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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 9:50:21 AM

submissivemale76

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woohoo sent 700 emails in 2 hours ... and 64 are willing to accept me as there slave ... wow ....

but i am feeling bad as you girls r really replying rudely ....

so if i feel bad means i dont want to obey you ....

and if i dont want to obey girls i think i am dominant .....

very confusing

let me email 700 sub emails and ask them if they need master

wooohooo its all lot of fun i am enjoying it

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 9:56:04 AM

SweetDommes

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivemale76

woohoo sent 700 emails in 2 hours ... and 64 are willing to accept me as there slave ... wow ....

but i am feeling bad as you girls r really replying rudely ....

so if i feel bad means i dont want to obey you ....

and if i dont want to obey girls i think i am dominant .....

very confusing

let me email 700 sub emails and ask them if they need master

wooohooo its all lot of fun i am enjoying it

700 e-mails in 2 hours ... 64 replied that they are willing to have you as "their" slave ...

Let me explain something to you. Someone who is willing to accept you as a slave with one and only one e-mail of communication between the two of you, is NOT someone that is practicing anything remotely resembling Safety or Sanity, and quite possibly doesn't practice Consensuality either.

I do wish you luck, but from past experience (of my own, and hearing about the experiences of the submissives that we have chatted with over the years), if 1 of the 64 actually follows through with anything resembling a real D/s relationship, you can count yourself has being the recipient of a minor miracle.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 10:03:11 AM

siamsa24

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It is at this point that I am starting to think that this individual is just putting up a fake profile and posting these messages just to get some flames going or something.
I think at this point I am going to stop posting on this thread as it is only giving him the attention that he is obviously seeking.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 10:09:37 AM

thetammyjo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivemale76

oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol

either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves

If this is in fact what you sent out to 60 women I can see what you haven't gotten many replies.

What you say above is very generic, the fact you send it out to so many people strongly suggests your criteria for finding a woman interesting is also very generic.

Dominants are interested in people who will serve them and submit to them as individuals. You need to treat them as individuals first and foremost if you even want a reply.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 10:33:17 AM

orfunboi

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i did a quick search and only found 34 dominant women from India....could be part of the problem....your whole attitude about women only wanting a free servant, and the idea of emailing anybody with a pussy, no matter WHO she happens to be, also could be a problem. Maybe you should rethink your approach a bit, it might help.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 11:05:54 AM

veronicaofML

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>>>>>>>>SweetDommes<<<<<<<
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now THERE is someone to listen to!

quick and to the point.!
one Gal knows Her stuff!

take care OP

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 12:56:21 PM

troch

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelMI

walking into a singles club and shouting to all the ladies there "Pick Me, Pick Me"

Maybe it is more like standing at the front door next to a trash can handing out business cards. Leaves you with a full can of trash and a hefty Kinkos tab. I have been here for at least a month and have yet to make contact with one Domme. Part of it is because they are flooded with e-mail from people that are playing the odds. 700 e-mails? How can you write 700 different e-mails in 2 hours? Maybe you think that all Dommes are the same and are fine with a form letter. Without giving respect, it is hard to expect it in return.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 1:25:16 PM

veronicaofML

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I have been here for at least a month and have yet to make contact with one Domme.
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takes longer than THAT!

it took ME a year trying to find what i have NOW!
and another year to get what i had the FIRST time around.

month? may as well say a day.

take care
it's out there.......just don't lose heart!

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 2:43:01 PM

ToServeIsToLive

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivemale76

woohoo sent 700 emails in 2 hours ... and 64 are willing to accept me as there slave ... wow ....

but i am feeling bad as you girls r really replying rudely ....

so if i feel bad means i dont want to obey you ....

and if i dont want to obey girls i think i am dominant .....

very confusing

let me email 700 sub emails and ask them if they need master

wooohooo its all lot of fun i am enjoying it

Why do i get the feeling he is going to be sending large sums of money via western union?

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 2:49:06 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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quote:

It is at this point that I am starting to think that this individual is just putting up a fake profile and posting these messages just to get some flames going or something.
I think at this point I am going to stop posting on this thread as it is only giving him the attention that he is obviously seeking.

I agree, we've been had! M

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 3:10:28 PM

veronicaofML

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I agree, we've been had! M
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i TRY to give benefit of doubt but just in case...........................

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 5:41:01 PM

mitsu

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80 subs for each Mistress? Sounds like a party to me!

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 6:12:02 PM

Misstoyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivemale76

woohoo sent 700 emails in 2 hours ... and 64 are willing to accept me as there slave ... wow ....

but i am feeling bad as you girls r really replying rudely ....

so if i feel bad means i dont want to obey you ....

and if i dont want to obey girls i think i am dominant .....

very confusing

let me email 700 sub emails and ask them if they need master

wooohooo its all lot of fun i am enjoying it

Actually, intentional or not, I found this profoundly accurate about the online experience for a lot of men. Occasionally, they take the time to write two different profiles, but oftentimes they don't even bother. lol

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 11:24:39 PM

Sardax

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And don't forget that not only are male subs looking there is an equal if not larger number of female submissives looking at the same time.To judge by many of the profiles of the dominant ladies here, they take priority over the males -and are indeed preferred to males.How many times do I see "No Males" as an injunction?

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/21/2005 11:26:24 PM

michaelMI

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women have all the fun...LOL

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/22/2005 1:31:24 AM

RealmOfSenses

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Here's a novel idea.. Use the search facility this site offers you and type in a) the area you live in, B) what kinds of things you're prepared to do/interested in and VOILA! you should get a nice little list of potential mistresses. Now look through them and carefully select one or two that takes your fancy then offer up a nice friendly "hello!" message, no begging or propostioning. Maybe even use a bit of the good natured wit and humour you may have hidden deep down inside yourself...then maybe..just Maybe you may find yourself a serious contender to follow up on , rather than get lead of a wild goose chase by the hundreds of fakes on this site. Works for me.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/22/2005 2:08:35 AM

andros

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is it really so hard to find a mistress ?
DO YOU REALY BELIEVE IN CHAT-STATS?

why dont all girls of world want someone to serve them ? they r getting free servent what else they need ?
IF I WOULD BE FEMALE WHY SHOULD I PUT UP WITH AN "EXTRAVAGANT" DREAMER? IF YOU CAN NOT EXPLAIN AND INTRUDUCE YOURSELF YOU MIGHT HAVE A PROBLEM IN YOUR INTER PERSONAL SKILLS. SPAM MAILINGS ARE CERTAINLY NOT THE WAY.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/22/2005 2:15:41 AM

submissivemale76

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spam= commercial mails and m not askin cash from gals ,,,,,,,,,,,,, so dont call me spammer

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/22/2005 4:24:55 AM

JohnWarren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivemale76

spam= commercial mails and m not askin cash from gals ,,,,,,,,,,,,, so dont call me spammer

Maybe you aren't a spammer from that definition but you are a troller and a pretty unskilled one. It's doesn't paint an attractive picture of you and most people find it a bit insulting.

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RE: is it impossible to find mistress - 11/22/2005 7:17:52 AM

orfunboi

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sardax

And don't forget that not only are male subs looking there is an equal if not larger number of female submissives looking at the same time.To judge by many of the profiles of the dominant ladies here, they take priority over the males -and are indeed preferred to males.How many times do I see "No Males" as an injunction?

That's odd, out of the 4 dominant women i know in real life, that post here, i have only seen 2 of them show an interest in playing with women, maybe if you do a search on Domme's looking for sub men, you will come up with more.

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