Things to do with time constraints

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

Things to do with time constraints

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Things to do with time constraints

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

Things to do with time constraints - 9/23/2008 6:37:10 PM

ltrsk

Posts: 1
Joined: 8/5/2008
Status: offline

I wouldn't be surprised if this has been posted before, but I wouldn't know what to search for. If anyone knows an existing topic, please post it.

I am in an online relationship with my mistress, and we have less time than we would like. Can anyone suggest things for my mistress that wouldn't require us to be together for very long?

Thanks everyone in advance - I don't want to read the replies myself so this is my first and only post. If something needs clarifying, my mistress will tell me. Thank you!

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: Things to do with time constraints - 9/23/2008 6:42:11 PM

LadyLupineNYC

Posts: 618
Joined: 12/14/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline

Just about everything save more extreme play, mummification, deep psychological play can be done in an hour or less, it’s just that it tend to be less fulfilling. If the play is ‘light’ and fun (i.e. not really focusing on the whole ‘yes, Mistress; no Mistress’ stuff it can be easier. I have done just about everything, including a nice quick hogtie with several variations before my boy had to leave to get a plane back to KS. So the only real issue is- what are the scenes you two are actually looking to do?

_____________________________

Facta, non verba gratia placenti

"I have been looking for a way to serve the community that incorporates my violence..."

(in reply to ltrsk)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: Things to do with time constraints - 9/23/2008 7:00:55 PM

LadyPact

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

While I enjoy the opportunity for longer scenes, I know this isn't always realistic if I want to get the play in and still meet all of My other commitments. I'd rather have the two or three hours, sometimes play can only happen when one has thirty minutes.

Understand, I'm a sadist. I can still crunch in a five to ten minute warm up, get to the serious pain, and still have time for aftercare for a little while in a thirty minute period. That's the real time version. In half an hour of cyber, I can instruct someone to do a thing or two that will trip My trigger that don't take nearly as long.

Has the possiblitiy been approached that there might be some things you can do that don't involve actual time together? Some of My favorites have included having My boy tie a ribbon on his cock to think of Me all day or have an online ritual for him to complete for Me in the mornings to show his submission. I'm the type that always wants My boys thinking of Me, even if they aren't in My physical preference.

My other advice to you is to use the time that you do have wisely. It doesn't always have to be play oriented. Even the online stuff fills a need.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LadyLupineNYC)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: Things to do with time constraints - 9/25/2008 10:19:58 PM

slim1112

Posts: 9
Joined: 6/29/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

having My boy tie a ribbon on his cock to think of Me all day or have an online ritual for him to complete for Me in the mornings to show his submission. I'm the type that always wants My boys thinking of Me, even if they aren't in My physical preference.

this type of play does permeate your mind...i can say for sure that if i was instructed to tie a ribbon on myself i would really enjoy it...

(in reply to LadyPact)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: Things to do with time constraints - 9/26/2008 4:29:21 AM

MsStarlett

Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline

*smile* That was the very first thing I did with my best boy. I had him drop his pants and I tied a red ribbon on his cock then took him to the mall to walk around. *ahhh* Thanks for the memory.

_____________________________

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

(in reply to slim1112)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: Things to do with time constraints - 9/26/2008 4:56:04 AM

thishereboi

Posts: 14463
Joined: 6/19/2008
Status: offline

I'm not sure what your asking here. Are you looking for time saving hints for your Mistress? Maybe have her rework her schedule to allow more time for internet play. Get a submissive in to clean for her and save her time there.

I am also confused by your last line.

"Thanks everyone in advance - I don't want to read the replies myself so this is my first and only post. If something needs clarifying, my mistress will tell me. Thank you!"

I am not sure why you are asking a question, if you have no plans on reading the answers. Does this mean your mistress will be logging on and reading this?

_____________________________

"Sweetie, you're wasting your gum" .. Albert

This here is the boi formerly known as orfunboi

(in reply to ltrsk)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: Things to do with time constraints - 9/26/2008 5:01:45 AM

MsStarlett

Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline

Maybe it's just another tactic for wanking fodder. *cynical grins*

_____________________________

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

(in reply to thishereboi)

Profile

Post #: 7