I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to..

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to..

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself to..

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get myself... - 9/5/2008 7:12:17 AM

winterlight

Posts: 1319
Joined: 2/18/2006
Status: offline

I have tried massaging my clit and also have tried two vibrators and nothing works.

I think the nerves in my clit are damaged. Please no jokes as i am serious about this.

I feel like i am broken by this.

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:13:59 AM

sirsholly

Posts: 42360
Joined: 9/7/2007
From: Quietville
Status: offline

are you taking any medications? That issue can be a side effect with some of them.

_____________________________

PICKED UPON
TECHNO-DOLT
MEMBER OF THE SUBBIE MAFIA
GRACEFULLY CHALLENGED :::::splat:::::
BOOT WHORE
VAA/S FAN

GIVES GOOD HEART (Lushy)

CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)

(in reply to winterlight)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:15:40 AM

kittinSol

Posts: 16926
Status: offline

I doubt the nerves are damaged. See a health professional: there are too many factors to take into account to make a diagnostic online.

_____________________________

(in reply to winterlight)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:17:44 AM

lusciouslips19

Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
Status: offline

Have you done any type of play that could have damaged these nerves?

_____________________________

Original Pimpette,
Keeper of Original Home Flag and Fire of Mr. Lance Hughes
Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

(in reply to sirsholly)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:17:48 AM

thishereboi

Posts: 14463
Joined: 6/19/2008
Status: offline

I would go to a Dr I trust and see if they can figure it out.

You mentioned nerve damage. Did something happen that you think may of caused it?

_____________________________

"Sweetie, you're wasting your gum" .. Albert

This here is the boi formerly known as orfunboi

(in reply to winterlight)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:19:13 AM

persephonee

Posts: 5089
Joined: 12/15/2007
Status: offline

Not enough information.
Do you masturbate daily or more often using a vibrator?
Do you soley focus on your clit for an extended period of time?
Do your sexual partners treat your clit roughly...with fingernails, foreign objects and the like?
Are you pierced?
The clit is both mucous membrane and erectile tissue. It can regain sensitivity but that requires a complete lack of contact for an extended period of time...weeks if not months...not 6 months usually, but a looong time. The only contact should be the accidental/hopefully not accidental contact during coitus....this means every one needs to keep their respective paws off her until such a time as she is speaking to you again.

Please respond to these questions and if you prefer PM me privately.

thank you

perse

btw....the hitachi magic wand is the hammer of the Gods...but it will defeat you in the end....i know...ive gone thru three of them....and my clit is A-OK...but has to be protected.

_____________________________

You be the Captain; i'll be no one.

And You can carry me away....if You want to. ~Kasey Chambers

E*Whore, extraordinaire....

Nothing is exactly as it seems~Nor, is it otherwise.

(in reply to winterlight)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:23:20 AM

baisemoigurl

Posts: 2
Joined: 8/31/2008
Status: offline

Don't take anything you hear from people on the internet too seriously, especially when it refers to your health.
So here's my advise. You may be having some difficulty in your life, due to stress from relationships, job etc... and you try to put that all to the side so you can enjoy sex or masurbation. It seems like you're not thinking about your problems, but you are. Your subconscious is the puppetmaster for your orgasms (and everything else for that matter). So whether you like it or not, you may have to do some digging to find out what is causing this 'problem'. I put that in quotes because the first step is to just accept things the way they are and then try to deal with them in a non-traumatic way. Be cool, chill about it, and try to go one step at a time to investigate causes. I think I heard that female orgasms are 90 psychologically induced and I can believe it.
Best of luck
Paris

(in reply to kittinSol)

Profile

Post #: 7

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:23:28 AM

Dnomyar

Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline

BS persephonee I am the hammer of the Gods.

(in reply to persephonee)

Profile

Post #: 8

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:23:54 AM

LaTigresse

Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline

Do the smart thing, turn your computer off and your phone on.

Call your gyno and schedule an appointment.

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to winterlight)

Profile

Post #: 9

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 7:38:30 AM

AnnaOfAramis

Posts: 523
Joined: 7/30/2008
Status: offline

Your age may also have something to do with it- ask your doctor. Sometimes, women approaching menopause can lose orgasms because of hormones. Maybe there is something he can do about it. Also, what others have said is true too... stress can impact it, and if you use a lot of vibrators like a bullet, they can make you a little immune to orgasms for awhile. So give those a rest for awhile. Later on, try the hitachi. The hitachi is the BEST. Wish they'd make some higher speed settings though and a longer cord! :D

best wishes,

anna

(in reply to LaTigresse)

Profile

Post #: 10

RE: I cannot orgasm anymore what should i try to get my... - 9/5/2008 2:37:20 PM

Aneirin

Posts: 6121
Joined: 3/18/2006
From: Tamaris
Status: offline

Ok, we all know the mind is the biggest and most powerful sex organ, when you pleasure, how do you think. Are you anxious or relaxed ?

Now I know something of this, SSRI'S did some damage, but I will admit anxiety is my biggest problem and the anxiety breeds misfunction which breeds anxiety and so on. My cure was to just plain forget about it all and concentrate on other things. Nature did it's thing when one day, out of the blue, totally unexpected I felt arousal. Yeehar, I was back online, nothing like it was, except for a time when I got fed up and quit the meds only to get what the doc called satyriaisis, that was scary, (I wondered why the cats were keeping away)

So, you might not be on medication, but misfunction does occur naturally and that causes anxiety and so forth. Perhaps backing off for a while might help you.

_____________________________

Everything we are is the result of what we have thought, the mind is everything, what we think, we become - Guatama Buddha

Conservatism is distrust of people tempered by fear - William Gladstone

(in reply to AnnaOfAramis)

Profile

Post #: 11