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Wondering what happened. - 8/23/2008 6:41:24 PM   
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I was wondering if anybody knows what happened the other day while playing. I dont know if I can describe it good enough for anybody to answer. The same thing happened one or two other times. It happened when he was choking me. The best I can say is while he was I "feel asleep" , right before I "woke up" I dreamed. Right away I knew something had happened.
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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/23/2008 6:48:03 PM   
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Ask the guy who choked you---and if he doesn't know then neither one of you should be engaging in breath play.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/23/2008 6:48:25 PM   
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I'm no expert but if it's happened when he was choking you everytime..............I'd say you just passed out from lack of oxygen.

Just a guess.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/23/2008 6:48:45 PM   
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Congratulations.  You passed out.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/23/2008 7:00:59 PM   
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Darwinism at work here! 

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 3:58:01 AM   
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Good evening!
Definitely passed out. I did that too a few months ago. Master and I were playing and he put a belt around my neck..so far so good cause he is just tugging. What both of us forgit is that I had on a think necklace choker with an amulet (for magick) on it. So when he tugged the belt the choker bit into my throat. After a few times, I woke up to him wiping down my face with a washcloth and talking to me. Needless to say no more choking with objects, only hands. And no jewelry during play.
  Other options to that is when Daddy pull sme into his tummy or side and holds me there, then lets go. Or pinching my nose-eww I hate that::rubs nose vigorously::. Good luck!
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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 4:43:52 AM   
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I passed out one time while my boyfriend was choking me. We had done breathplay before with no problem but he must have had his thumb in just the right place that it stopped the bloodflow. I say that because I could still breath right before passing out. Anyway, when I came out of it, it felt like I had been "asleep" for hours. I remember telling my ex that I must have had a bad dream that jolted me awake because I couldn't remember what we were doing. He said that I was only out for a few seconds though. When I realized what had happened, I started crying. I'm not sure why. I was so scared. We never did breathplay again after that. I think my boyfriend was too afraid of having something worse happen. 

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 4:48:52 AM   
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You need to be careful. Lack of oxygen can destroy brain cells.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 4:50:51 AM   
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Can?

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 5:10:05 AM   
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Can?


Sure, but you need a sufficient number of brain cells which need the oxygen and a lack of oxygen.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 5:42:03 AM   
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Thanks everybody. I never passed out before so no idea what it was like.o

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 5:44:18 AM   
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Can?


After reading the OP, I'm thinking they already did, ya know?

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 6:17:05 AM   
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In the scene we call it Breath Play,  kids call it the choking game or the hanging game - all the same thing, though the methods vary.

When I was a kid, we called it the dreaming game, because once you pass out, you have some pretty strange dreams. In that version you would bend over, breathe deeply 10-20 times stand, then someone would wrap their arms around you and squeeze your chest. My brother has a nasty scar over his upper lip, where he fell and banged his head on the coffee table. I just knew he was dead. Never did it again.

Kim and I do breath play, always on the bed and always when I am holding her. She's passed out twice, so after going back and doing even more research than I did the first time, I've changed the position of my hand, which seems to have helped.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 7:01:42 AM   
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In the scene we call it Breath Play,  kids call it the choking game or the hanging game - all the same thing, though the methods vary.

When I was a kid, we called it the dreaming game, because once you pass out, you have some pretty strange dreams. In that version you would bend over, breathe deeply 10-20 times stand, then someone would wrap their arms around you and squeeze your chest. My brother has a nasty scar over his upper lip, where he fell and banged his head on the coffee table. I just knew he was dead. Never did it again.

Kim and I do breath play, always on the bed and always when I am holding her. She's passed out twice, so after going back and doing even more research than I did the first time, I've changed the position of my hand, which seems to have helped.

When I was a little kid, I used to tie stuff around my neck because I thought it was cool to see the different shades of red and purple color my face.  Never passed out though. 
When I was in junior high school, we did something called a "rising shotgun".  We would squat, purposely hyperventilate, then someone would squat in front of you with the lit end of a joint in their mouth and blow the smoke into your mouth while you would both slowly stand up.  Then you hold the smoke in until you passed out.
I got a nice concussion from that little trick twice.

Once with Michael, I was on a cross and he had his hand around my neck.  He wasn't applying that much pressure, but he has VERY large hands and I have a VERY tiny neck.  I begain to see the same lights I would see while doing a rising shotgun, but didn't seem to remember to associate the lights with passing out.  The next thing I knew, Michael was kneeling down next to me, "Lisa, omg, please come back to me!"  He was so upset.   Genius me asks, "Can we do it again?" The answer was of course a resounding, "NO!"

A few months later, we were at  a playspace in San Jose and Michael had his hand around my neck again.  Not tight mind you, just there.  Again it must have been a function of His big hands and my little neck, but I begain to see those lights again.  I did consider not telling him that I felt I was going to pass out because well, I like to pass out.  But I was a good girl and told Him immediately.

Final analysis?  I like being a Mom, sex object and deity MUCH MORE than I like to engage in that which could potentially kill me or give me lasting brain damage. 
This of course, is only my opinion.


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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 7:57:12 AM   
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SoulPiercer is there any site you can recommend for him to read?

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 8:02:51 AM   
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memory lost is not uncommon from intense play sessions.... sometimes it's more a foggy haze and details are rather lost... on the bottom' part.... It is rare however, for a Top to have memory lost.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 9:07:45 AM   
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It does get intense. He himself doesnt know what happened but does stay right next to me and keeps a eye on me.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 9:14:09 AM   
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quote:

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It does get intense. He himself doesnt know what happened but does stay right next to me and keeps a eye on me.


Wow, it's really great that he stays by you, but just a little scary that he doesn't know what happened. Just for future info, tell him, when he tries this and you don't wake up, the police are not going to care if he remembers or not, he will still go to jail for murder.

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 10:18:58 AM   
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It does get intense. He himself doesnt know what happened but does stay right next to me and keeps a eye on me.


Wow, it's really great that he stays by you, but just a little scary that he doesn't know what happened. Just for future info, tell him, when he tries this and you don't wake up, the police are not going to care if he remembers or not, he will still go to jail for murder.


EXACTLY!!!  Yes, there are risks inherent in many kinky activities.  But, it's ridiculous to just think...oh..i'll do breath play and go for it without any guidance or understanding of how to do it as "safely" as possible and what may happen, what to look out for, etc. 

I would seriously recommend that you, OP, and your D-type get some mentoring when engaging in breath play or any other types of edge play.  Heck...from the sounds of it, i wouldn't trust that D-type with a flogger. 

*rolling her eyes and shaking her head* 

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RE: Wondering what happened. - 8/24/2008 2:32:45 PM   
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seems there was a thread not too long ago...let me try and remember
oh yes! it was titled breath play...brilliant.
if you do a search on breathplay...i believe something will come up for you.
in the meantime...please..oh nevermind. 

may we all find our bliss and live to maybe tell about it. 

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