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What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:22:40 AM   
MistressPav


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Status: offline 		You ever hear men cry and complain that their wives won't give them head, or anal sex or whatever?  I get such a kick out of that...it really makes me laugh because aren't men supposed to be the ruler of the house? 

Gods, I'd get into sooo much trouble if I were a man.  If the female I was with didn't want to do "this or that", I would sooo break that bitch.
If she didn't like something, she would be taught to learn to love it. I'd probably end up in prison. 

Mistresses, what kind of man would you be?




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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:24:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		So, your wife would be married to a rapist and abuser?

Lovely.


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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:33:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't want to be a man, to be honest. I rather like being a woman. Oh sure, some parts of the whole girlhood thing are less fun than others. (Monthly visitors aren't so hot, for example.) But I seriously think I got the longer end of the stick when it came to gender. I mean, come on ... I get this great body with curves and (relatively) hairless skin and my bits don't poke out for world to see.

Also, there's a lot of power in being a woman. I would think that, as a Mistress, you'd revel in that power and know how to use it to every possible advantage. Why would you want to be a man? So what if you would be a bit bigger and stronger than most females; big deal. You also have ALL this crap shoved onto your shoulders about how you're supposed to step up to the plate but don't be too demanding and do this but not that and you have to ask women on dates but if you come on too strong, she might just accuse you of being a stalker and if the sex is bad, you can be accused of being a rapist.

Though ... In your case ... It sounds like you might actually -want- that last part. I dunno.

As for the men who complain that their wives won't give them what they want in bed; I kind of wonder about his approach. I know that for me, the wrong approach kills everything. And thats not just about sex either. If you approach me with quiet confidence and allow me to feel safe and secure in my little world, I'm far more likely to be open to trying something new. Its all about inspiration; not brute force.


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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:34:36 AM   
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Also, there's a lot of power in being a woman.


you dont say??


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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:37:14 AM   
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So, your wife would be married to a rapist and abuser?

Lovely.



I probably wouldn't get married. 


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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:39:10 AM   
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Also, there's a lot of power in being a woman.


you dont say??




amen. I agree.
I'm so glad I'm a woman for many reasons but mainly that one.
But I know I'd be trouble if I had been a man.



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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:43:26 AM   
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amen. I agree.
I'm so glad I'm a woman for many reasons but mainly that one.
But I know I'd be trouble if I had been a man.


when i lived a man (well before i knew of myself) i had no dates with women...now that i am one...i have dated a few and can get a man if i wanted to...as im often hit on by them in real life.


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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 10:46:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressPav

You ever hear men cry and complain that their wives won't give them head, or anal sex or whatever?  I get such a kick out of that...it really makes me laugh because aren't men supposed to be the ruler of the house? 

Gods, I'd get into sooo much trouble if I were a man.  If the female I was with didn't want to do "this or that", I would sooo break that bitch.
If she didn't like something, she would be taught to learn to love it. I'd probably end up in prison. 



Wow... what a keeper.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 11:17:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		lolololol what a grrreat post!

If I were a man I would probably have ended up being a lawyer rather than agronomist.  If I'd made the same sort of mistakes in life that I've made as a woman I'd have been the worst of the lot, you know, the self centered self obcessed sort of fellow who buys a Mazerati at age 48 and fornicates all weekend while the wife raises the children...the kind of egotist who has significant others stashed at various condos across the US...... I never thought of it this way before but I certainly don't like what I see!

I might have even been stupid enough to have run for president with those skeletons in My closet and then end up crushed and eviscerated by age 50 having to re-invent Myself.  Eeegads!

lolololol thanks for the idea, I'll have to set about seriously improving My masculine side.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 11:55:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting. 
If I were simply me born male, I'd likely be very similar to where I am now, except likely in a few fistfights but higher up in my profession
I had a good dad with a strong ethic, so I'd likely be married with kids.

