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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/12/2008 7:14:49 PM   
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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/13/2008 3:05:54 AM   
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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/13/2008 5:18:03 AM   
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(Then again, maybe I watched too many x-files episodes and nobody is really "out there"  )



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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/14/2008 6:55:23 AM   
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No, I don't know, and I'm OK with that.

I have all these ideas in my head of what I'd want a partner to be like, and what I need.  The truth is, though, that the last partner I had was nothing like my accumulated list.  He was an amazing, grounded person.  Finding my love is not a matter of knowing, but of ... perceiving, recognizing.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/14/2008 7:30:01 AM   
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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/14/2008 4:53:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		The question is ambiguous.

I believe that on a planet where the population is approaching 7 billion,   http://www.netlingo.com/more/poptick.html  statistically each person has lots of people we could be a great match with, as long as we're nice people. The jerks, not so many...

Also I don't believe in god, or destiny, or that things are preordained in any way.

So I don't believe in "The One".

But taken another way, I can answer the question with a resounding "YES!"
  I have found the one I want, and he is the one I need. He is majestic and beautiful in his deep submission to me.

But as I mention at the beginning of this post, there doesn't have to be just one.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/14/2008 6:11:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		After enough experiences with the wrong ones, I had the smarts not to let the right one get away. After nearly 16 years together, both vanilla and now 24/7 BDSM as my slave, I am still finding new levels of depth to the relationship. Don’t think it’s that easy, it’s not. Every relationship has ups and downs but YES, knowing who and what you want and taking charge to get him/her is fantastic. BTW, knowing what you want in life is very liberating.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/14/2008 6:36:38 PM   
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And there’s a rose in the fisted glove and the eagle flies with the dove, and if you can’t be with the one you love, honey, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with, love the one you’re with.

(Apologies.  That reference was already made... I just brought it back again for the second chorus.)


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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/14/2008 7:32:48 PM   
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My Domme side has a pretty good picture of the sub I want ... not so much the physical but the character traits and attitudes and heart and mind. I don't believe in "the One" ... bit of a needle in a haystack notion with the current world population (what if he lives in Mongolia?? I'll never find him!) ... but I do believe there are lots of potentials out there. Whether I can get them to visit Me in country Australia is the real question!

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/15/2008 6:36:02 AM   
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It really was about if you knew the person who you think would make a good match for you.  Sorry if I confused anybody with it sounding more like a "The One" kind of thing. 

The answers were interesting, even from those who thought it meant something else.  Not to mention one answer that I was very interested in. 


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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/15/2008 9:57:45 AM   
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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/15/2008 11:21:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		I do know the one that I want, and knowing that determines who is accepted.  I suppose this could be answered from at least a couple different perspectives.  This was mine.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/15/2008 11:23:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lady Beckett!  Great to see you posting again!

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/15/2008 1:18:25 PM   
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Ah, so you were FISHING!! 

LOL.  No. 

It seems more often than not we are talking about the ones we've found more than the ones we're looking at.  I thought it was a good all around question, whether folks were already in a dynamic or just had their eye on someone.


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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/15/2008 4:47:49 PM   
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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/16/2008 9:53:31 AM   
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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/17/2008 4:30:39 PM   
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