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Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 8:48:50 AM   
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A while back we were about 15 hours into a heavy interrogation scene. I was blindfolded and Sir was munching some crackers as he went along. Just out of habit he put a cracker in my mouth. He didn't mean anything by it or intend for it to become part of the scene. I, however, had no idea what it's meaning was or what I was supposed to do with it. So I didn't do anything with it, I just held it between my lips. Sir realized that the cracker was somehow screwing with me so he ended up using the situation to his advantage. There I sat for a half an hour or so with this silly cracker burning the crap out of my lips....afraid to eat it or spit it out. I have to tell you that at that point in the scene I was so jumbled up that nothing I said or did seemed safe and that cracker messed with my head hard. Later Sir told me that watching my struggle with that damned cracker was one of the high points for him...unintentional as it was.

Just the other night we were scening at a private party and the music changed. We were doing a heavy impact scene and this sappy love song came on. We both busted up laughing. It messed up both of our headspaces....so much that we had to just stop so Sir could correct the problem.

Over the years I've had a number of those small unintentional things happen that have had a huge impact on a scene. From an itch on my nose to my Mom's voice in the background leaving a message on the answering machine.

Do any of you have examples of those kinds of things that you would like to share? Were you surprised by the effects of them? Did you become aware of the effects at some point and use them to your advantage?

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 8:59:00 AM   
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That rap song with the orphans from Annie...singing "Its a hard knock life for us".....blew one of my better scenes. Somehow me standing up against restraints and rolling my eyes kinda ruined the vibe.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 9:04:29 AM   
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theres a rap version of that song? *twitch*

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 9:16:00 AM   
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oh god...some sort of rap song and in the middle is that sample...directly off the broadway soundtrack. Absolutely a hard limit.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 10:07:30 AM   
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*gack*

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 10:10:11 AM   
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it was...traumatic to say the least.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 10:11:02 AM   
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I'd be in therapy

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 10:19:11 AM   
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Later i did a therapy scene and it all faded away.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 10:55:08 AM   
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I have three that come to mind, and two are musically related, actually:

1.  I was involved in a heavy whipping/spanking scene and about 3 hours in, having used paddles, razor strops and a snake whip on her, while I was using a buggy whip on her back and ass, she sort of rolled to one side just as I let go of a stroke.  The whip wrapped and the cracker landed on that soft space about an inch below the belly button.  She was shaved, and there was immediately about a 1" welt, with a bit of blood.  She moaned and went right off into a very intense orgasm (she would have orgasms that -- especially when she was bound -- were almost like seizures).  I rode it out with her, made sure everything was ok, and cooled us both down.  Later she said that that one stroke, and the feeling of the welt on her belly, was all that she really remembered in the entire scene.  I remember thinking that was my favorite mistake.

2.  In a semi-public party dungeon in Las Vegas a few years ago, some moron puts on the soundtrack from Schindler's List as "scene music".  If that weren't bad enough, the cut they chose is the instrumental based on the traditional Yom Kippur prayer of "kol nidre" -- a beautiful, haunting melody that is unmistakeable to any Jew who has the least bit of religious background.  Kol nidre is the most important single prayer from the most important single day in the Jewish calendar, and there is NOTHING about that prayer or that day you want during a scene.  Trust me.  I froze.  My slave (not Jewish) looks up because she can sense that something has stopped Me, and I'm basically stricken.  Ruined the whole scene for Me and when I walked over to the CD player and changed it, this idiot says "well I thought it was good scene music because it didn't have words".  Feh.

3.  Same slave, an evening in the long-gone "Shadowfind" dungeon in Niles, MI.  We've been playing all day, on and off.  There are 3 other couples in this TINY little space that used to serve as the downstairs dungeon.  Enigma or something is playing on the CD player.  The disk ends, and this goofy "Irish Rovers" type music comes on.  Like a collection of reels and jigs.  Now I love Celtic music, but this was the worst of the "diddly-diddly" style, and it was really silly.  And really not fitting for the spanks, slaps, grunts, moans and groans going on all around.   I start talking in my wee little leperchaun voice and doing a little jig as I'm flogging My slave.  Someone giggles something about her "lucky charms".  Soon everyone in the space is laughing and making silly jokes and any "serious" B/D/S/M behavior is out the window.


