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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/30/2008 2:03:37 AM

Politesub53

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While shirless-with-no-head pics are kinda lame,

Indeed aidan, it`s almost impossible to hold a conversation with a headless person. The only way around it, is to do all the talking

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 1:30:26 PM

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Another sparkly moment of Homophobic Panic brought to you by "StopLookingAtMe.Com".

I swear, whenever these threads pop up it reminds me of junior high school. "What are you looking at, faggit!?"

Men do have reasons to check out each other's profiles other than being gay; if you want to optimize your chances of getting noticed in a positive way by women, for example, it's best to keep an eye on the competition...

As for the general issue of a picture with no shirt--I love exhibitionists. If you've got it, boys--please feel free to flaunt it! I think a person who has any good feature shouldn't be ashamed to show it; as a domme I can fetishize any part of a person, and I especially enjoy objectifying men. Speaking of which, maybe I should go find my boytoy and make him take his shirt off...I think it's time to plant some love-bites on his yummy abs...

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 1:33:49 PM

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I had a guy tell me that if I was going to look at his profile, I should send him an email. I was like wft? This is a public website, right? Eye candy? You betcha.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 5:40:07 PM

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*darchChylde once again dons the famous Sarcastic Hat*

I believe that any woman that looks at my profile should send a titty pic, with her face in the shot, but that's only because I like boobies and not a requirement.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 6:52:29 PM

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Just perv me, and save us both some time! :)

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 7:12:03 PM

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Well.. since you asked, it is probably your screen name.
Tell a guy you are hard to tame and it becomes a challenge. Those guys probably don't realise you are male until they get to your profile.
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I'm sitting there hoping some hot domme is getting her rocks off over my profile and shit, so I click. WHAT THE HELL! ..

Theres all these half naked guys viewing me. What gives?

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 7:14:03 PM

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Wouldn't the blue tinted letters give them a clue?

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 7:43:19 PM

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What blue tinted letters? On my screen everyones screen name is in a golden color, and fonts are what ever people choose. Looking up the screen at DarchChyld and Politesub I don't see any noticible difference between them and your name or Simpleplan. But that is here in forums. I know there is a difference when viewing a profile.
Is there a noticible thing in our posts on forums that lists us as male or female?
Kyst

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 8:18:22 PM

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A man flash me a great set of abs? I want to scratch my nails down them. =)
And possibly run my tongue down them. (Yes, I"m THAT forward sometimes)

.......That's like someone showing you some beautiful roses and you would naturally want to
stop and enjoy the fragrance, yes?

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 8/31/2008 8:24:15 PM

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I agree. You guys should all put your shirts back .....D'OH!

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/1/2008 1:30:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Another sparkly moment of Homophobic Panic brought to you by "StopLookingAtMe.Com". I swear, whenever these threads pop up it reminds me of junior high school. "What are you looking at, faggit!?"

Men do have reasons to check out each other's profiles other than being gay; if you want to optimize your chances of getting noticed in a positive way by women, for example, it's best to keep an eye on the competition...

As for the general issue of a picture with no shirt--I love exhibitionists. If you've got it, boys--please feel free to flaunt it! I think a person who has any good feature shouldn't be ashamed to show it; as a domme I can fetishize any part of a person, and I especially enjoy objectifying men. Speaking of which, maybe I should go find my boytoy and make him take his shirt off...I think it's time to plant some love-bites on his yummy abs...

ummmm competition?

what am I competing for? Come on, I might not have a sexy body, I might not flash my face around but fark. Blokes are checking me out as competition are they? Am I THAT threatening? "Oh watch out, he'll get the alpha dominatrix from the webpage, even though she can't see him" ... Don't think so.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/1/2008 8:30:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

What blue tinted letters? On my screen everyones screen name is in a golden color, and fonts are what ever people choose. Looking up the screen at DarchChyld and Politesub I don't see any noticible difference between them and your name or Simpleplan. But that is here in forums. I know there is a difference when viewing a profile.
Is there a noticible thing in our posts on forums that lists us as male or female?
Kyst

Sorry, Kyst, I am just in the zone of not speaking clearly.... Most of my random pervage comes from the other side (unless there are hidden lurkers here?) so I figured that's where it was coming from, not from Faithful Readers. THERE the letters are blue---here, nope! Duh.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/1/2008 8:33:46 AM

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Eh, a good steady diet of pie should take care of this little problem.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/1/2008 1:03:19 PM

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I like abs. It's nice if someone has manlier abs than I do (and mine get QUITE manly... thanks, Dad.)

