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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 3:21:00 AM

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Since you're combining a bunch of threads it's hard to know what issue to address. Perhaps you should try to find some of your answers in past threads using the "search" function here.

i am amazed that you're Bad Boy though...impressive!!!!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ka_6FnWMY6o

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 3:25:03 AM

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Ja, i'm pretty sure that's right, whatever the fuck it is, clyde.

snatch that shit off the face of the earth and surprise a motherfucker.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 4:43:07 AM

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But seriously, it's time to get real with you. Have you considered looking for a good Ukrainian girl, all the profiles I've ever read of Ukrainian women online seem to be the perfect match for you.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 5:12:53 AM

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Have you considered looking for a good Ukrainian girl

Here's one for him, and she's been to university, too: http://www.nadiaromanova.com/

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 7:21:29 AM

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Dear Mr Successful ... the technique they did not teach you is personality.
It appears you spent too many years going from a book to a mirror.
I would suggest a new degree program, one that includes a bit of humility and less hidden agendas. There is nothing wrong with wanting what you want. What is wrong is your approach. People are people, flawed and have needs of their own too. Obviously something you have not considered with this post. You have to learn to give of yourself and not simply take to have something worthwhile and lasting.
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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 7:28:10 AM

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Personally, I would have worded my add better.

In advertising you should accent the positive

I think your focus group let you down............ but then again.. I am kinda a dick so...........

Karl Rove

Btw, I am not all that surprised, really

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 8:00:12 AM

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I wonder if the OP realizes that his message board posts are linked to his profile on the other side.

I wonder if he realizes what smart high IQ girls with degrees would figure out quickly when the reading his OP before reading any follow up posts by other users. I'm certain smart girls educated girls can spot the Narcissistic sounding remarks, faster then some people can find Waldo on the back of a cereal box.

In all honestly, I wish I could say, I made snarky remarks to make myself look better. I'll be more then happy to drop my mirror in a swimming pool and prove that I won't drown as a result of it though.

In terms of technique and method, my advice is to drop the Narcissistic crap!

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 8:18:52 AM

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quote:

I have NEVER wanted to Switch, but for YOU I will make an exception.

LOL

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 8:23:34 AM

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:)... yeah , some days are better than others....lol

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 8:28:40 AM

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quote:

Bisexual with friends is cool

Yeah, as if no girl on this site has ever heard of a guy wanting that!

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 8:36:38 AM

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Sure, there is a lot I could harp on with this OP, but I'll try to be constructive because there is one thing I recognize that if you don't address, it will hinder you forever. And that's the "she must have a great education" thing. To be honest, I know a lot of very intelligent, very educated women, and if they heard "technical advisor", they'd most likely think you're not worthy of them. I'm talking about women with Ph.d's, women with multiple MA, MS degrees, and others who are just feaking brilliant.

This was one of the things I had to address in myself because having a Ph.D. and multiple master's degrees doesn't make me more intelligent than anyone else, and for some time it actually caused me to believe I was "superior" to the women I was seeking. And I was wrong. I've found brilliance in those with very little formal education, some of whom have convinced me that a degree can sometimes be just a piece of paper in comparison to the wisdom that others manage to acquire during their short lifetimes.

As for the whole BMI thing, well that's going to be flamed no matter what you do, and I really have no comment on that.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 9:01:45 AM

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Ooooooo pick me, pick me please

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Add to it (I'm sorry) that I'd rather be celebate than date a girl with a BMI higher than mine (25). Many of my best friends and co-workers are grossly overweight, but I hold myself to a higher standard and expect my g/f to do the same.

I'm hot

quote:

Of course, lastly, being a very highly studied technical advisor I'd also prefer a girl who is at least in a 4 yr degree program (medical and legal students are some of my best vanilla relationships).

I have qualifications comin out of my ears.

quote:

Super fun, solid vanilla side, and a desire to contribute to society (lots of charity work, solid job, whateer) are all a must in my book. Bisexual with friends is cool, but not a requirement.

I'm all of these

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So while I've successfully had great relationships with individual women of every individual characteristic I've mentioned--what other technique or method am I missing to find the one right sub who combines everything I've listed?

Sheesh do i have to say pick me again

There is however one problem.....................
I think you are a narcissitic prick and i'd rather plait snot than submit to you - damn. It all could have been so perfect.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 9:04:38 AM

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plait snot?

Damn...thats a keeper!!!!

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 9:06:24 AM

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Definitely a keeper

....but I wish I could get the visual out of my head....

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 9:07:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

plait snot?

Damn...thats a keeper!!!!

Lol, it's my line of choice at the mo

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 9:44:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: JanusDom

