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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 7:02:22 AM

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***what? i can not have them in all three? - i have to chose?....well..darn...ponders a bit on where i really want them***

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Yeah, well, I was lyin' about the "negotiate" thing anyway...

All three it is!

:)
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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 7:05:32 AM

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***what? i can not have them in all three? - i have to chose?....well..darn...ponders a bit on where i really want them***

Yeah, well, I was lyin' about the "negotiate" thing anyway...

All three it is!

:)
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***i had a feeling this was non negotiable...LOL..***

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 7:05:39 AM

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i have just met a new Mistress online who wants me to be her sub. W/we had are first phone conversation last night and though at first it was a little awkward, all and all i'd say it turned out alright. Anyways, it has already been 3 days since i lasted "did the deed," and she told me yesterday that there was to be no more touching of my cock without her given consent. Now granted this is typical but note that the longest i have honestly gone is somewhere around 5-6 days without anything...and that was hard. So i need feel in getting ideas or methods o whatever of how to stp the urges of touching myself because i really want to be as good of sub towards her as possible.

You had your first phone conversation last night? And it was awkward? And you have given her control of your emissions?

Hmmmmm

Since we (you and I) have now had this exchange of posting, I am going to take control of your breathing. You may not inhale again until I say so, starting now.

Now this is just way beyond anything a proper Domina would do! It is completely sick.

I knew there was a reason we get along so well <s>

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 7:09:02 AM

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what happend to being able to do as your told with out devices enforcing it.

What! You mean that there was such a time as this that you speak of? Tell me more.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/20/2008 8:02:07 AM

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Aw come on you guys, give the OP a break. He is new to BDSM. Why wasn't it only a week or so ago he was wondering whether he'd find a Domme or have the chance to be submissive?

Now he's got the chance to be submissive, AND he's found a Domme. Now you got to admit it, it's progress. He's striving and learning.

Now all he's got to work out is whether he's going to be submissive to his Domme or to his todger.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 3:48:07 AM

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i'm not native English speaker. But if i take it literally, "not touching" wouldn't necessarily mean "not masturbating". On several occassions i had my hands tied behind my back and i had to achieve orgasm by rubbing myself on a rough wall. Just a thought. :)

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 6:42:51 AM

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i'm not native English speaker. But if i take it literally, "not touching" wouldn't necessarily mean "not masturbating". On several occassions i had my hands tied behind my back and i had to achieve orgasm by rubbing myself on a rough wall. Just a thought. :)

I don't even want to think about what the wall looked like when you were done.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 7:28:27 AM

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I don't even want to think about what the wall looked like when you were done.

Like a clean licked bit? :) It was concrete one, hey, no big deal.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 12:04:05 PM

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I don't even want to think about what the wall looked like when you were done.

Like a clean licked bit? :) It was concrete one, hey, no big deal.

Oh, well, in that case, I have some walls that need cleaning.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 12:58:34 PM

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Oh, well, in that case, I have some walls that need cleaning.

Cleaned from fresh cum? That's all what was all about in this story.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 1:03:51 PM

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I have a few walls you can lick clean when you finish up there.

As far as the OP........

Dude, if you really are into this woman you are just going to have to tough it out. It won't fall off, I promise.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 1:04:22 PM

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Oh, well, in that case, I have some walls that need cleaning.

Cleaned from fresh cum? That's all what was all about in this story.

How about cat sick? That's kind of similar to semen.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 1:13:15 PM

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perhapes you can ask your domme how long around-about, are you going to be sexless? That may give you something to work towards,rather than a blanket "you can't touch your pee-pee". Its easier to do something if there is a goal in sight.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 1:34:28 PM

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How about cat sick? That's kind of similar to semen.

The phrase "cat sick" makes little sense to me, by any stretch of the imagination, Sir/Lady (the profile's hidden).