I don't think it makes them prissy. It makes them a dude with nice abs. *Shrug*

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 7:38:16 AM

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Abs are for young men desperately trying to attract my women. Who wants a man with wrinkles in his stomac.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 7:46:27 AM

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Abs are for young men desperately trying to attract my women. Who wants a man with wrinkles in his stomac.

Nice try, Raymond. Unfortunately, no one will fall for that one.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 8:11:57 AM

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Hey you can't blame a guy for trying. Can I sit next to you on that bench. I mean why stop trying now.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 8:33:13 AM

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Hey you can't blame a guy for trying. Can I sit next to you on that bench. I mean why stop trying now.

He's like the creepy grandpa I've always wanted.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 8:39:06 AM

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Okay, being a shirtless wonder myself. Yes now I feel ashamed. I'd have to say that I am new to the community and although I can see how it may send the wrong message to some. There are a lot of assumptions about the character of a person who is proud of his or her body. No body is perfect to everyone, but every body is perfect to someone. I do not know the correct signal to send to get the relationship/interaction I'm looking for.
My motif is not to attract a strictly sexual relationship. I'm not even really into just casual play. I mean I start most relationships out casual, but if I pursue it, I'd like something more.
My other motif, behind the headless shot, is that I am new, and have not been outed to this scene yet. I am shy, and lead a vanilla life that I may want to remain normal while I explore this new world. I do have face pictures, that i'd share, just not posted in public for everyone to see. So I post headless shots of me, that hopefully will attract someone.
Seriously, if you are going to judge a person by their choice of photos, why is there a section to write about yourself?
I don't like being offensive and consider general polite edicate to be the norm and maybe People on here deal with a lot of inappropiate conduct, and have become defensive to certain signals or situations...but I have to say so far my limited experience in this community, find that everyone seems very judgemental. I had believed it was suppose to be a community of freedom and expression of sexuality and fantasy without such careless judgements. I don't know. Maybe I'm naive. I'm new here and I guess that this culture of judgement disapoints me. When all I want is to get to know someone, and figure out if we have common interests. I've actually had someone tell me that the one question I asked was a deal breaker, Not in person, over the internet, and I just asked what are you into? After explaining I was new and am unsure of things and how to procede and even stated I didn't want to overstep my bounds.
Because also being new, I am unsure of everything that goes on, or almost anything that goes on. Watching movies or reading stories, has a certain fictional quality to it. Movies have actors/actresses and stories have characters. What is real, but to hear it from another persons mouth. The person wrote back that thats a huge indicator of me being a perv that just wants to jerk off to her response. I mean do you get that alot so you are defensive? So I replied again, I appologize, I'm unsure of how to procede. and asked for her forgivness and asked to start over...no reply.
I have just found it difficult to figure out if this is where I fit in.
Anyway sorry to rant a little...or a lot.
Plus also, I don't have any lifestyle photos, being that I'm new to the lifestyle. Not even sure if I want it to be my lifestyle. Just wanting to explore things and figure them out.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 8:53:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: HardToTame

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Another sparkly moment of Homophobic Panic brought to you by "StopLookingAtMe.Com". I swear, whenever these threads pop up it reminds me of junior high school. "What are you looking at, faggit!?"

Men do have reasons to check out each other's profiles other than being gay; if you want to optimize your chances of getting noticed in a positive way by women, for example, it's best to keep an eye on the competition...

As for the general issue of a picture with no shirt--I love exhibitionists. If you've got it, boys--please feel free to flaunt it! I think a person who has any good feature shouldn't be ashamed to show it; as a domme I can fetishize any part of a person, and I especially enjoy objectifying men. Speaking of which, maybe I should go find my boytoy and make him take his shirt off...I think it's time to plant some love-bites on his yummy abs...

ummmm competition?

what am I competing for? Come on, I might not have a sexy body, I might not flash my face around but fark. Blokes are checking me out as competition are they? Am I THAT threatening? "Oh watch out, he'll get the alpha dominatrix from the webpage, even though she can't see him" ... Don't think so.

I have looked at several guys web pages, not because I view them as competition, but because this scene, you need to send a certain signal or something to let people know you are okay to deal with. Being new and only used to vanilla relationships and the whole vanilla dating scene, I don't know the rules here. I mean besides the obvious, be polite make polite conversation. I don't know whats standard, so I checked out other guys profiles to find out whats the norm. Whats working here or there, what are other guys doing.

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