I'm combining a bunch of threads here.
The question here is how to be a wolf in sheep's clothing?
As a very high level technical advisor I can't stand having the vanilla CEO of a company (that I might advise or critique) talk to her submissive admin assistant (or friend) and learn that I'm a Dom...so I keep a "low profile" profile and I don't do munches. Put another way, I'm well known as a maverick who is often right--if I destory my credibility by being a known dom then I'll lose what I can do professionally.
Conversely, as a genuine nice guy in the daylight I naturally start with the nice guy approach and genuinely wanting to get to know the girl. It normally takes months for a girl to know that I have a very kinky side--and many of them are totally shocked when they really find it when the lights are out.
I feel like, as a result, I'm meeting 1/20 of the available women who I might be interested in--not that I need to sleep with the other 19, but it sucks thinking that the right LTR might be one of the other 19.
Add to it (I'm sorry) that I'd rather be celebate than date a girl with a BMI higher than mine (25). Many of my best friends and co-workers are grossly overweight, but I hold myself to a higher standard and expect my g/f to do the same.
Of course, lastly, being a very highly studied technical advisor I'd also prefer a girl who is at least in a 4 yr degree program (medical and legal students are some of my best vanilla relationships).
Super fun, solid vanilla side, and a desire to contribute to society (lots of charity work, solid job, whateer) are all a must in my book. Bisexual with friends is cool, but not a requirement.
So while I've successfully had great relationships with individual women of every individual characteristic I've mentioned--what other technique or method am I missing to find the one right sub who combines everything I've listed?
This ties into the threads "what kinds of jobs do doms have," "what kinds of jobs do subs have," and one "how do I get girls to reply" (which I thought was a good chuckle)...but I had to start a new one because I'd like suggestions for bringing it all together...
Your thoughts are all welcome!

I'm not sure what you expected from the forums posting that.I would simply say "find the answers for yourself" nobody here is likely to help you.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 9:55:56 AM

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MissT.. that was a BRILLIANT post!

BTW, op.. it's spelled C E L I B A T E.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 1:00:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanusDom

The question here is how to be a wolf in sheep's clothing?
you read like a sheep in woolies.

As a very high level technical advisor I can't stand having the vanilla CEO of a company (that I might advise or critique) talk to her submissive admin assistant (or friend) and learn that I'm a Dom...so I keep a "low profile" profile and I don't do munches. Put another way, I'm well known as a maverick who is often right--if I destory my credibility by being a known dom then I'll lose what I can do professionally.
there is nothing that you have written that can convince me that you are high level anything. simple...don't play in your work sandbox
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Conversely, as a genuine nice guy in the daylight I naturally start with the nice guy approach and genuinely wanting to get to know the girl. It normally takes months for a girl to know that I have a very kinky side--and many of them are totally shocked when they really find it when the lights are out
your kink only comes out in the dark? gotta turn out the lights and hope she finds it....it's that small, oh dear!

Of course, lastly, being a very highly studied technical advisor I'd also prefer a girl who is at least in a 4 yr degree program (medical and legal students are some of my best vanilla relationships).
since this is the only example of your writing skills that i have read, my suggestion is that you might want to be happy with a lesser degreed girl or she could write/think circles around you.

Your thoughts are all welcome!
you sure about that?

may we all find our bliss.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 1:23:50 PM

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The Op's post reads like he's whining and stroking himself at the same time. I've known wealthy doms like him--their interest is always the size of the sub's behind and how big is her checkbook. They are looking for eye candy and a piece of furniture to decorate their lives with. They really aren't looking for a sub with a brain because if they found one she would tell him to blow and walk away. You can smell his narcissism even through the computer screen. Bleck.

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RE: Surprisingly Bad Boy - 8/23/2008 2:53:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

Sure, there is a lot I could harp on with this OP, but I'll try to be constructive because there is one thing I recognize that if you don't address, it will hinder you forever. And that's the "she must have a great education" thing. To be honest, I know a lot of very intelligent, very educated women, and if they heard "technical advisor", they'd most likely think you're not worthy of them. I'm talking about women with Ph.d's, women with multiple MA, MS degrees, and others who are just feaking brilliant.

This was one of the things I had to address in myself because having a Ph.D. and multiple master's degrees doesn't make me more intelligent than anyone else, and for some time it actually caused me to believe I was "superior" to the women I was seeking. And I was wrong. I've found brilliance in those with very little formal education, some of whom have convinced me that a degree can sometimes be just a piece of paper in comparison to the wisdom that others manage to acquire during their short lifetimes.

As for the whole BMI thing, well that's going to be flamed no matter what you do, and I really have no comment on that.

I don't have a rule myself as to minimum education requirements. If they bore me intellectually and I don't feel challenged it wont go far. (luckily being an intellectual light weight that isn't likely to happen)
I'm sure there are many people out there with towering intellects who would find me inane (I know hard to imagine huh?) and pass me by, I wouldn't take that personally.
However because you did stress that a formal education is important while saying you were a "technical advisor" I did think umm, big deal!

I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting someone fit and active or someone who has an education that is equal or greater than yours. If those things are important to you that's just as valid as someone needing a partner that is into say, nappies. No biggie.

I'm not saying the following as an opportunity to put the boot in (that's just a bonus

). I thought you might like to know, as you have posted yourself as open to comments.
Somehow your post comes across (to me) as arrogant, shallow, and sort of smug.
I'm sure that wasn't the impression you wanted to put across. I suggest changing your advertising not your list of requirements.
Even if you are a smug git, you don't want to emphasise that until you already have your quality submissive under lock and key, (so to speak). Then she can probably mistake your narcissism for part of your Domly persona.

You may very well be as great or greater than your opinion of yourself, but your not showing a great deal of aptitude in bringing that across to others on the board. (IMO)
There are a lot of really amazing people out there who are just as clueless at selling their best qualities.

So despite your teaching status, maybe hanging around, loosening up a bit and interacting with the people here and on other BDSM forums might help others get to know the best parts about you.
At the very least you can have some fun, ( meet the submissive of your dreams?) and who knows maybe you still have room to learn something?

Good luck in your search for happiness and the "one", and welcome!

(I would have just said get out to munches and such but well sounds like you won't do that)

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