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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/18/2008 10:40:23 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		What ever happend to being trust worthy and keeping your hands off your dick with out gear, just because you're willing to do as told, because you took on the position of submissive to her Dominant.

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If she is serious, she should send you a chastity device. That's the way to do it.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/18/2008 10:50:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Does not compute in my mind.  I'm sorry I have no real advice.  I'm more into Elevating my partners sex drive, not stamping it out. 

Best of luck to you..... 

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 2:23:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: boundinside

i have just met a new Mistress online who wants me to be her sub.  W/we had are first phone conversation last night and though at first it was a little awkward, all and all i'd say it turned out alright.  Anyways, it has already been 3 days since i lasted "did the deed," and she told me yesterday that there was to be no more touching of my cock without her given consent.  Now granted this is typical but note that the longest i have honestly gone is somewhere around 5-6 days without anything...and that was hard.  So i need feel in getting ideas or methods o whatever of how to stp the urges of touching myself because i really want to be as good of sub towards her as possible.

Self imposed chastity.
ask your Mistress about this.
She might even impose chastity upon you if you beg nicely.


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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 6:25:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

What ever happend to being trust worthy and keeping your hands off your dick with out gear, just because you're willing to do as told, because you took on the position of submissive to her Dominant.



According to the op, he just met her online and this was the first time they had spoken. I would have to at least meet someone before I gave over control of my body to her. If this is something the op really wants, then I guess he is going to have to learn control....real quick.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 8:05:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: boundinside

i have just met a new Mistress online who wants me to be her sub. W/we had are first phone conversation last night and though at first it was a little awkward, all and all i'd say it turned out alright. Anyways, it has already been 3 days since i lasted "did the deed," and she told me yesterday that there was to be no more touching of my cock without her given consent. Now granted this is typical but note that the longest i have honestly gone is somewhere around 5-6 days without anything...and that was hard. So i need feel in getting ideas or methods o whatever of how to stp the urges of touching myself because i really want to be as good of sub towards her as possible.


Question: Why would you let someone you just met who is not your mistress/dominant yet, your words above not mine, control your sexuality?

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 3:02:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Even still, just met knew them for months, the question's the same.

If you're told to keep your hands off your dick, why does someone who's serious about doing as the dominant says, need a chastity device to follow orders, my question still remains, why do they need a psycical device to do as they're  told and keep their hands off their dick, what happend to being able to do as your told with out devices enforcing it.

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

What ever happend to being trust worthy and keeping your hands off your dick with out gear, just because you're willing to do as told, because you took on the position of submissive to her Dominant.



According to the op, he just met her online and this was the first time they had spoken. I would have to at least meet someone before I gave over control of my body to her. If this is something the op really wants, then I guess he is going to have to learn control....real quick.


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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 3:22:08 PM   
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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 3:27:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: boundinside

she told me yesterday that there was to be no more touching of my cock without her given consent.



Well I guess you can sit down to pee and use a sponge in the shower, biting your lower lip helps if it itches. As for the rest I guess you're going to have to do as she says.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 3:41:47 PM   
SageFemmexx


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Status: offline 		Sorry, I don't think anyone is impressed by your plight. Too many of us have seen the instant domination thing. Face it, you don't have much of a connection to begin with, why would you give control over your body to someone you've never met?

Sage.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 4:04:12 PM   
DavidS8ist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: boundinside

i have just met a new Mistress online who wants me to be her sub.  W/we had are first phone conversation last night and though at first it was a little awkward, all and all i'd say it turned out alright.  Anyways, it has already been 3 days since i lasted "did the deed," and she told me yesterday that there was to be no more touching of my cock without her given consent.  Now granted this is typical but note that the longest i have honestly gone is somewhere around 5-6 days without anything...and that was hard.  So i need feel in getting ideas or methods o whatever of how to stp the urges of touching myself because i really want to be as good of sub towards her as possible.


You had one phone conversation with some broad who may or may not be what she says she is and you're depriving your palm of great sex.

You don't know if this woman brushes her teeth, collects welfare, shaves her pits, but you're willing to give her chastity.

Dude, I have a bridge you need to buy, it's beautiful, connects Manhattan to Brooklyn, granite and steel construction, you can make a fortune on the tolls.  Just send me a cashier's check for 20 million, it's yours.

D.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 4:47:29 PM   
submissiveboy76


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Status: offline 		I actually own a CB6000.  Even though I'm not lucky enough to have a key holder, I like to wear it from time to time.  I find that just having it on - even though I have the key - is at least somewhat of an impediment to being able to pleasure myself.  If you're feeling the urge, put it on and pretend that Mistress has the key.  It sounds silly, but it's at least something between your hand and your cock.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/19/2008 9:53:22 PM   
boundinside


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Status: offline 		Alright, maybe i was to literal.  W/we had been talking fo alomost a month via online, and no shit there are possibilities that she might not be who she says she is.  Yet for some strange reason i ask for advice and all i get is criticism.  i mean honestly, if i wanted to hear the no good losers on here try to put othes down then i would ask, but until then keep your negative opinions to yourself.  The reason i was willing to give up control so quickly was not just because of simple loyalty and respect for Your Mistress/Domme, but also because i am quite new to this and am not sure of the procedures that should be followed...if any such exist.  i asked people for advice, not negative or sarcastics remarks aimed at putting the op down.  In my opinion that accomplishes nothing, other then the fact that it shows who the real trolls are.  Since i have first gained interests in the forums on here they have changed greatly...and not for the better.  Out of two pages of responses, less then a handfull were actually helpful.  And as for the others, disrespect your own forum posts not someone else's

