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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/9/2008 6:54:47 PM   
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MasterAramis you must be new to the board. Most of the 18 -25 year olds who post on here think that they are way more mature and wiser that 43 years olds.


Some of them actually are. 

I hope I never limit myself from learning from someone just because of their age (or anything else, for that matter).

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/9/2008 7:00:06 PM   
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Thx for reply.porcelain26
Got one chance to blow someone down seems difficult...But I think what makes a man depends on  his experiences and the knowledge he had.Brillant man try very hard to be extraordinary even if he is young.


One factor you might want to take into account is that if you are trying to meet people online is that it is a text based system.  An inability to express yourself in English, even if it is your second language, is a major impediment.

I don't know of any Scene equivalent to the English Corners in Chinese parks, but if there is somewhere you can meet people face to face, it might give you a chance to make a better impression.



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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/9/2008 7:34:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		i love bubblegum logic   It always fills the holes in the road of drama intwined concepts  balance come inside not out  if people want to chance after something that make live in a feel good  moment  and not long term peace go for it have fun wish you the best    if it works great if it does not oh well back to the drawing board  you can push faulty logic till your blue in the face  just cause you read a book on how to repair a car or do brain surgrey means you can    so in age  the one key point comes in life is experince  dateing making money making a life  a family a home and so on a carreer  

shrugs oh well what ever chase the pipe dream that is all it is

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/9/2008 8:47:00 PM   
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Brillant man try very hard to be extraordinary even if he is young.

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/10/2008 6:15:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterAramis

I tend to wonder if someone at the age [of 18] really knows what they are. While I have a dominant personality, I knew squat about myself at 18 and based on my experience in the lifestyle with people at that age and two children who are now over that age, I think that is the norm.

Sincerely,

Aramis Duval


As someone at the age of 19, I find that a lot of the disparaging and condescending remarks made about people my age are offensive. It is true that I don't know who or what I am, and I don't claim to. But that's not a bad thing. I'm still growing and forming myself into the person I will become. Right now, that means that I believe myself to be submissive.

On the other hand, a lot of old *cough* make that older people don't know themselves as well as they may think either. The mind and personality are very complex things and I don't think that anyone can completely know themselves. For one person, being shaped by someone older and more experienced may be their path, for someone else they may want to shape and be shaped by someone as equally inexperienced as they are.

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Most of the 18 -25 year olds who post on here think that they are way more mature and wiser that 43 years olds.


Making assumptions about the minds and opinions of people you have probably never spoken to, just because they are young is not a nice thing to do. It is also unflattering to you. I may not have experienced as much as someone twice my age, but that does not mean my experiences have not been as varied or as intellectually stimulating. Which is better: maturity caused by the quality of experiences or by the quantity?

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/10/2008 6:19:07 PM   
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Age matters a little to me. I've never been into men younger than me or my age, so I've always been attracted to men 10years older than me and higher.  I also feel safer when someone thats had 10+ years under their belt of rt play. Not saying I would not play with someone that didnt have that much cause my first play parter was 37 and only had 7years under his belt.  My play partner is 44 and my love/play partner is 45. I'm happy and so are they.

There are a lot that want an older Dom, but look around..there are a great deal that do not want a older Dom. :)  Good luck

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/10/2008 6:26:41 PM   
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the question "does age matter" only matters to the individual answering it.

so answering for myself alone - yes age does matter. i wouldn't want to be with someone who's the same age as my youngest brothers (18yrs) or old as my parents(in their 60s). i prefer someone closer to my own age.

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/10/2008 6:48:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know a 38 year old who has lived a charmed life and has the maturity level of a 15 year old.
I also know a 23 year old who has already survived more trials then some of ever experience.
So in the end I suppose it is not age but life experience that speaks to me.

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/11/2008 9:33:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I really don't have any preferences age wise as long as a potential slave is 18 and over. My preference if probably 35 to 50 but this is only because we have more in common especially musically wise. having a Dominant Wife 30 years younger makes it easier too because Neets will mostly bond well with a younger lass/lad than one say 50+. Having said that, my criteria is based on the ability for Neets and I to gel with a new person rather than a defined age. I do keep in mind that a younger las has sexual needs which I may not be able to fulfill due to ED (FDS)  but if I also have a lad collared then he may well be able to do stud duty if required.

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RE: Does age matter?... - 8/11/2008 9:50:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		When i am looking for a potential partner, age is not something i actually look at initially.. i focus more on the personality, the chemistry & the potential for a Dynamic.
My preference within that is for a mature, confident person i can relate to, somebody who inspires me and catches my interest on several levels.. For me its not so much about experience as enthusiasm & compatibility in interests. It just so happens that i tend to find those qualities in men who are 40+.. However i have met the occasional Dominant my own age who i have been attracted to.
To me, age doesn't matter at all.. Its the personality, attitude & confidence that catches my eye.


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