't have to like everything and everyone. 6) Respect and affection really cannot be demanded not matter how dominant you think you are. They have to be earned. 7) Learn from everyone you can, but find your own style 8) Don't try to dominate anyone other than your own subs. It just annoys others.

NumberSix -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/9/2008 7:58:59 PM)
Somedays----your house burns up; and somedays---your house burns down. Ron

MaamJay -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/9/2008 10:24:47 PM)
When things go wrong (and inevitably there will be something sometime that doesn't work), be the first to own up to your part in the failure and be willing to apologise. Far from being unDommly ... it builds trust and respect. Maam Jay aka violet[A]

SnowRanger -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/11/2008 10:03:26 AM)
Dear Ms. Naira, Wow! There are some real pearls of wisdom on this thread. It confirms my belife that Mistress are the smartest people on earth. There are two points that I'd like to amend: 1) 97% of what you see on line is not true; 2) Absolutely avoid absolutes. There are two points that I'd like to second: 1) I spent so much time looking for "the one" that I missed out on some really great women; 2) Ms. Akasha is so right! I love to hear how much the woman topping me enjoys my plight. I like what you said about respect. I don't see how anyone can take pride or pleasure in dominating someone they do not respect. That would have been the pearl I would have passed on; but, you don't need it. In closing, I'd wish you good luck... But, you won't need that either! Sincerely, Mike SnowRanger

Reigna -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/11/2008 10:49:47 AM)
Some of my favorite bits of wisdom are from someone who basically knew it all. Here's a relevant sample. My mistress' eyes are nothing like the sun; Coral is far more red than her lips' red ... I love to hear her speak, yet well I know That music hath a far more pleasing sound; I grant I never saw a goddess go; My mistress when she walks treads on the ground ... That's Shakespeare, from Sonnet 130.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/11/2008 11:09:26 AM)
Some day's a diamond Some day's a stone.. Know when to know the difference. My personal favorite: I never did mind the little things. Laugh, laugh and laugh some more. Nothing is more sexier to see a submissive lying on the bed, restrained by you and laughing with you. If you can't laugh at yourself, then there are those who will laugh at you. Oh, and never take bits of wisdom from a woman on morphine. <g>

youngsubgeoff -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/11/2008 1:21:48 PM)
from Social Distortion: Life goes by so fast, you only want to do what you think is right, close your eyes and its passed, story of my life

Missangelmist -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/11/2008 2:43:30 PM)
A bit of Wisdom is to know your self before you can sever a Mistress. Know thy self and understand what you need from being with a Mistress and why.... Make sure you know how to commuicate on many levels as this is the best tool that you have...

MistressOfGa -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/12/2008 5:01:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff from Social Distortion: Life goes by so fast, you only want to do what you think is right, close your eyes and its passed, story of my life I am hoping to change that <Hugs>

Madame4a -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/12/2008 10:10:00 AM)
Trust your gut and instincts If it seems too good to be true, it probably is If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its not a zebra and.. since I'm very cynical this week... read my signature... remember it

MsStarlett -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/14/2008 6:39:47 PM)
I totally forgot to get back to this thread! Hmmmm.... Let's see: Always warm up your pain slut. Everyone has zits on their butt. No matter where you go, there you are! And, most of all, remember, in ALL things - Don't Force it.

LadyPact -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/14/2008 8:52:32 PM)
I forgot one earlier. Every now and then, take a minimal risk. Take a shot at an opportunity that otherwise pass you by. Have a little faith that, even though you've been doing a certain thing a certain way for as long as you've been doing it, there might be another way, too. Every so often, something, or someone, is worth a chance. From the desk of a very tired, yet pleasantly surprised, Lady Pact.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/15/2008 8:46:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina remember that there are no one set of BDSM rules to live by, with that in mind you have to find yourself, what you want and desire, and make it work. Too much lube is just enough, anything will fit with enough lube. Oh yes, and 96% of things you hear on line, are not true. Alexandra ~ Having been beaten to the punch, I'll just say, "What she said!"

chiaThePet -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/16/2008 6:55:37 AM)
If She shoves a screwdriver into your skull, don't pull it out yourself, call 911. Ask for Stacey. chia* (the pet)

MistressRouge -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/16/2008 10:02:11 AM)
Be creative, and embrace impulsive behaviour. Have empathy, understanding and respect even if you "dont get" other's interests. Be yourself always, and do not justify your believe's and interests with the ignorant. Most of all, enjoy yourself, at the end of the day, FUN is the main element [:D]

darchChylde -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/16/2008 1:01:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Everyone has zits on their butt. Now i feel better.

MsStarlett -> RE: Short bits of Wisdom (8/16/2008 5:30:13 PM)
Always happy to oblige.

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