If I were the current ME switched into a similar male body:  WOO HOO! 
Me + testosterone + proportionally taller and stronger than average + no chance of getting pregnant?!?  
I'd be the most narcissistic gay Dom, taller and stronger than average, fucking every smart nice cute guy's mouth AND ass as soon as his STD screens came back negative.  Line me up a rack of bike cops, and call Me MASTER!  Never smoked, did drugs or alcohol, so no need for Viagra, boys, just kneel down, open wide, and
BOO YAH!

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 12:06:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressPav

You ever hear men cry and complain that their wives won't give them head, or anal sex or whatever?  I get such a kick out of that...it really makes me laugh because aren't men supposed to be the ruler of the house? 

Gods, I'd get into sooo much trouble if I were a man.  If the female I was with didn't want to do "this or that", I would sooo break that bitch.
If she didn't like something, she would be taught to learn to love it. I'd probably end up in prison. 

Mistresses, what kind of man would you be?




You sound like you would be the type of man who we would read about in the paper DEAD because his woman set his bed on fire while he was asleep. I'd give it chuckle, I think all abusers, rapists etc do not need to breathe.

What kind of a man would I be? Probably not much different than I am now. Hopefully that ridiculous "macho code" wouldn't have ruined me to the point of being a neanderthal. I am an easy going type person, intelligent, opinionated, open minded, Dominant and fair. I'm not going to force someone to do something that will damage them, they haven't consented too or have me arrested for. Somehow prison just doesn't appeal to me and neither does being a mindless brute.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 12:15:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		If I were a guy I'd probably be a lot like I am as a girl -- love football, love good beers, love the outdoors, love joking around and having fun. Don't cuddle a lot after sex, don't endlessly overanalyze what I enjoy and what I do, just roll with the punches and get on with it.

Being a guy would probably have a very negative impact on my handbag collection and my love of makeup, however.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 12:22:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would be a little more simpathic to a womens feelings if i was a man being a woman now i know all the ups and downs like hormones and the visiter every month     my husband used to complain i never gave him head i discussed with him how that is all he ever wanted and maybe i just wanted to fuck or have him go down on me (yes i stay shaved)  he them found out that if he quite asking me for head he gets it on a regular basis i enjoy doing it but not if you are going to "make" me do it and i understand the whole Master/sub/slave thing but if someone does not want to do something sexual then no is no they can be punished but not made to do it if you make them do it it is RAPE

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 12:23:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

If I were a guy I'd probably be a lot like I am as a girl -- love football, love good beers, love the outdoors, love joking around and having fun. Don't cuddle a lot after sex, don't endlessly overanalyze what I enjoy and what I do, just roll with the punches and get on with it.

Being a guy would probably have a very negative impact on my handbag collection and my love of makeup, however.



I was watching Samantha Brown in a show on TV.  She generally annoys me but she was in a womens show store and the comment was made women have so many choices of shoes but men have only several  brown and black.  The other comment...women can own a hundred shoes and men only have 3.
 
I LMAO.  Have you ever seen a man's shoe collection?  I am sure no man alive can fill a room with shoes and still have none to wear.
 

 
 

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 12:32:03 PM   
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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 1:19:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		If I had been born male, I would have the same personality as I have now, I think -- the only difference is that I wouldn't have been in a position where, while still too young to know better, I would have had -quite- as many instances of "good girls don't -do- those kinds of things", or "that's no fit job/career for a young lady" -- and with my personality, I probably wouldn't have had to deal with the other end either (where, as a male, I might select more 'feminine', gender-inappropriate jobs). I think, though, that I wouldn't have spent so much of my youth trying to be "daddy's perfect little girl", and might have been more like my brother, and ended up a tattoo artist and piercer and a biker.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 1:21:04 PM   
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But definitely a firm and tartish crossdresser.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 3:43:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have often said that if I'd been born male, I'd be a leather daddy.

Just can't see myself being vanilla, can't see myself being a bastard, and frankly I most women too damn annoying to be straight.

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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 4:51:04 PM   
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RE: What Kind of Man Would You Be? - 8/10/2008 5:00:18 PM   
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A metro-sexual man whore.


rob schneider?


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