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Strong and submissive - 11/30/2005 9:17:32 AM

Emita

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Hello collarme folks,
I'm brand new to this -- have been fighting with my submissive feelings for ages, -- and am so relieved to find (for the most part) such smart, thoughtful people here. I used to think my desire for a dominant man was a poisonous byproduct of a sexist society -- that, despite my being raised to be strong and assertive, traditional gender role foolishness had somehow seeped into my system. Now I can read the profiles of other women who are at once submissive and so obviously strong and smart -- probably super obvious to you all, but a revelation to me!
So I'll keep lurking for a while, reading up on this new world. Much of it turns me off (I'm not in to pain, which seems to be a big theme here), in fact, I suspect that my kink is rather mild -- more psychological than physical (though I love sex!) -- but it's fun to finally be ridding myself of shame and investigating this side of my sexual self.
Thanks for that!
Aloha,
Emita

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RE: Strong and submissive - 11/30/2005 11:00:03 AM

MasterRobert1

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Nothing at all contradictory about being aboth strong AND submissive. It takes a strong heart, mind, and will to be a submissive. Sounds like you have the tools. Just a matter of apply yourself to finding the submissive inside of you and allowing that part to express herself.

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RE: Strong and submissive - 11/30/2005 11:20:12 AM

missdriver

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Hi Emita.

I too am strong and essertive. I can sometimes come accross as dominating. This is just a role i play in my job. I drive taxi on weekend nights. I work with a lot of men and also pick up a lot of drunken men. Can you imagine what it would be like if they knew i was a sub.....lol

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RE: Strong and submissive - 11/30/2005 11:32:37 AM

LilWhiteWolf

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hi Emita and welcome...i am still fairly new to collar me but not really new to the lifestyle. and i am like you...i am very strong yet with the right Dominant...i am very submissive. i will only be submissive to one and to me, that is how it should be. so don't worry, just go with your feelings and don't jump into anything too soon. go by your "gut feelings".

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RE: Strong and submissive - 11/30/2005 3:06:36 PM

GeneGG

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There is nothing wrong with being a strong submissive ... as my Master tells me ... submission is something that is done wilfully ... i have a key chain that says ... " You call me a bitch ... like it's a bad thing!!!)... i enjoy and love my strenght ... as does my Master ... (most of the time he does...LOL)

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