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Venatrix -> RE: Teenage Dommes? (9/4/2008 1:55:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix
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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna
Of course a 19 or 20 yo wants to be spoiled with $$$ btu that surely doesnt mean that they are not capable of totally controlling a sub,most have been controlling men for some time and just not knowing it was topping.
Well, that's the crux: the vast majority of women that young who call themselves dominant are simply interested in milking a cash cow. There's no real dominance involved; they are simply providing a service. If men are willing to give them money knowing that they are buying an illusion, then everyone should go away happy.
There's a difference in being a pro domme who actually has an interest in domination, and just doing it because it's fairly easy money. As for there being more younger pro dommes than older women... it's because most mens idea of a 'dominatrix' is a young woman all in leather and latex and whips galore. *shrug*
Supply and demand and all of that mess.
Do I get paid for being a pro domme? Yes. I'm not going to run around providing free service for anyone who wants to play. Does it make me a spoiled silly little whore? I'd like to think not.
My point was that many of these women have no interest in domination, they just want to go through the motions to collect the cash. I wasn't referring to those genuinely inclined towards D/s, but who also provide domination as a paid service.
I don't know if anyone else called you a spoiled silly little whore; I know I didn't, and, quite frankly, I couldn't care less if you were. I have nothing against pro-dommes, I just have no desire to turn the thing I love into the daily grind. And my understanding from several of the pro-dommes I know is that it often does become a daily grind. Perhaps that is another reason why so many men find going to a pro to be unfulfilling on an emotional level.
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