lusciouslips19
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Well, the post is sort of well, I say myself,"is this a troll?" Collared for 2 days? Havent heard from them in a day and is lost? Come on! I didnt hear from my Master last night. I guess I should freak out!
Blackphx and I have been together for 5 years now, face to face and in real time..when he doesn't contact me when expected and scheduled to do so..I panic, get angry, worried, and have even contacted his office if it carries over to the next day. Usually it is because his phone charger was lost or he was exhausted or couldn't get wi-fi where he was, but that doesn't stop me from worrying about him. He is 40 I am 55..he is still my heart and my life.
While the OP is young, that doesn't make her worry any less valid. There are many Doctors who knew in grade school what they wanted to do..and they are not the only ones.
CJ.. take a deep breath and try and relax. There are many reasons some one may not have contacted you when expected to. Not all of them are bad and few have anything to do with you. The best laid plans of mice and men and all that. Cell phones get lost, computers crash, work beckons. If you have not heard from him by the weekend, then yes it is possible that he has changed his mind and is too much of a coward to say anything.
Relationships take time to form and deepen, especially BDSM ones as they involve a level of trust most people dont achieve with casual dating. You are young, take your time and enjoy exploring your life and need, don't just rush in. It is not all Sleeping Beauty or Exit to Eden. There are many dangers and piutfalls out there even for the old and wary. If you can, hook up with your local munch or Next Gen Munch and get to know yourself and your local community. You will find a great support network there, and people who can advise you better than we can on a forum.
Good luck
poenkitten
poen,
while I agree to a point...My Master didnt call last night. he most likely fell asleep exhausted getting home late from work. I know this but it was hard getting to sleep without his phone call. However, the OP didnt specify how long there relationship is. At 18 how do we know they didnt meet 2 days ago or 3 days ago? What if there relationship is online only? If you notice the Op hasnt been back to give any more details. It just seemed far fetched and made up drama. yes, I know I could be wrong. However, we need the Op to enlighten us with the details for us to determine if its real .
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Can anybody help me ad tell me how to figure out why my trainer will not talk to me? i have done nothing wrong and he said we would get together on 9/10/08 which we did but he also said we woulod be together on 9/11/08 as well and i have had not contact from him at all today concerning why we did not meet last night....i am scared when i have only been collared for about 2 days now.......i have not disobayed him at all.....I feel scared and lost without knowing what is going on? please someone help me....my heart is bleeding
i kind of feel like a child left out on her own...no shelter and no arms to keep me safe and warm 
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