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Seeking information about 24/7 lifestyle servitude. - 11/26/2005 8:02:47 AM

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RE: Seeking information about 24/7 lifestyle servitude. - 11/26/2005 8:10:38 AM

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If I may ask a question---you state "male service slave" to what extent do you refer? A live-in house boy who gains no more than the joy from serving, or do you mean more of a LTR submissive/partner? The mindsets are different--that's why I ask--it may help get you better answers--

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RE: Seeking information about 24/7 lifestyle servitude. - 11/26/2005 8:26:12 AM

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I am a 24/7 live in slave and have been for 5 years. In my case I am totally owned by my mistress who has control of me mind body and soul. I can give you some indication of what that means if you are interested please message me.
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RE: Seeking information about 24/7 lifestyle servitude. - 11/26/2005 9:11:25 AM

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I am a male service slave who has long been intrigued with the possibility living in a 24/7 lifestyle situation. My interest dates back to early childhood, and have been interested in persuing this for my entire adult life.

I would appreciate hearing from others (either mistresses or slaves) who have experienced this, or who are living in this in real time. I am primarily interested in the mindset that is needed to effectively make it work.

Thank you.

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RE: Seeking information about 24/7 lifestyle servitude. - 11/26/2005 5:10:41 PM

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If it is something you really want you need to make it clear with the prospective mistresses that you are unsure.
For me I made three unsuccessful attempts but for the most part there was not too much bad feelings upon splitting up as it was decided beforehand that it would be a 1 month trial live in time.
i was successful on my fourth attempt and now am living happily ever after.

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RE: Seeking information about 24/7 lifestyle servitude. - 11/26/2005 7:24:21 PM

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Living 24/7 varies from relationship to relationship -- even within the same household or with the same owner/dominant the requirements might differ with different slaves/submisisives.

To be really honest most folks I know who do 24/7 live very mundane lives the vast majority of the time -- real life is like that. What makes it 24/7 for them and for me is that we recognize that one person in the relationship (the dom or owner) has the authority to make decisions and to be served while the other person (sub or slave) has the responsiblity to serve.

That's pretty much where I've seen similarities end.

I know a gay 24/7 couple (fairly famous pair) who have been together 10 years -- when the slave gets home he undresses, he does the vast majority of the cooking, his orgasms are strictly controlled (etc).

Then there's me and Fox. Only time Fox is naked is when I tell him to be or his taking a shower. I do most of the cooking. Except when he is physically with me, he can orgasm anytime and frankly hasn't orgasmed in my pressence in half a year or so.

But guess what? We get along great with the gay 24/7 couple, in fact we consider them our closest friends of this orientation (they are in a larger city and know more folks who practice 24/7 than we do on a face-to-face basis). We just passed our 6th year together in fact but we see their level of committment and communication as something we try to emulate.

Our rules and rituals are completely different but when I talk to the gay master, we click, we understand each other perfectly; same for our slaves. While what we do may look very different, the core, the basis is the same.

So to understand 24/7 I think you just need to see the core (recognized power or authority dynamic that does not end) and then realize there is nothing common beyond that.

If you find a person whom you match well enough then 24/7 can be great. I won't lie to you, it is still work and an ongoing dynamic that real life and changes in the individuals involved may require adjustments over time.

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