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help these guys on here with your answer - 8/25/2008 11:02:32 PM

Daddyyouwantme

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I'm asking the Masters on here t ohelp the rest of the male want to be doms on cm.

What is with the cut and paste emails. Why are trhey so long and boring? What I get a cut and paste email. I see a guy not just emailing me but emailing other female subs at the sametime!! Just saying hi is good enough

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/25/2008 11:06:08 PM

GreedyTop

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Is EVERY thread you start going to be bitching about 'so-called doms' etc etc ad nauseum?

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/25/2008 11:34:39 PM

Owner4SexSlave

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First off... I have to say this. I remember what you used to have up on your profile at one time. Ummmm... I can honestly say, I'm not the Master nor Dom for you, and you're not the sub/slave for me.   Mainly because of differences of mindsets and views.   But that's OK, Differences such as this are acceptable in the lifestyle.

Second... you have posted emails you have recieved from DOMs right on your journal entry.   What's really messed up, is that one time, I responded to somebody by writing a personal email. It was anything but a cut, copy and paste email. Long story short, she ended up posting it up on her journal entry. Along with Smart Ass self righteous comments that it was cut and paste email.   This was the first time ever I ever used the "Report" anything option on this website.   I reported the Journal Entry. It got yanked as well.   It was totally obvious that I had responded to things she wrote on her profile and journal entries even.

I really have no respect for somebody who posts emails on journal entries that were written in private. Actually this speaks volumes about the character of somebody. Needlees to say, I'd pass you up in a heartbeat.

How the Hell do you really know if something is cut and paste email, unless you have mulitple accounts on CM to compare them too?

Look everyday people email one another on the other side. Just delete the email, stop with the mindless drama. All you are doing is trying to draw attention to yourself and make yourself look like all that and a Bag of Potatoe chips too.   I'm anything but impressed with you.   I was not impressed with the things you had on your profile at one time, not impressed with your journal entries and I'm not impressed with this thread either.

Hell, I'd never even consider writing somebody like you, why because you might post my email to you up on your journal entry and claim it's cut and paste. What you might think is cut and paste just might not be.   I think you are a real person, and that you are really a submissive.   However, I have seen nothing but Red Flags in the things you write and share.   Sorry, this is just what I make of you.

I'm certain if I feel and think this way, that there are other Doms/Master out there that think/feel the same way.   If you want to call me names, call me fake or whatever... Go right ahead and do so.   I would prefer that you thought I was the fakest wanker on this site.   It's for my own good that one such as you should think such as thing.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 12:25:44 AM

SirDarkside357

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I don't do the cut and paste thing. But when I just say hi, and even when i add a few more words, most just delete unread, some think that more words mean something. I'm a man of few words, usually.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 2:53:53 AM

Tetron

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I will answer the spirit of this question which I think has somewhat been overlooked. While people may not enjoy getting the cut and paste email how is this any different from trying to pick a girl or guy up in a bar. You go with what you think will be most likely to net you with success. If you have a good plan for how to do it, you will try it until you think of something better, this may mean you try the same thing over and over again, but it is merely that you are doing what you think will get you the most success. I personally have not used the cut and paste emails because each girl to me seems like she needs a different approach, but for instance if in this email you list alot of the qualities you are looking for, and that you yourself posses why not cut and paste that, its not like its going to change from one email to another. As far as their length, why dont you chance your search parameters a bit and look at all the submissive profiles. You will find that a majority of them are quite adamant that a short letter will get no response from them. In general people have found on this site through attempts to email others and statements on profiles that longer messages are more likely to get a response. For those who are busy cut and paste are their only chances to do so to a number of people significant enough to give them a chance of finding someone. So if you recieve what looks like a cut and paste email, just read it, if you like what it says, no matter how many you think it may have gone to talk to the person, because that person wrote it, dont judge on the fact that it may be form, judge it on the its form.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 3:13:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Is EVERY thread you start going to be bitching about 'so-called doms' etc etc ad nauseum?

Hey, let her. Each time she posts, I get to see her av.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 3:39:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyyouwantme

help these guys on here with your answer

I'm asking the Masters on here t ohelp the rest of the male want to be doms on cm.

What is with the cut and paste emails. Why are trhey so long and boring? What I get a cut and paste email. I see a guy not just emailing me but emailing other female subs at the sametime!! Just saying hi is good enough

Making of a Master
It doesn't come with education, having a house, or having alot of money. It comes from with in and it is what you do with that part within you that makes you a great Master.

Are they gay?
They say most profiles on here are fake, so when a man hides behind a female picture so he can talk to other females. When he thinks he is talking to another female, but is really talking to another man behind a female picture and they talk sexual. Are they gay? wink lol

help part2 ok I'm here onthis site looking for all the hoit kinky thinks and this is what I get stood up, I get guys lieinig about their age. most say there are bet 40 and 50 and you can see their in their 60's with their died hair. I get guys wanting me but they are so fat they didn't see their cock for about a decade. How you going to fuck me if you dont know where your cock is. I get cpls who dont have a pic of themselfs together.. strange. I get pic of men with their parents, with thir uncles, aunts and oh yes their dogs. I wonder if their 85 yers old aunt knows she being sent around a bdsm website? I get ladies recommending their male dom friends which you know its a fake profile put by the guy they are or/him recommending himself.

