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Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 4:38:11 PM   
Sylverdawn


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Status: offline 		Explain this too me please.. fellow has contacted me twice.. sent me his picture..is relatively local.. I get three four polite emails then he deletes his account.. preplexed..

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 4:39:06 PM   
Lynnxz


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From: Atlanta
Status: offline 		"Boys are Flakey"

Nuff said. ;)


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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 4:40:21 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


Posts: 618
Joined: 12/14/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		I assue you, there a PLENTY more where ever he came from. 

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 4:43:37 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Saved you the time of turning him down perhaps? Or got caught by the Missus..



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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 4:46:42 PM   
QueenIsis


Posts: 27
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Status: offline 		Who knows why males act as they do?...The same thing happened to me by a guy who had even followed me to a social networking account online! He deleted his account, saying he wasn't so sure about being interested in submission anymore, then he whined when I picked someone else! 

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 4:50:20 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		he realized you were related.

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 5:50:25 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
Status: offline 		He probably just saved you some trouble later on.

< Message edited by MsSonnetMarwood -- 9/18/2008 5:51:12 PM >

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 6:16:23 PM   
Sylverdawn


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Status: offline 		They exhaust me....

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 6:26:27 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		If I had a nickel for every sub who deleted an account....

Wait... let's up date that old cliche... If I had a pair of SHOES for every sub...


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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 6:29:31 PM   
Usako


Posts: 697
Joined: 7/29/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		Women do it too and can be just as flakey, for one.

Two, it happens but such is life. Sometimes, it's not totally their fault. I've seen quite a few "new users" listed who, in their profile complained how CM deleted their account/profile for no reason. Now THAT must be annoying. Not to mention if wankers report a profile (for no reason) and your profile gets hidden since CM doesn't manually check the report system, people might also think you deleted your stuff. Though that's simple to fix with a message. *shrug*

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 7:08:44 PM   
AAkasha


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Does the flakiness potential decrease after some period of time?
I am courting a couple of potentials for a real life encounter that will require me to fly to their city, rent a room for a night or two, and also pay the expenses of my girlfriend to go as my "chaperone" (she is femdom too, so it works out well).  With that in mind, it's a costly little "daytrip" and if I did that and a guy flaked I'd be pretty upset.

I have another couple of options related to some business travel I have to do anyway - so no big deal there, whatever happens, happens. But if I am flying out specifically for the purpose of training someone for a couple of days...I'd be upset.  I guess I can have a "plan B" but to be honest the couple of cities in question are not exactly locations I would visit for a girls' weekend of fun (hahah).

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 7:18:07 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		What can I say?  In the beginning, there are great hopes.  Still, the boys can not realize them.

We all learn this lesson.  Everyday.  All of the time.  I wish I could help you in your confusion, but I don't think I can.

Just remember, even the experience domme falls prey sometimes.


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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 7:35:36 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Flaky only scratches the surface, really.  There are all sorts of coping strategies for saving your time and energy, and once you start using them you will get called harsh and unreasonable!  It's so much easier to just say NEXT and move on. 

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 7:55:30 PM   
HotMistress22


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Status: offline 		I do a webcam verification within the first few emails and that weeds out the serious candidates from the online wankers.  Who knows why boys are so fickle?

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 8:00:49 PM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HotMistress22

I do a webcam verification within the first few emails and that weeds out the serious candidates from the online wankers.  Who knows why boys are so fickle?


Seeing them on webcam only proves they are the same as their picture. It does not guarantee they will show up for a casual lunch meeting, a cup of coffee, or meet me at a hotel after I fly 2,000 miles to dominate them.

Akasha


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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 8:07:13 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		i love the web cam verifications.....because the person who wants the verification never verifies themselves!

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 8:13:51 PM   
Sylverdawn


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Status: offline 		when I say he contacted me twice I should have clarified .. he contacted me on two seperate occasion both times there were several as in more than six seperate cmails.. both times the account was deleted...not two emails.

< Message edited by Sylverdawn -- 9/18/2008 8:14:43 PM >

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 8:36:33 PM   
corysub


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Status: offline 		Many of the profiles are phantoms.  I would be wary of any Master/Domme, boy/girl who after a couple of friendly emails deny's some sort of certification, phone conversation, etc  as to legitimacy.  Too many kooks out there.  You can't be too careful these days...You were saved a lot of time wasted with his evaporation into the ether.

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/18/2008 9:49:02 PM   
chiaThePet


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Like pie crust?

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RE: Boys are Flakey - 9/19/2008 3:06:05 AM   
zakkan


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Status: offline 		He is likely trying to find out more about you before revealing his true account. He hides behind the "masks" of the fake accounts, each time finding out more of your likes and dislikes, then makes his move using his true account when he has collected enough info on you. That way, he is almost guaranteed of a positive response. Its like what Nicholas Cage was doing in that movie where he could see into the future.

Did you reply to him? The picture was likely a fake, just to find out your tastes.

I could be totally wrong, of course


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