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JstL00k1ng -> RE: can a sadist change his spots (8/14/2008 12:47:47 AM)
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I tend to agree. You said nothing in your question about play. But apparently, it's assumed since your question is conserned with can he control himself. Well, yes. A sadist can control him or herself. The question you should be asking yourself though is will he?
I've been around the block enough times to know that it's foolish to go into a play session without trust, or someone else looking out for your welbeing, as someone put it while you're bound and helplessly at his mercy. I also know that a sadist who plays without releasing that side won't get much satisfaction in the long run. Short term? Sure. But again, I agree that he will get bored with you quickly.
On the other hand, open your mind to the possibility that he's considering the fact that many innexperienced subbies aren't aware that they're into pain, at any level, because they're afraid of it, or just have their minds programmed to be turned off by it.
Not to mention, what's pain to one is pleasure to another. Take flogging for example. Many a sub takes pleasure in a good flogging, while at the same time, another would consider the whole ordeal painful. Just like knife play. Or fire play. Or hot wax.
Did he read your profile? Perhaps he did, and perhaps he didn't. But you shouldn't be worried about that. Turn your focus to the real issues at hand.
And g'luck.
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