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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

Lust...I want to hurt him/her...I want him/her to suffer for me
 
Passion...building while I create the suffering and he/she endures it
 
Sex...Yes, maybe even before he/she is removed from the apparatus, if I am so inclined.  Or, maybe while he/she watches me with someone else.  Or maybe just with someone else.
 
It all goes together for me, one follows the other, though they don't always follow with the same person. 

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ORIGINAL: MsMinx811

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For me ..[sm=imnewhere.gif] since I am married but it is not a quote"vanilla" marriage and my role within that context between he and I is quite different from what I would have from playmates/subs I would enjoy time with, we have set parameters on this. Since I am Dom for the most part ... to me to preserve what I consider to be the most important relationship I asked my husband what he would and would not be comfortable with. I can say at the start we have played together with a dear friend of ours but that was a "love" thing and not a swing thing because for us it wouldn't be with anyone else. I can't see that happening to be outside of a deep friend ship so because of that I didn't click on the Polylife either because,it just wouldn't work in our dynamic.[sm=2cents.gif]
It isn't just my body as in Lust that that I bring into a bed with someone, it's my entire being, it's the way I'm wired. I have learned that for myself those kind of behaviors are self destuctive for myself; because of that and since I have that marriage relationship, in my "BDSM Dom" role outside of my home, I won't indulge in actual intercourse with any partner nor with out my husband knowing full well with whom and when all activity is taking place.
He meets them on the first date along with me and approves or denies with my decision to let it go further than that. It is just one of the "Love" "Passion" aspects I am keeping for my own home and bedroom. He is into playing too but with him he isn't quite ready to go on the out for anything else other than just he and I. 
And speaking of Love.Lust,Passion.., I have something I wrte several years ago that I am working on getting published together with other work.


THE BEGINNING PATH
 
I am : I'm not
I'm Everything: I'm nothing
What is the real: What is the Fake?
 
Can you tell me who I am
I seem to have Forgotten?
Twisted in Swirling colors
Sharp points as thorns on a Rose
 
    Passion: Lust
Two often mixed things with others
Passion, Lust mixed with anger
    or denied Want
Lust, An Animalistic carnal
    material thing
Burned: both from within
Nothing left but soot and
   dirty Ashes.
 
Written by myself
4-23-98
 
 
It is copywrited so if you like it please tell me before you use so I can give you my name to establish with it.
 
 MsM,

Welcome to CM and the forums, I do like your poem and with your permission i may include it in a book that I have been writing for the last 5 years [I may never finish it]

CP
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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ORIGINAL: batshalom

My current relationship does not include sex - I cannot distinguish sex and love and I simply don't have time for an entanglement of that sort. I am a service sub. I serve. He and I are attracted to each other and the tension, at times (and abstinence) is lustful and passionate, which works really well for me. I am passionate about his work. I am passionate about serving him well. I am passionately his sub.

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

In our relationship Lust, Passion and Sex are absolutely inclusive!
 
  For me, Passion is always a requirement because if I can't serve with passion then what's the point.  I've done without lust, I've served without sex, but always with passion.