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submissivemale76 -> is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 5:00:50 AM)
last day i was chatting with a lady .. and she told me that only one submissive male out of 80 gets mistress ??? so there is 80 subs for each domme .. or only 1.4% submales get mistress ??? is it true ? is it really so hard to find a mistress ? why dont all girls of world want someone to serve them ? they r getting free servent what else they need ?

imtempting -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 5:05:00 AM)
You aint been around many females have you?

submissivemale76 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 5:23:40 AM)
You aint been around many females have you? what do you mean by it ? i am still virgin lol

thetammyjo -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 5:49:31 AM)
80 to 1, huh? Did she happen to mention how she came up with her numbers? As for finding someone, I've owned Fox now for over 6 years and I've had over 2 dozen partners in the past 12 years or so -- I'm very very picky though and I could have scened with easily a 100 people in that time. I also found Fox when I all ready had one other submissive in training and owned another slave -- I wasn't looking to add a third and he showed up at local events. In my experience the more actively I search, the less I find. When I'm just myself, I tend to find partners more easily.

michaelMI -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 5:52:19 AM)
it's not difficult to find a Mistress but it takes time to get to know Her and for Her to get to know you.enjoy the journey.

submissivemale76 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 6:02:55 AM)
oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)]

ragdoll -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 6:33:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)] Or maybe they want someone who seems more genuine?? If i were a dominant female i wouldn't want something to do with a man who was just randomly sending notes to every single dominant woman he saw. That's kind of like walking up to every woman in real life and saying "Are you interested in being my girlfriend?" ... then walking up to another woman "Are you interested in being my girlfriend?" (you don't even KNOW these people!!) It's pretty clear that not only are you a virgin but you have poor social skills. Most women (that i know) don't want someone to approach them (online) with a one line sentence filled with misspelled words by someone who isn't even interested in "them" personally.. but is rather just looking for "any" woman. Errr?? Maybe if you try to get to know someone a little first and send a personalized message to people..? that might work a little better. Edit: Or maybe this whole topic is a joke....??

pollux -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 6:36:36 AM)
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JohnWarren -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 6:53:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)] You ARE kidding I hope! I can't think of an approach (aside from "Hi, I'm a serial killer; would you like to be next?) more likely to get rejection. Women have the idea that they should be desired for who they are rather than what they can do for you. Until you see them as people, rather than interchangable inflatable dolls with whips, you are doomed to be alone.

MissHarlet -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 7:08:08 AM)
I am amazed you got any replies at all !! With such a rude email .. I would have deleted it immediately. Most of us do not wish to be a notch on a submissived belt nor do we wish to accept the submission of anyone so desperate! Everyone wants/needs to feel special and desired .. and that approach certainly doesnt do that. Either you are an idiot or so very naive that you need professional help. Perhaps if you tried getting to know us and letting us get to know you and used common courtesy you might have a different outcome.

SweetSarijane -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 7:15:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren You ARE kidding I hope! I can't think of an approach (aside from "Hi, I'm a serial killer; would you like to be next?) more likely to get rejection. Women have the idea that they should be desired for who they are rather than what they can do for you. Until you see them as people, rather than interchangable inflatable dolls with whips, you are doomed to be alone. Beautifully put.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 7:41:51 AM)
quote: oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves This is the exact behavior that will keep you single and never able to connect with a woman... Especially calling her dommy! Yuck... Learn some social skills, read about courtship and what it means to be a gentleman, DO NOT TROLL (don't send an email to everybody saying "are you interested). Oy, you have so much to learn.. M

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 7:43:19 AM)
quote: I can't think of an approach (aside from "Hi, I'm a serial killer; would you like to be next?) more likely to get rejection. [sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif][sm=lol.gif] Thanks for the laugh, M

submissivemale76 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 7:51:45 AM)
i got 7 replies just now who said they are intrested in me ... let me know whats rude in my email thats what i sent to everyone " respected mam , do you need submissive e-mail" however replies i am getting on this message board are very rude and it sounds that i am being publically humilated duh dont you ladies have respect for males at all ? is that how you treat your subs.

siamsa24 -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 8:04:04 AM)
It's the fact that you sent it to everyone I think that ragdoll said it very well when she said: quote: That's kind of like walking up to every woman in real life and saying "Are you interested in being my girlfriend?" ... then walking up to another woman "Are you interested in being my girlfriend?" (you don't even KNOW these people!!) It makes you seem desperate and willing to "do" anyone.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 8:04:39 AM)
quote: i got 7 replies just now who said they are intrested in me ... let me know whats rude in my email thats what i sent to everyone " respected mam , do you need submissive e-mail" however replies i am getting on this message board are very rude and it sounds that i am being publically humilated duh dont you ladies have respect for males at all ? is that how you treat your subs. I would be willing to bet not one of those who responded to your mass mail would follow through to anything, but far be it for me not to wish you luck with those. Respect? re·spect Audio pronunciation of "respect" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (r-spkt) tr.v. re·spect·ed, re·spect·ing, re·spects 1. To feel or show deferential regard for; esteem. You say you treat all females who say they are dominant the same by sending a generic "do you want me letter".. That sounds respectful to you? Your thinking and approach do not inspire respect in me, but hang around, maybe some other ladies will show you some respect. [:D] M

jamesthehumanrug -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 8:37:33 AM)
greetings submale 1976 im not sure i understand your math. i don't know the answer ,to your submissive questions. ...i do have ,that 4 part even ,when i'm ,not a standin'up!

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 8:53:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)] Would you go up to 60 women in a bar and ask if they are interested in you? I would encourage you to be a bit more selective in your search process. Why would a Domme care about you if you are just going to move on to the next one that comes along? You seem to be searching for the word "Domme", not a person. Be well, Julie

michaelMI -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 9:17:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale76 oh to verify the fact i am sending private message to every dommy enters in room ... asking " maam are you intrested to be my mistress " sent about 60 requests .. recieve 7 replies with answers "no" lol either all mistresses r lesbians or they dont want virgin slaves[:)] please excuse me for saying, but, with that attitude, is it a wonder?

michaelMI -> RE: is it impossible to find mistress (11/21/2005 9:19:47 AM)
i agree ragdoll, that's like walking into a singles club and shouting to all the ladies there "Pick Me, Pick Me"

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