Assuming non-typo:
i am not involving non-humans. Even if they are sick cats or whatever microorganisms endangered their health. :)

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 3:01:11 PM

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So you are going to put off cumming because someone on the phone told you to do that? If I called you, would you send me money if I told you too? Just curious -- if the answer is yes please send me your phone number.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 3:02:07 PM

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How about cat sick? That's kind of similar to semen.

The phrase "cat sick" makes little sense to me, by any stretch of the imagination, Sir/Lady (the profile's hidden).

Assuming non-typo:
i am not involving non-humans. Even if they are sick cats or whatever microorganisms endangered their health. :)

I'm a female (at least, last time I checked). Yes, my profile is hidden - I wanted a bit of peace and quiet. As English is not your native tongue, here's a quick explanation: Cats throw up fur balls because they clean themselves and the fur collects in their stomach. Sometimes, if they eat too quickly, they also throw up food. This is collectively known as "cat sick." Another way of putting it is "cat vomit." It's usually not a sign of illness in the cat (don't they have cats in Bulgaria?).

My post wasn't intended to encourage the involvement of non-humans. In any case, I don't think my cat would be interested in you (he's neutered). For a one-line joke, this turned out to be rather complicated. And by the way, there is no cat sick on my walls, which I'm sure everyone is really pleased to hear.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 3:09:43 PM

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Alright, maybe i was to literal. W/we had been talking fo alomost a month via online, and no shit there are possibilities that she might not be who she says she is. Yet for some strange reason i ask for advice and all i get is criticism. i mean honestly, if i wanted to hear the no good losers on here try to put othes down then i would ask, but until then keep your negative opinions to yourself. The reason i was willing to give up control so quickly was not just because of simple loyalty and respect for Your Mistress/Domme, but also because i am quite new to this and am not sure of the procedures that should be followed...if any such exist. i asked people for advice, not negative or sarcastics remarks aimed at putting the op down. In my opinion that accomplishes nothing, other then the fact that it shows who the real trolls are. Since i have first gained interests in the forums on here they have changed greatly...and not for the better. Out of two pages of responses, less then a handfull were actually helpful. And as for the others, disrespect your own forum posts not someone else's

My first suggestion is to ignore the people who are making fun of you here and not being helpful. Literally ignore their posts.

If you are fine with submitting to her then that is all that matters okies?

I think you need to tell her how difficult it is and then find ways to distract yourself from any urges to play with yourself. Basic self control, tell yourself that you are abstaining for a reason and that reason is pretty important to you. I'm assuming that she knows you're new to all this? Hopefully she is someone approachable and you can ask her advice on how to not 'handle' yourself.

Again just ignore the people who are upsetting you, don't give them the control, don't let them hurt your feelings. I know that sometimes it isn't easy, especially when your open yourself up and ask for advice. Unfortunately being in an open forum means that you are going to get all sorts of responses.

Sometimes the responses a person hates are the very things they need to consider, why is it effecting you so much etc.
Other times they're just a-holes out to amuse themselves (and their audience) at your expense.

I hope it works out for you and that you have fun. Be open and honest with her is really my best advice.

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 3:30:48 PM

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And by the way, there is no cat sick on my walls

The famous wall was outdoors by the way.

Short turn to the joke:
1. Honestly, i hope that absence of the term in Wikipedia and in a rather rich online dictionary would excuse me for not knowing it.
2. i do count exchange of any bodily outcome(s) as interaction. Thus i would not think it acceptable by the contract.
3. i am just passing through Bulgaria (journal). :) But, having on mind what famine has spread here, i guess the chances are the cats are actually eating their own vomit. :)

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 5:52:13 PM

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op - will power. there really is nothing else. You just have to decide if your desire to be submissive to this person is more important to you than your own primal urges. What you ultimately do will answer that, and perhaps teach you something more about who you are and what you want from this experience

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RE: A Mistress tells you... - 8/21/2008 7:04:37 PM

Jeffff