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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/14/2006 10:25:37 PM

crouchingtigress

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I have a perspective that I have not heard discussed so Ill throw my hat into the ring.

My boys clean, do laundry, yard work and all the shit jobs I dont want to do, sure I am thrilled to not have to lift a finger, but well beyond that is the core of their service and the core of my dominance : I get so aroused watching them naked, cuffed collared and cleaning.

I have always been aroused by watching men do house work, and the more they suffer while doing it the hotter it is, a man that sees something that needs to be done and does it with out being asked? well that is 24 kt gold.

I will not accept any boy that has no desire to please me in this way. Yhey learn quickly that there is a lot of home work and a lot of house work to be welcome at my feet, and if at first they might resist, seeing how intensely pleased and aroused I become form it shifts their mindset fairly quickly.

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/14/2006 11:00:09 PM

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Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free labor
You know openmindedslave, the more I read you, the less open minded I'm finding you to be, especially given the slave at the end of your name.
Anyway, is it you? No, some people will really treat you like you're the slave when you enter into that type of relationship, go figure!

So, if you enter into a power imbalanced relationship, be prepared to be treated unequally... If what you want is 50/50, go for it, and negotiate your relationship that way before you agree to become her whatever you want to call yourself.
I've turned down more than my fair share of men who "say" they want to serve in a no strings situation, because with me, there are always strings, and I'll pull them at my whim. M

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/16/2006 9:08:28 AM

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Just a thought to keep in mind, when you are new, everything goes against what you were taught by society, new submissives question everything, test everything, and have all kinds of "hard limits" that seeem to melt away like vanilla ice cream on a summers day the more they live, love and learn the leather lifestlye...

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Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free labor
You know openmindedslave, the more I read you, the less open minded I'm finding you to be, especially given the slave at the end of your name.

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/17/2006 12:07:59 AM

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I dont know if this was mentioned (as I didnt read all replies) but there is a fetish known as service oriented submission. For some it and of itself can be foreplay and a good part of a sexual interlude and very satisfying.

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/17/2006 12:12:14 AM

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I'd guess it's mostly a strategy to weed out posers, tourists, fakes, and other bullshit artists. It's not a strategy I'd adopt myself, because I'm not in need of a cleaning lady, but I can imagine it's a pretty effective way of getting rid of people who are just looking at you as an outlet for their fetishes and tawdry fantasies.

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It seems i am noticing more and more Masters / Mistresses demanding no- strings attached housework around the home.I do understand the desire for a submissive /slave to be of service to a superior. It just seems to be many are including "no strings" cleaning . Is that potential taking advantage of another without care to interact in the lifestyle???
Thank you for your time

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/17/2006 3:38:54 AM

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Submissives and slaves sometimes approach me to discuss a matter they can be sure will be held in strictest confidence; after a bit of brain-storming, they go off and slay their own dragons.

By contrast, an amazing number of Men over 40, calling Themselves Doms and Masters, want free legal advice and/or representation. Their problems are entirely of Their own making (i got caught drunk driving; i am thousands of dollars in arrears in child support; i got caught not paying payroll tax; i'm in the country illegally; i got caught not carrying workers' comp for my employees; i cannot write a business plan; i have no idea where my money is or if i am making a profit; and on and on...usually with more than one problem at once.)

Go figure.

FYI to no one in particular; i do not perform legal work for free. See my ad under "Professional Services" for my fee schedule and other information.

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They sound more like moochers than dominants, candy. Good for you!

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/17/2006 3:53:51 AM

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Yes, there are some people who really want nothing more than to clean one's house. Unfortunately they are very rare. But, having read the profiles of many dominant men, yeah...they're looking for free labor and a whole lot more, but without the responsibility. Not all, mind you, but a lot of them. Fortunately, I can click the "Back" button.

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RE: Is it me, or are we seeing more Doms wanting free ... - 4/17/2006 4:19:26 AM

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I encounter this phenomena all the time. "You will clean my house and I will give you nothing and you will like it, etc."

I just tell these cheap, manipulative jerks to open their wallet and the yellow pages and pay for it like everyone else.

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