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RE: Love in BDSM - 9/11/2008 7:29:07 PM

LATEXBABY64

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i am not talking sleeping around i am talking about finding a good group of people
a human being who cares many play at being something they are not

on here there are many actors none that would get a academy award

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RE: Love in BDSM - 9/13/2008 10:54:03 AM

Deliena

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Personally love and BDSM together is the thing to shoot for. Master and i are very much in love and it hightens every element of our interaction. Blissful :)

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RE: Love in BDSM - 9/13/2008 12:22:04 PM

Maya2001

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If I was a service oriented slave only ..doing cleaning and chores love would not be a necessity. ,,but to the have a relationship that is physical between the 2 of us. I need the mental connection and part of that is knowing I am loved, cherished, respected inorder for me to be able to really let go and be able to submit fully and to want to do it I would have to love him as well ..without I would feel like I am going through the motions( acting a role) and there is no real pleasure or desire that would be able to keep me long term in the relationship

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RE: Love in BDSM - 9/13/2008 12:27:11 PM

HeidiAnn

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Yes, there has to be some form of affection/chemistry/love - whatever you wish to call it. But for me, it alone does not carry the relationship.

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