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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Born Or Created? (12/15/2005 9:12:23 PM)
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dear mojo
great point in your question about being born,as is....
i was born in a family of sadists siblings, not mom or dad ,but i eventually had no other choice, or aspects,in my daily life
but i musta had a propensity to be bottom by preference
or
i would be like them; VIOLENT;sadisitic ;ignorant; no character;no morality ,Nor compassion ,and ,supposedly straight -hets,-(remember ,that song, in the fifties ;gays use to make fun of straights,with ? it goes ..."het; het; wooooo- het; het- woooo ooo"...,by ,Dion?)anyway
you ,either turn out the same, or ,just the opposite,of your family
, so theres usually no, in-between, to predict, in a subjects' future.
your initial-crucial-fases of development
are experiences, from your family
and the family environment
you don't come outta' the blue ,
so ,of course its family!
even if you change all your environment
;you still return, to the family, for 24 hours of "emotional-poison," if that's the case and ,every positive change ,in environment ,or experience is turned back ,around,so
remove yourself, from the family environment and,experience and ,genetics and ,you have ,another possibly ....
which is not, only very hard to prove but,
very unlikely,
thats why" gifted childeren" should be recognized early and encouraged and ,sepparated ,from family ,as should abused children
be sepparated, forever ;completely, from the problem-family ;period!
no other way .
what :....
you gonna' wait ,till its, too late
,and that child lost their life or the chance for a full or different life and ,future for good?
cause, thats all that's gonna make you who you are.
you can,MAYBE,rize above it,
if you are the "exception" ,
and,only,if you can.
i was born a very masochistic slave is ,probably true ,unless i was removed, from my family ;which:
DEFINATLEY :was'nt ever the case (unfortunately), but i adapt ,I'M ,NOT MALADAPTIVE,and I defend my rights ,to:
"pursue happiness ",in my own way ,under the- american pursuit of happiness bill,in the constitution.[;)]
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