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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 9:14:06 AM

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My stomac is as nature intended it to be. If nature wanted me to have a six pack she would have given me one with twist off caps.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 9:29:34 AM

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Abs are for young men desperately trying to attract my women. Who wants a man with wrinkles in his stomac.

The same people who want a woman with two big balls of fat on her chest?

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 10:03:42 AM

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Hey you can't blame a guy for trying. Can I sit next to you on that bench. I mean why stop trying now.

Men are always welcome to sit next to me, if they're willing to take the consequences. <Rummages in bag for singletail>

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 10:05:38 AM

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My stomac is as nature intended it to be. If nature wanted me to have a six pack she would have given me one with twist off caps.

I think I'd have a lot more fun using a bottle opener on you.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 10:14:49 AM

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Big deal Ventarix I don't have to rummage thru a bag for a singletail. Coupleof whats I am a leg man. They don't make bottle openers that big.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 12:14:56 PM

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Pyrrsefanie,

quote:

slavejaredmtl:
whats wrong with showing your abs or great body. Hell we work out to keep it that way if you dont like it dont look

Pyrrsefanie:
Because there's more to a man than just being a muscle-monkey.

Personally, I hate jocks. Hate hate hate. Sure, I love a man with a nice body, but the minute I see a guy showing off his GUNS and offering me a ticket to the GUN SHOW and the like I can't help but picture him as one of those stupid Big Moose-type jocks that I want to load into a rocket and shoot directly into the sun.

I just don't think that pure ab-shots should be the only photo up. It's okay to have one of you just kind of chilling as your main profile pic and then as many self-masturbatory shots of your pectorals as your li'l broseph heart desires. If it's a privacy thing, not wanting to show the face, then don't put a picture up. Explain in your profile you can provide pics privately. In my opinion it's better than posting pictures that make you come off as a drunken frat boy.

This is why I read your posts, perv on you, and admire you. Your awareness, intelligence, personality, and sexuality are just so many light-years beyond your youthful years that it's astounding. You're smart. You're deliciously geeky. You're girly when you want to be. You're bluntly honest. You're openly vulnerable. You're dominant. And, you wear all of this with a human, womanly grace that is very, very sexy. That's one lucky fiance you've got there. I'm sure he loves you for all these reasons and many, many more.

Gee. You're the third woman I've complimented today. Yes, I'm having an undeclared, special, "appreciate women" day, which, really, should be every day. :-)

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 12:18:20 PM

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Pyrrsefanie,

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slavejaredmtl
just because youre in good shape doesnt mean your stupid lol or a drunken frat boy. Its more like you have your hobbys and i have mine thats all doenst make us more stupid or anything

Pyrrsefanie:
Quoted for its sheer brilliance. I have nothing more to say.

Heh! And this is yet another reason I perv on you. Your sense of irony is certainly not lacking. :-)

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 1:53:43 PM

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I don't care for random body shots of either male or female. The guys with the flabby belly thing, trying to suck it in pretending they are sexy.........those just make me laugh.

That would be like me putting a shot of my tatas, chest out and sucking in my little poochy belly. Not hot. We won't even discuss the ass shot that will never DISgrace the halls of CM.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 3:50:47 PM

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I like 'em. Send me more.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 4:01:33 PM

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You are complaining about abs shots!! I closed my account on Alt. because of too many cock-shots.
Either pics of just cocks or guys holding thier erect cocks. Am I supposed to be impressed?
I would rather see a pic of a nice-sexy-middle aged torso then a cock any day. Here's to middle-aged
sexy men!!

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 9:24:28 PM

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I think I'd have a lot more fun using a bottle opener on you.

Using twist-off caps is just as fun ;-)

Cheers,

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/2/2008 10:44:51 PM

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Heh! And this is yet another reason I perv on you. Your sense of irony is certainly not lacking. :-)

Elan.

Elan, flattery will get you everywhere.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 3:35:51 AM

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To echo the sentiment of some previous posts, it is merely a case of marketing ones competitive advantage. Some people are endowed with body, some with mind, and a lucky few with both. So we all market ourselves to our own advantages...everyone does it, but the approach is obviously determined by the said attribute...in this case shots of men's torsos. If thats how they choose to gain an advantage in the market, then so be it. It is certainly interesting to see that some of the ladies posting loved it and some hated it...it just goes to show (cliché time) there is more than one way to skin a cat.
As for the male views of male profiles, my hunch again echoes a previous posters remarks. In other words: it's just market research. Or they are perving. Either way, being in competition for a limited resource, it makes perfect sense to keep an eye on the competition.
If your new, or your not achieving what you want to whilst being here, then of course you look to your competition for clues. Ideally you ask the consumer what they want, in this instance not ideal. However, when considering the responses... perhaps this was the motivation for the initial post. At any rate it has certainly been insightful.

