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Mentoring - 9/4/2008 11:42:50 AM   
heyjohn56


Posts: 7
Joined: 9/4/2008
Status: offline 		I'm a novice Master who has done a lot of reading and research, but there's nothing like experience. I'd like to know where I might get some 'mentoring'. I want to know more about what to do when considering a sub, what kinds of assignments to give, and of course more about scenes, how to make them safe and pleasurable. Thanks in advance for any advice.
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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 11:46:28 AM   
GabrielleSlave


Posts: 616
Joined: 9/20/2007
From: in servitude
Status: offline 		Hey, just perved Your profile to find You don't exist...

Gabrielle x

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"There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master."
D. H. Lawrence

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:11:58 PM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		Mentoring 101, How to Mentor the Non-Existance Dominant

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:14:36 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline 		A location would be helpful. 


Cali


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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:24:48 PM   
azropedntied


Posts: 1829
Joined: 7/25/2005
From: Phx AZ
Status: offline 		use the force ?

U all crack me up ..

john in case your existence maybe real and question as well , I suggest you get involved  in your  areas community , observe and take notice of Tops you admire then approach respectfully and ask for tips and guidance . 

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:28:46 PM   
heyjohn56


Posts: 7
Joined: 9/4/2008
Status: offline 		On CM my profile is SirLucas.

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:33:05 PM   
heyjohn56


Posts: 7
Joined: 9/4/2008
Status: offline 		Sorry for my improper introduction. On CM I'm SirLucas. I'm a novice in the Chicago area. I'm more interested in learning how to apply the mental and emotional aspects of D/s in establishing and maintaining a relationship with a prospective sub. We're both married so this will be done part-time and most of our discussions will happen online. If there's anything else I left out due to my ineptness at this point, please let me know. I'm a quick learner.

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:36:07 PM   
GabrielleSlave


Posts: 616
Joined: 9/20/2007
From: in servitude
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quote:

ORIGINAL: heyjohn56

On CM I'm SirLucas.


This is isn't CM then?  Blimey i'm in the wrong place *runs for the door before anyone sees* 

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~ Host of the Rather Marvelous Greenwich Munch ~

"There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master."
D. H. Lawrence

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:36:15 PM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		Married, sneaking behind a spouses back, and online.

I am bowing out of this one before I give Madame Eleven just cause to write me a love note.


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:37:26 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		You are probably in the wrong place to get mentoring for a cheating relationship. The majority of us frown upon that, so we arent going to be very keen to help you learn.
Good luck

DV


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Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:39:58 PM   
sirsholly


Posts: 42360
Joined: 9/7/2007
From: Quietville
Status: offline 		what LadyT and Diurnal said.......

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GRACEFULLY CHALLENGED :::::splat:::::
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VAA/S FAN

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CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)


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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 12:46:54 PM   
kinkypuppy2


Posts: 345
Joined: 11/4/2007
Status: offline 		The honor of being asked to mentor someone is right near the top.
Best place is to get involved with your local bdsm community and just talk to and learn about who is who,  then approch them with your request.

Get references

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 4:53:25 PM   
BDezy00


Posts: 1
Joined: 9/4/2008
Status: offline 		I'm a novice master seeking mentoring as well.  I'm in Maryland just north of DC.

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RE: Mentoring - 9/4/2008 5:07:15 PM   
kiwisub12


Posts: 4742
Joined: 1/11/2006
Status: offline 		same advice - check out your local bdsm community.

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RE: Mentoring - 9/6/2008 6:05:31 AM   
AnnaOfAramis


Posts: 523
Joined: 7/30/2008
Status: offline 		This girl's Master, MasterAramis is happy to mentor novice dominants; however he will have no part in someone who is cheating on a spouse. Honor, integrity, and trust are the foundation of what he teaches, so the idea would be incompatible.

Regards,
anna

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