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RE: Don't want to seem pushy - 9/16/2008 10:03:50 AM

HotMistress22

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You sound selfishly excited to Me. Wait. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want you as badly, do you? Wait for her next move. Maybe she is testing your self control.

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RE: Don't want to seem pushy - 9/16/2008 9:06:26 PM

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Hell...a thank you note used to be a very nice thing to do after any type of social meeting. You sent your card along with a thank you note . As you trying to make this a social thing..I really would suggest sending the card..and hello..even flowers !!! You never go wrong with flowers...just ask any sub or Domme here..LOL

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RE: Don't want to seem pushy - 9/16/2008 10:47:37 PM

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I've had several of my pro-domme friends who believe in using the 3 session rule. Simply: "Don't even bring up the idea of being a personal slave to me until after we have had 3 paid sessions. after that you will be a little more comfortable around me, and I will have gotten a chance to know you better and I will give you a straight answer if you have any chance in hell"

normally I would consider this a bullshit line in order to get three sessions out of the guys... except that is exactly how they got their personal slaves, most of whom have been serving the mistresses for several years.

to the OP: even if she doesn't subscribe to the 3 session rule, doesn't mean you can't show her that she is more important to you then the money you are spending. if she really is that important to you and you prove that you will do what it takes to earn the money in order to see her you might actually prove to her that you are dependable and reliable and willing to work hard to please her in her personal life. then again it could just be about the money, and you have no chance in hell. How much of your fascination is respect for the woman and how much of it is the fantasy?

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