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theq -> RE: Age difference (9/2/2008 10:41:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lessthanthree
I've been looking for about the same thing off-and-on for my entire sexual career. I've always wanted to start a relationship with an older submissive, maybe 10-20 years my senior. To me, the role-reversal is a huge turn-on. I like the idea of someone who society (perhaps rightly) gives authority over me turning around and giving that authority right back.
Women that are that much older than you are trouble, trust me as one who has been married to one *ducks*.
On a serious note, meh, why not play with and older lay if that's your thing? It's not particularly mine. Also seriously, if you are looking to get into a serious long-term relationship with a seriously older woman there are many serious things that one must seriously consider. Here's a few of them:
1. Biological clock. Have plans to spread your seed? Have off-spring? If she's approaching 40, this may be problematic! Take this into consideration.
2. Retirement. She's going to have her time in way before you. You won't be able to retire together and travel the world together 9 months out of the year like some lucky retired couples, it just won't happen. Also, by the time you retire, the golden years will be setting in for her. There is some relief here for you though, last I checked women are built to last 6-10 years longer on average.
3. Experience. Is she the type that's going to hold your lack of "lie experience" over you at every intersection? If so, this could seriously damper your future together. Then again, maybe it'll be just fine. Are you the type that can take her (perhaps wise) input without having your ego crushed? Is she the type that can offer it without being a complete bitch?
Just a few things to consider...
Q
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