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OneMoreWaste -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/1/2008 9:55:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark


Showing your face in your primary.  You cannot 'prove' that is you in the photograph - it could be anyones feet and legs.
 
the.dark.


Heck, if you don't meet people in person, it's just as easy to use somebody else's headshot. [sm=dunno.gif]Too bad most hard-line "Family Values" politicians are old and funny-looking... I think it would be a hoot to use, say, a photo of Donald Rumsfeld [:D]




Lynnxz -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/1/2008 2:00:03 PM)

Holy crap. I just had a new pic approved in 10 minutes...

X-D




azjojoba -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 2:25:43 AM)

This website is very biased against male nudity. I can't even get pictures approved of me wearing underwear.




curvyslavegirl -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 2:30:45 AM)

male nudity?

They turned down an image of my face because it was in black and white (clear and easy to see, just not color).
I get photos turned down ALL the time and then see photos of women/ fetish masks, scenery, etc on men's profiles and get really annoyed.
It often seems like the rules are made up on the fly.




RCdc -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 2:35:52 AM)

And why would we want to see you in your pants?
 
the.dark.




RCdc -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 2:43:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: curvyslavegirl

male nudity?

They turned down an image of my face because it was in black and white (clear and easy to see, just not color).
I get photos turned down ALL the time and then see photos of women/ fetish masks, scenery, etc on men's profiles and get really annoyed.
It often seems like the rules are made up on the fly.



Maybe you are too ugly? (Yeah, that was me being facetious before anyone gets indignant)
Seriously, I doubt they refused it because it was black and white.  They have never pulled ours.  I am always intrigued when people make claims about the photographs and when you see them, it is always really understandable why they are refused.  There is another post over on off topic bemoaning the same thing and when they posted a link, it clearly shows the person has no idea.
 
If you don't like their decisions or the rules, go elsewhere.  It's a free site hey.
 
the.dark.




Dnomyar -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 4:54:12 AM)

Ok if it will make you women happy send all your nude photos to me. I will post them on my cubicle wall.




Lynnxz -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 5:30:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

This website is very biased against male nudity. I can't even get pictures approved of me wearing underwear.


Are they baggy tighty-whities? I'd put the banhammer on those if I was a mod. O.o




Maya2001 -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 6:54:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: curvyslavegirl

male nudity?

They turned down an image of my face because it was in black and white (clear and easy to see, just not color).
I get photos turned down ALL the time and then see photos of women/ fetish masks, scenery, etc on men's profiles and get really annoyed.
It often seems like the rules are made up on the fly.



It could have been something in the background of your photo that was deemed unacceptable. because I have black and white photos that have been accepted so I know they do not refuse simplt  because in greyscale .I have had others submitted that were refused but when I cropped them and resubmitted were accepted




HornyToadsMI -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 6:30:39 PM)

My hoo-haas are in order....lol! 

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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ORIGINAL: MrRodgers

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001

it states clearly the reason below where you upload photos

No explicit genital nudity or hardcore bondage

one can have nude photos as long as genitals are not exposed ......the gag ball falls under  hardcore bondage

The irony of course is that their advertisements can show this and all dating sites have long since become what I describe as 'profile sensitive.' Most often...you reap what you sow from your profile.

So I don't see why they can't or won't show them in profiles unless the future holds that they will and make it part of your new subscription.


Like I said, the adverts have all of their legal issues in order. Random people flashing their hoo-haas on the internets, usually do not.





HornyToadsMI -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 6:33:19 PM)

Maybe put a sock in the front.....LOL.  Try different underwear? 
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

This website is very biased against male nudity. I can't even get pictures approved of me wearing underwear.


Are they baggy tighty-whities? I'd put the banhammer on those if I was a mod. O.o





Briena -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 7:53:53 PM)

Well than I guess Im ill-mannered...  :*( I think I will go cry in my corner now...  I want to know what software exisits that would be able to decide if a picture is acceptable or not.  I have never heard of such software.  If anyone has the name of this software I would really like to know what it is so that I could check it out...




CalifChick -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 8:02:35 PM)

You missed the point.  I didn't say the software rejected it, I said it glitches.  I just had ten users on my site last week lose access to a section they've always had access to, with no reason, other than I took the power away from one person, and the other ten people logged into that section at the same time lost it too.  Tech support said it was a software glitch.  I've had the same thing happen with photos of users that were uploaded as avatars.  I took one away, and the two in the queue after it went away also.

Instead of automatically assuming the worst, perhaps a little benefit of the doubt is in order.

Cali




Briena -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 8:08:28 PM)

If software glitches, and you know that it glitched, than you should send a note stating the problem, and why the photo needs to be resubmitted.  That way there is no need for the benifit of the doubt, and everyone understands what has happened. 




CalifChick -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 8:11:26 PM)

You don't know it glitches until the user bitches about it.  I didn't know about the lost access until my inbox filled up with complaints, one after another.  I didn't know about the avatars until they complained, and tech support told me what happened with the timestamps of the rejects.

No software, none, for any use, is ever perfect. 

Cali




E2Sweet -> RE: BDSM or nude photos on collarme... (9/2/2008 9:14:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Holy crap. I just had a new pic approved in 10 minutes...


Yes indeed, I added a new one recently and it was approved within a hour. I was pleasantly surprised, since in the past, it has taken better than a full day.

I was always a little concerned that a few of my pics would get rejected because they're somewhat grainy, but I've never had a problem, so I guess that can be ruled out as a possible unwritten guideline.




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