MsCfromMelbourne
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Apologies alwayswatchingu, I too assumed you were a submissive male. Should have read your profile before replying!! Also I replied quickly by recycling earlier posts, which often loses a bit in translation! If you were asking as a female Dominant, my advice would still be to get the sub to complete a BDSM Checklist. They are cheesy, but effective. There just is no guaranteed sure fire, magic bullet way to humiliate subs. Everyone is the product of different life experience and hence different triggers. Once a took a sub to a fetish store to be fitted for a cock ring......by the big burly gay salesmen, not by me!!. he was humiliated having his package measured and fitted by a leatherboy Dom......and felt very submissive to me. Being co-topped by a Dom and a Domme is a privilege. So I took another sub along for the same "surprise" gift. This sub found the experience revolting, got angry and would not wear his ring. Needless to say he didn't last much longer. See how the exact same scene can be great for one guy and disaster for the next??
< Message edited by MsCfromMelbourne -- 8/14/2008 4:25:28 PM >
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