E.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 12:34:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I'd be in therapy


~occasionally harbors the notion that anyone who listens to rap music...including my ums...should be in therapy~

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 1:14:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

and this goofy "Irish Rovers" type music comes on.  Like a collection of reels and jigs.

E.


The Irish Rovers? LMFAO  I thought they were long gone and forgotten....lol
When I was growing up in Maine they were really well known in that area.
use to love that wasnt that a party song....lol
Nice to see you have a sense of humor and took it all in spirit...LOL
I myself would not really be able function.... it would cause a whole mental block...lol 

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 4:37:54 PM   
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a couple friend of mine once said that their scene was spoiled by their german shepherd and calico cat just sitting there, watching them do their stuff.  i thought that was kinda hilarious!

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 5:26:25 PM   
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It was a home intruder scene.  I was bound and gagged and blindfolded.  He was telling me all the “horrible” plans he had for me.  He was a smoker and without thinking lit a cigarette.  I am scared shitless of burns and fire.  All he had intended to do was smoke a cigarette but I reacted so strongly that I managed to spit out the ball gag and scream.  He truly enjoyed that and tortured me with threats for what seemed a very long time  He said my response made the scene more real---it was very real to me at that point!

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 5:34:06 PM   
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I saw a tiny mouse scurry across the dungeon floor last winter.  Right in front of the bench I was draped over.  It was over,   I was never going to get my head in the right place again that night

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 6:18:42 PM   
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me: tied, blindfolded, apprehensive.
him:  leaning over to retrieve something off the shelf.

gas.  happens.  i hear him, and the giggles begin.  i swear to god, i thought he ripped a hole in the sheets or something!  there went THAT mood.  oh well, it went to tickles and that's torture of its own special kind.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 8:40:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

That rap song with the orphans from Annie...singing "Its a hard knock life for us".....blew one of my better scenes. Somehow me standing up against restraints and rolling my eyes kinda ruined the vibe.


You mean this song from Goldmember?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRtpP5T5AFk


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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 8:58:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiazn03

a couple friend of mine once said that their scene was spoiled by their german shepherd and calico cat just sitting there, watching them do their stuff.  i thought that was kinda hilarious!


yeah there's nothing like looking over and seeing both your cats siting there staring at you. Or when you break the rope out and your kitten goes diving in thinking it's his play time. trying to untangle rope is great when there's a cat attached to one end.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 9:34:15 PM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: persephonee

That rap song with the orphans from Annie...singing "Its a hard knock life for us".....blew one of my better scenes. Somehow me standing up against restraints and rolling my eyes kinda ruined the vibe.


You mean this song from Goldmember?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRtpP5T5AFk



Oh dear Lord...i dont think that is it...but its close enough to make me cringe...now where is my therapists phone number.....dammit.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/19/2008 11:02:44 PM   
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Daddy and I were in the middle of some age play.  Now, we'd already discussed the fact that I don't *do* incest scenarios.  So, anyway, I'm all dressed up in my schoolgirl outfit, and Daddy is questioning me about why I didn't wear any panties and accusing me of letting the boys at school look up my skirt.  I'm imagining boys under the bleachers and getting hot thinking about the spanking that's surely coming.  Daddy asks me if I've done anything with any of the boys and accuses me of being a little slut.  Of course, I deny it....and then.....I tell Daddy I want to suck HIS cock.  The moment I said it, it felt so WRONG but.....strangely hot.  The shocked look on his face and the "horrified" YOU DO?!? had me giggling uncontrollably which made him laugh which made me laugh harder....so.....yeah.....we tried to continue....but the "Ooooo, Daddy, that was sooooo wrong (giggle fit)....you should spank me (dies laughing)" was pretty much the end of that scene.

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RE: Unintentional little things that have a big impact - 9/20/2008 6:38:35 AM   
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Tied to the coffee table. He's rummaging through the toy bag. My golden retriever comes over and starts licking my face. Laughter ensues and the desperate need to dry my face. I think we left her in the living room and we retreated to the bedroom.

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