Can they really call themselves a Dom?
get alot of male doms emailing me and I push their limts verbally just to see if they are for real. I verbally abuse them and they still come back for more and still want to be with me. I think a real dom/master would of left a long time ago. Your thoughts please.

What do you think? what do you think about those two stories. one about a man who kelp diff females prisoner in his basement. some up to 5 yrs as his sexslave and the other story about a man keeping is daughter locked up for 24 yrs and make her have 7 kids by him which two never ever saw the light of day. of cause this is very sick and very wrong, but the control mental and phyiscal must have every ones interest on cm

i hope you doms can read learn from others here
Toooo many here try to dom others here by email without even saying hello. Alot here wantt oknow if you will move in their first introduction with even saying hello. What female would take orders by email from someone they never met or move in with someone just after the first email. Guys be smart doming by email is not r/l and disrespection females on cm is not going to helpyou or your cock. Learn from the advice you get here onthe forums before you email a fem,ale on this site. Good lu ck and be well

I just wanted to group all your pearls of wisdom on one thread.
It would look great printed on a tshirt. I may just do that.

< Message edited by seababy -- 8/26/2008 3:48:02 AM >

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 5:13:14 AM

RavenMuse

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I tend to look at this the other way around.... would I react well to a mail of the kind I am sending out?

Hence I won't send out cut and paste crap.... but also I won't send out a one liner to someone I see as maybe interesting enough to talk to with a view to looking at if there is the potential to go further. So I disagree strongly with the OP... saying 'hi' is nowhere near enough. Just like the C&P crud, it shows a total lack of effort. If someone can't be bothered to show at least a little effort then I am not going to put in the effort to respond, it isn't worth it as if they won't put in effort to make a good first impression then they are not going to put in any effort later on either.

If someone wants My attention then I am damn well WORTH some effort. Likewise when I am sending out a mail, if they are not worth Me putting a little effort then they ain't worth Me mailing them at all.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 5:44:10 AM

Abaddon2u

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Personally I do not use cut and paste, it's like er totally fer sure like ya know, sooo uncool like bogus err what was I talking about? Has anyone seen my gum?

Abaddon

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 5:51:38 AM

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 5:59:22 AM

RavenMuse

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quote:

ORIGINAL: restlessdreamer

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I feel like something the size of an airplane just went zooming over my head.

Abbadon was simply talking fluent valley girl.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 6:31:39 AM

chamberqueen

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The Doms and Masters on here cannot make laws that everyone has to follow. I lot of people with accounts never look at the boards, for one thing. There is no legislative body here and MasterXYZ can't come down on MasterWannaBe and tell him to stop being a jerk. It appears that with posts like yours that you are not really looking for help or showing any submission but looking for a way to vent in a way that makes you feel like you might attract a "real" Dom. It doesn't work that way.

If you don't like an email that someone sends you, tell THAT person. I used to get over 100 emails a day some days, and if I suspected a cut and paste job I would let the person know. I also started blocking anyone that annoyed me - that's what the button is there for. Put in your profile that you appreciate sincere communication. As lovely as you are I am sure that you get a lot of attention and that much of it will be unwanted. However, bitching about it here is more likely to harm you than to help you.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 6:36:06 AM

sirsholly

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If you do not like "cut and paste" c-mails.. delete and move on.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 6:41:07 AM

GreedyTop

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Psst... Abaddon.. proof your sig ;)

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 7:06:16 AM

Leatherist

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I dunno,why do you always respond to my mails to you with nothing but "ty"?

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 7:10:22 AM

VirginPotty

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Is EVERY thread you start going to be bitching about 'so-called doms' etc etc ad nauseum?

<Me........>Monkey

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 7:23:11 AM

IrishMist

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyyouwantme

I'm asking the Masters on here t ohelp the rest of the male want to be doms on cm.

What is with the cut and paste emails. Why are trhey so long and boring? What I get a cut and paste email. I see a guy not just emailing me but emailing other female subs at the sametime!! Just saying hi is good enough

I have a better question. What is it with people who can't spell worth a shit?

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 8:16:15 AM

Dnomyar

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Help. I don't know how to cut and paste. Just think of the volume of mail I could send out if I knew how to cut and paste.

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 8:19:04 AM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Help. I don't know how to cut and paste. Just think of the volume of mail I could send out if I knew how to cut and paste.

I'll show you how to paste but cutting is a hard limit for me.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: help these guys on here with your answer - 8/26/2008 8:33:43 AM

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- Busts up laughing -

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