DISCLAIMER
I am in no way linked to either the study or profession of marketing...it just seemed the best way to illustrate the issues.

final though
if only beautiful, dominant ladies were a less finite resource!!!

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 5:01:40 AM

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subacute I will have to somewhat dissagree with you about the competative advantage thing. It depends on the demagraphics you are competing in. Different age groups seek different things. A man in my age group showing six packs would just draw stares. How would he be any competition to me. Is he going to keep on jumping in front of the women Im with and say looki me.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 6:02:46 AM

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Is he going to keep on jumping in front of the women Im with and say looki me.

Plural? You naughty dog you! Tell me more.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 8:49:05 AM

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hey Dnomyar, I really find this an interesting subject so I appreciate your perspective as (presumably) an older gentlemen than I.

...to clarify of course I certainly would not advocate this theory is applicable in the real world, or at least to the degree we can observe it occurring in this medium. As a general rule subtlety is observed to a higher degree in the real world. Although one might argue, low slung tops on ladies, and/or tight jeans/trousers on lady or gentlemen is just an extension of this. But clearly the degree to which this occurs is different for real life and the internet, as the likelihood of being in a situation with various males shirtless, holding their penis etc.jumping around or otherwise trying to attract someone in this manner is questionable. Well at least in the experience of the places I have visited...again I may be showing my age and inexperience with this point. The perceived anonymity of the internet, whether real or not, exaggerates these tendencies I believe.

As for a man in your age group having a six pack, I would have to agree that the dynamic of marketing ones self would likely shift and change with age; and/or, as you stated, with the demographic of the lady in question.

At what age does a refined torso and/or abs stop being desirable? I could not say.

I am curious as to whether people stay within their broad age groups or stray; or even take things on a case by case basis. Certainly for the profiles I have perused, age limits of some sort abound...however I might be looking at the wrong people, and therefore it is potentially difficult to come to a representative conclusion.

I do maintain that we all market our comparative advantages, just what comparative advantage is successful in making the consumer buy into you (at least initially) is dependent on the consumers taste, preference (perhaps changing with age); and the presence, quantity, and quality of competition.
As in this case, the naked abs/torso, as the testimony of various lady posters suggests, there is no all conquering silver bullet.

Having said all this, with experience of just ≤24 years, an all encompassing explanation taking into account age and various demographics is certainly beyond me!

sa

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 12:17:43 PM

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I don't think this Subacute character's used to Dnomyar's sense of humor yet.

Poor thing.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 1:12:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

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ORIGINAL: slavejaredmtl

whats wrong with showing your abs or great body. Hell we work out to keep it that way if you dont like it dont look

Because there's more to a man than just being a muscle-monkey.

Personally, I hate jocks. Hate hate hate. Sure, I love a man with a nice body, but the minute I see a guy showing off his GUNS and offering me a ticket to the GUN SHOW and the like I can't help but picture him as one of those stupid Big Moose-type jocks that I want to load into a rocket and shoot directly into the sun.

I just don't think that pure ab-shots should be the only photo up. It's okay to have one of you just kind of chilling as your main profile pic and then as many self-masturbatory shots of your pectorals as your li'l broseph heart desires. If it's a privacy thing, not wanting to show the face, then don't put a picture up. Explain in your profile you can provide pics privately. In my opinion it's better than posting pictures that make you come off as a drunken frat boy.

This made me lol. Well said.

Of course, if I were to post a picture of myself shirtless, my ridiculous tanline would be be way cooler than abs. Take my word for it.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 1:14:44 PM

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Of course, if I were to post a picture of myself shirtless, my ridiculous tanline would be be way cooler than abs. Take my word for it.

Tease.

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RE: Blokes who flash their abs. - 9/3/2008 1:30:34 PM

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Of course, if I were to post a picture of myself shirtless, my ridiculous tanline would be be way cooler than abs. Take my word for it.

As we say here in D.C., "Trust but verify." Let's see the pic, dude.

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