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 3:18:47 AM   
sillyslaveboy


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Mmm.. She tells me. Just listen to that - SHE tells me She wants me to do something for Her. Something that simple, depending on me and me alone. She honored me by using her voice instead of letting me guess. And mhm, i make it so willingly come true the same moment She asked.
<random stuff />

i would only ask Her if i can touch my cock as i need to wash it after emptying the bladder or shall i call Her on the cellphone to ask for permission.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 4:02:49 AM   
DavidS8ist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: boundinside

Alright, maybe i was to literal. <snip>Yet for some strange reason i ask for advice and all i get is criticism.  i mean honestly, if i wanted to hear the no good losers on here try to put othes down then i would ask, but until then keep your negative opinions to yourself.  The reason i was willing to give up control so quickly was not just because of simple loyalty and respect for Your Mistress/Domme, but also because i am quite new to this and am not sure of the procedures that should be followed...if any such exist.  <snip>


You got the responses you got because of the post you made.  It's as if you hadn't read *any* threads at all, just listened to some on-line chat and phone nonsense from a would-be mistress.  Let me ask you something bluntly:  if a vanilla woman you had met on line asked you to send her money, would you do it or would your bullshit detector tell you to run for the hills?

But a woman calling herself a mistress whom you've not met, not interacted with in real time face to face, demands your chastity and you're willing to do it.  Why?  Are you compelled to submit to this woman because of who and what she really is, or are you submitting to your fantasy?  Where's your common sense?

You admit to not being sure "...of the procedures to be followed" and then add "...if any such exist", yet you go for this woman's demands hook, line, and sinker.  Why not explore what other people's experiences have been *first*, then decide if you want to give it up for an on-line interaction?

Dude, get torqued at the responses you received.  Go ahead.  But then look in the mirror and get torqued at yourself.  You'll delete all those e-mails from Africa offering to share millions with you if you only send them 10G's.  But you give up orgasms for someone whose perfume you haven't yet smelled.  Think about it.

Yeah, some of us, myself included, were snarky.  But damn, it's hard to not be when you've been around and heard this stuff over and over and over.  When folks keep talking about using common sense, about not being gullible, about not making a commitment to anything or anyone unless and until you're sure you *can't*, and then someone posts about an on-line demand for chastity, it's like someone asking for advice without first having read the archives.  It's like someone asking for free medical attention after diving into an empty pool without having checked for water first.

So call us losers and trolls.  Whatever.  But use your common sense next time.

D.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 4:46:32 AM   
badlilthang


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quote:

ORIGINAL: boundinside

i have just met a new Mistress online who wants me to be her sub.  W/we had are first phone conversation last night and though at first it was a little awkward, all and all i'd say it turned out alright.  Anyways, it has already been 3 days since i lasted "did the deed," and she told me yesterday that there was to be no more touching of my cock without her given consent. 

My first thought is - you just met the Lady - ONE call - and She is already giving orders? No way...i am sorry - but one phone call for me would not be enough to give Someone control over me - rt or vt. i would have to talk a lot more - and know this person a hell of a lot better - but that is me.

Communication is a must - and if you next time Yyou talk on the phone, explain to Her that you think it does not feel right or at least a bit premature to do this to you before you even know Her - and She gets mad and hangs up or break contact - safe to say She is a player and NOT a Domme.

Any relationship takes time to build - a D/s relationship more than anything, in my opinion. And a last thought - if it feels wrong  - it usually IS wrong...

edited for typos...


< Message edited by badlilthang -- 8/20/2008 4:49:54 AM >

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 4:57:26 AM   
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But you give up orgasms for someone whose perfume you haven't yet smelled. Think about it.
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D.

**i smell like wildflowers...can i have Your orgasms, please?**


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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 6:11:39 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Even still, just met knew them for months, the question's the same.

If you're told to keep your hands off your dick, why does someone who's serious about doing as the dominant says, need a chastity device to follow orders, my question still remains, why do they need a psycical device to do as they're  told and keep their hands off their dick, what happend to being able to do as your told with out devices enforcing it.


Yes, I agree, once your have committed yourself to a women, you should be able to obey her without a device to help keep your hands away.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 6:35:28 AM   
DavidS8ist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: badlilthang

**i smell like wildflowers...can i have Your orgasms, please?**



Sure.  Now all we have to negotiate is which orifice...

;)
D.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 6:39:31 AM   
badlilthang


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidS8ist

quote:

ORIGINAL: badlilthang

**i smell like wildflowers...can i have Your orgasms, please?**



Sure.  Now all we have to negotiate is which orifice...

;)
D.

***what? i can not have them in all three? - i have to chose?....well..darn...ponders a bit on where i really want them***


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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 7:01:54 AM   
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don't touch your peepee.

I actually have no advice, I just wanted to see this taken out of context. Yep, it is just as funny as the first time I read it <s>

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