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RE: HELP!!! - 9/14/2008 1:01:01 PM

MsFinch

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"Who's scruffy lookin'?" can't be all that bad... OMG that's so funny!

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RE: HELP!!! - 9/14/2008 8:47:54 PM

TanukiChan

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Poor thing - young thing inside, huh? Try not to mind the snarky ones. They're most likely self-righteous pricks that somehow feel some pride getting a verbal one-up on sweet little things like yourself. Shameful.

Now, your problem. Calm down, honey. The possibilities here are endless, but very few of them are worth fretting over. Wait and see what happens. The world won't end over this little thing - and if it turns out that he's a bastard or taking advantage of your adoration by playing unwelcome mindgames, put him behind you.

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RE: HELP!!! - 9/14/2008 9:22:04 PM

Dominatebynature

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If you had serious plans, it sounds like you got stood up. I'm sorry for that, but it happens. Either talk with him and work it out, or let it go and move on. Breaking plans 2 days after collaring a girl sounds strange to me.

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RE: HELP!!! - 9/14/2008 9:53:38 PM

masterforRT

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If you are that 'addicted' to someone whose collar you have worn exactly 2 days-well, IMHO you are in WAY too deep, way too quickly! Take a step back and a deep breath and re-assess your options.

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RE: HELP!!! - 9/15/2008 12:18:40 AM

patina

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greetings all:

i have had both ends of the spectrum, i had no contact for 30 days with a training Master. i think i was justified to feel lost, and all alone. i checked and found the master was just not in the mood to deal with me, so i said i am abandoned and begged release. On the other end a guy i had been talking to for 2 yrs. suddenly disapeared, after 2 months i got an email from his sister, telling me he had been in a serious car wreck. He is fine now in fact just contacted me today,   He refused to get back in touch with me until he was able to walk on his own two feet again, it took a total of 5 months. i am going on hopes he is not playing a game but we have actually talked off and on for 5 yrs now.

It seems something always gets in our way. He has had 2 heart surgeries, a heart by-pass, a blood clot almost killed him, a bad car wreck, his daughter had a bad car wreck, lost a baby, it seems fate is set for us to always have problems. During the time i was in a training collar i was forbidden to meet him. We are setting up after the holidays to met, his daughter is moving out then and i can save the money to get travel and hotel expenses if needed.   I want to stay in one the first few day anyway.  A cop friend of mine has done a full background check on him for me it came back everything ok. i have phone numbers, cell and land line, full home address, birthdate, widowed wife's name, sisters name and email address, daughters name. I feel as safe and as secure as i can be.

Those waiting it can be for both good and bad reasons you do not hear.  Only way to find out is try to contact them and get as much info before hand if they won't give it then forget them.    I learned all that the hard way and am not young just naive in trusting others. comes from growing up in a place you never have to lock doors and can even leave keys in cars. lol

patina

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