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E2Sweet -> RE: Fair or Unfair (12/19/2008 1:46:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Gr33nT0p
If you (the sub) did something wrong and were to be punished by your Dom/Domme, let us say by holding a dime to the wall with your nose as you are squating for 15 minutes. Is it ok for your Dom/Domme to help you learn to concentrate by either fondling you, or taking the cane or flogger to your behind, or breasts or some other such distraction?
With regard to the example, I can't help but wonder what holding a dime against a wall with one's nose teaches a person other than how to hold a dime against a wall with his or her nose.
My suggestion would be to toss the thinking associated with the example situation entirely, and the dominant instead express disapproval at the submissive's actions and proceed to fondling and what not just because its the dominant's desire to do so.
I just see this type of punishment talk as an excuse to see the submissive do something that makes the dominant's crotch tingle... I mean it's fine if that's what you're going for, but I'd like the signals coming from the authority of the house to be clear and take into account I'm a grown adult with a capacity to listen and follow directions. I don't actually need to be lead though a contrived circus event to get the point, just talk to me. [;)]
If punishment indeed is your style as a dominant, then I would think you'd want to come up with something that conveys a lesson to be learned, as opposed to a game of grab-ass...[;)]
Sorry if this sounds negative and takes the oomph out of the thread, but I'm just sayin'...[8|]
Edited to clarify my point.
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