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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/3/2005 4:04:07 PM

Belladonna82

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subbella *wink* love the name :P As for the topic i belive its comman for a sub/slave to fall in love with their Master.i love the Master i serve with ALL my heart and ALL my soul.i would do whatever i had to do to insure his happiness.Love is a natural thing....but the question would be would your love for him interfer with your service to him or make it stronger. Master tells me he love me all the time...he has hurt me,made me cry and punished me until i thought i was lost....but the catch is....he has always built me back up to where i felt secure and understood what had happened....i can not say "if you love me u will not punish me",but instead i say "if you love me u will punish me because i must learn and for me its a trial and error thing.Love is beautiful...but becareful it can be deadly!

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/3/2005 5:53:22 PM

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i've always known i was sub to some extent, and my fiance has always been the dominant one, but he and i fell in love with each other LONG before we started exploring anything D/s. he's been in the lifestyle before, i haven't. but i was the one to initiate it, to see if becoming completely submissive was an aspect of our relationship that i could handle.

i know when he's his normal self, he loves me with his entire being. i also know that when he's in "Master-mode", he loves me as much as the Master persona is capable of love. if we didn't have that in the first place, i wouldn't be able to submit as completely and totally to him as i do. trust is a big part of love, and if you're going to trust someone so much that you turn over all authority to them, you're damn close to loving them.

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/4/2005 12:27:39 AM

subbella

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Love is a necessary element in any serious relationship, and I consider the BD/sm relationship between Master and sub an extremely serious relationship. If a submissive does not have love for her Master, how could she possibly give her submission? If a submissive cannot trust her Master, how could she love him enough to give her submission to him? If a Master cannot open up and share his emotions with his sub, how can she continue to submit to him? A one-sided relationship of any nature cannot work. Gee, did I say this already? LOL

A few questions to ponder.

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/4/2005 9:21:01 AM

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OMG your response has me on the floor laffing, thanx for that, I needed it today. Very poignant response coming from a Master

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/4/2005 9:40:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

You are falling for Master...if he's sadistic, he will let you fall and hit your head. If he is loving, he will catch you. If he is not looking for a relationship...he will run.
If he just wants sex, he will let you fall, hit your head, pull your pants down, fuck you and then run.

so there are the scenarios, as I see them.

Geez.....i just signed on and i'm already laughing so hard i need to pee! Truly there are just as many "committment phobic" Doms as there are vanilla men. It's just that the committment phobic Doms, who are sadistic, will use you and hurt you all the more. Be careful! Just as in any vanilla relationship, make sure he feels the same way.

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/4/2005 2:51:13 PM

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quote:

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Thank you everyone for your input. I haven't told him the words "I love you" because I'm scared to do so. I have however, told him that I have feelings for him and he tells me that it hurts him that he can not return those feelings but that my happiness means alot to him. it confuses me.

EEEk that kind of screams married. Has he explained what he means by he can't return those feelings?

Still curious if he's explained what he means by he can't return those feelings especially if you are so confident that he's not married.

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/4/2005 9:24:10 PM

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This may help clarify. "I understand completely. Im sorry I can't give you what you want. I really do care about you. I know I'm a little distant so it may not show. Even though I'm at a time in my life where my heart is hardening it still hurts me to know that you have feelings that I can't return and for that I apologize."

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/5/2005 11:15:04 AM

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"Emotions are instinctive, involuntary reactions that upset the rational order of consciousness by their elemental outburst. Affects are not 'made' or willfully produced; they simply happen."

An emotional reaction to another person guarantees that we are projecting--meaning we affectively ascribe qualities to persons that they do not in fact have—or at least to the extent we believe they do.

On the other hand...feeling is a rational judgment, a way of knowing, based on values, on conscious likes and dislikes.

We cannot choose our emotions but we can always reevaluate our feelings.

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RE: Falling 4 Master - 12/5/2005 11:45:09 AM

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It is quite natural to fall for your MASTER. After all HE is the life you breathe, the sun you revolve around. So MY suggestion is to let your feelings be known

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