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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/20/2008 10:00:17 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I've always been attracted to men my own age, give or take a few years in either direction. those much younger or much older than me I find we have nothing at all in common. The generation gap is just too large to really understand each other.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 2:17:07 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Would a slave older than you be revolting to you?

My Master is 9 years younger than I but it wasn't his age that attracted me, it was that He is everything I had hoped for and more.  We are so compatible that it's scarey sometimes.

During a visit to a retirement community a few months ago I noticed an absolutely sweet Harley coming down the street and glanced up to see the rider, his hair and beard as white as snow and my first thought (Master forgive me) was "Oh yeah, I'd do him!"

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 3:22:47 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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Status: offline 		Depends on the individual. My previous who is gone now, was 33 years older than i. My current is only 8 years older than i am, making him the youngest person i've ever been with. 

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 3:24:30 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

During a visit to a retirement community a few months ago I noticed an absolutely sweet Harley coming down the street and glanced up to see the rider, his hair and beard as white as snow and my first thought (Master forgive me) was "Oh yeah, I'd do him!"


LMMFAO! yup, been there, felt that! Something sooo very attractive about a greybeard on a HD. Always has been to me.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 3:29:07 AM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		It's funny.  I'm (mostly) approached by younger men when I prefer someone my age or older.  I don't think age has much to do with anything.  I will admit that I do prefer someone who is or has the ability to be somewhat "physical".  I love doing outdoor stuff...hiking, walking, even camping so an older or a younger man who hated the outdoors wouldn't be a very good match for me.  I will say (huge generalization here) that a lot of older men tend to look for girls a lot younger than they are.  Perhaps, the problem lies there?

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 3:56:37 AM   
slaveinstockings


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Status: offline 		My girlfriend is 28 and I'm 23, the only time it becomes an issue it is not really with the years apart but with the life stages we are in.  She's established in a career while I'm trying to finish school and establish myself.  We're also moving along quicker in the relationship than would normall happen, but a lot of that is because we live in different countries and will have to make some serious commitments in order to make any relationship work for us.  We're not in a Dom/sub relationship but it is something we play around with in the bedroom.  It's always been a fantasy of mine and hers and hopefully it will develop more in the coming year when the distance barrier is broken.



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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 4:45:48 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		i prefer having a dominant who's close to my age or slightly older compared to someone who's younger than 35.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 4:50:46 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		My girl is 19 years younger than I and frankly the age gap doesn't have a negative side to Us. The girl I had just prior was 23 years junior and whilst there was no problem between Us over age, she couldn't let go of "what will other people think?" which in turn caused a problem between Us over it.

What constitutes an 'age gap' varies from person to person, whether an age gap = a problem will likewise vary. You can't make any sweeping statements it is too individualised.


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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 5:01:04 AM   
IrishMist


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When I got together with my late husband, I was 18 and he was 41...a 23 year difference. Mmmmm....there were no issues about age between us

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 5:18:13 AM   
cuddlemesoft1


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Status: offline 		when I was in my 20's the thought of being with someone my Dad's age was icky. Now that I am older and have a teenage son, the thought of being with a 18-21 yr old would be icky...go figure?

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 5:36:38 AM   
FlamingRedhead


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Status: offline 		My ex-husband is 11 years older than me.  When I entered the lifestyle, my first dominant was 17 years older.  Currently, I'm 32 while Daddy is in his mid 50s.  It was a bit....odd....when he met my parents.  *ggls*  Imagine having a Daddy older than your Dad!

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 5:50:49 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I think that older men are great. I have never met an older woman. They tend to lie about their age.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 5:58:25 AM   
NeedingMore220


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quote:

I think that older men are great. I have never met an older woman. They tend to lie about their age.



Oh, my ... so do the men, believe me. 

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 7:05:13 AM   
tsatske


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From: Louisville, KY
Status: offline 		My first husband was 35 years my senoir - 5 years younger than my grandmother (who was 13 years younger than my grandfather, her husband). I was 18 years old when we married - we had 4 beautiful children, and stayed married as long as the preacher told us to.
my last Master is still a dear and close friend, and is now in his mid 70s.

I have generally preferred older men, although my current Master is only 7 years older than me. (when my family met him, their first response was 'wow, he's young')

I have had one girlfriend who was the same age as my own daughter, and i found that - challenging. On personal ads, when single, i have been known to include the line, 'please be older than my children.' I do find it difficult to date men a LOT younger than i - even more so than dating younger women.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 7:20:12 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Personally, I've always preferred someone close to my age. I had a rule that I wouldn't date someone more than 10 years older than I was. I didn't want the issue of being in different lifestages hanging over the relationship.

My ex was 9 years and 11 months older. Master is 2 years older.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 8:09:18 AM   
peppermint


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Masterwood1945

Greetings..I'm full of questions it seems today. I'm 63 and have always owned a slave close to my age. Is it true that slaves are attracted to younger Masters? Is there an age limit or number that most slaves like to stick with. With me, sex isn't what it's A/all about. Being happy in the lifestyle is. Is an older Master revolting to a slave in her 30s , 40s?


No, it is NOT true that all slaves are attracted to younger Masters.  Nor is it true that all slaves want an older Master.  Nor is it true that all slaves want a Master near to their age. 

It may seem to you that the slaves are looking for Masters younger than you, and in fact that may be happening.  Many of my Dom friends have told me that after the age of 60 it has become more and more difficult to find a submissive or slave so if you are having more difficulty than you have had before, the difficulty could be age based.  Sixty seems to be the age when my Dom friends say their problems finding submissives started.  If i had met my Dom online, i most likely would have been leery of getting involved with him as he was 64 at the time, as well as 10 years older than i.  Good thing we met at an event that gave us time to get to know each other and discover we liked each other without knowing each others' ages.  

If you are presently looking for a slave in the 30s and 40s, you may want to open you search to those in their 50s and 60s now as doing this gives you more options.  Network through other lifestyle friends.  I met Gary at a week long kinky camping event.  You may think about attending similar events in your area.  Be patient.  It may take you longer to find your perfect slave, but the wait will be worth the time spent. 

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 9:01:07 AM   
humble75


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Status: offline 		For me the older women is where its at.. Its a big part of the mental image of a dominant female somehow..

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 3:59:18 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I have always liked older men.  men my own age just don't do it for me.  I will be 39 In Oct and Master will be 58 in Nov  (19 years).  It does not bother us, if it bothers someone else that is their problem.  Master and i are a perfect fit.  We have been together for well over 2 years now and it s better every day.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 8:43:00 PM   
DadWizard


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Status: offline 		I had to read this thread. I am an older, mature man who totally adores submissive young women. I have to say that I find it absolutely amusing that in here age is no problem but in the profile section ALL of the little subbie/slave girls are age-a-phobic. Even the ones that want a "Daddy" really only want an older Brother. I guess the profile people really don't know what they want.

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RE: Age and the roll it plays - 8/21/2008 8:48:01 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		All is a gross exageration. But, the majority of CMers are not posters. only a small percentage are active posters. There may be a distinct difference in the community makeup of the two sides.
I have never had anything on a CM or other BDSM site profile limiting age. On vanilla sites I have, as I mentioned before, posted 'please be older than my children.', but not anything saying how old was too old.
In the more maundane world of dating clubs and newspaper singles ads, there was about a year, when I first started dating after my first marriage, in which i tended to 'limit' potentail guys to 55 or so. I was not yet 30 at the time - but that wasn't the issue. The issue was, i was gun shy, and needed time to work past it (eventually i did - i have since had Masters even older than my first hubby). being widowed is enough to make you think you might like to avoid widowhood, for another year or two, anyway.

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