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subtee -> EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 9:16:26 AM)

So-called “seeking” single subs simply state:
 
Why are you single? Is it you? Is it them? Do you know why? If you had to admit something(s) about yourself that contribute(s) to your singlehood status, what would it/they be? Are you completely honest and frank with yourself about it?
 
Are you scared?
Are you picky?
Are you in a place not conducive to a relationship?
Do you have other priorities?
Are there characteristics about your personality or the expression of your submissiveness that make relationships difficult? (Or impossible, even?)
 
Is it your location?
Lack of opportunity?
Are they all wankers and fakes?
Are you having trouble matching because what you seek in a relationship or interaction isn’t readily available? Is it unique?
Are they seemingly looking for (general) characteristics that preclude you? If so, what do these characteristics seem to be? Are they changeable?
Do they have (general) characteristics that turn you off? Again, what are they and are they changeable?
 
Do you actively “seek?” In what ways?
Do you reach a certain phase of the seeking and encounter problems? Is it chronic?
Is it something(s) outside of your control?
 
What else?
 
Is this too many questions? Yes?
 
Answer any, all or none, at your whim. [sm=writing.gif]
 
Thanks!
 



IrishMist -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 9:30:43 AM)

LOL you fucking crack me up sometimes [8D]

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Why are you single? Is it you?

Yep, it's all me
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  Do you know why?

Yes, I know why.
quote:

  If you had to admit something(s) about yourself that contribute(s) to your singlehood status, what would it/they be?

I make it a point to keep others away...in fact, I go very far out of my way so that the interest of others never has a chance to take off.
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  Are you completely honest and frank with yourself about it?


Yep
quote:

  Are you scared?
Are you picky?
Are you in a place not conducive to a relationship?
Do you have other priorities?


No to all of these
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Are there characteristics about your personality or the expression of your submissiveness that make relationships difficult? (Or impossible, even?) 

Yep. I am violent and at times deadly; not something that I would want another to have to deal with.
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  Is it your location?
Lack of opportunity?
Are they all wankers and fakes?
Are you having trouble matching because what you seek in a relationship or interaction isn’t readily available? Is it unique?
Are they seemingly looking for (general) characteristics that preclude you? If so, what do these characteristics seem to be? Are they changeable?
Do they have (general) characteristics that turn you off? Again, what are they and are they changeable?


No to all of these.
quote:

  Do you actively “seek?” In what ways?
Do you reach a certain phase of the seeking and encounter problems? Is it chronic?
Is it something(s) outside of your control?


No to all
quote:

  Is this too many questions? Yes?


Yes, but then, you are a nosey little wench so I guess it's ok [8D]



subtee -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 9:42:12 AM)

And you made me LOL--literally.

Thanks for posting [sm=bowdown.gif]



E2Sweet -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 9:58:47 AM)

Hmm... That's an awful lot of questions... How do I know you're not from the FBI?... [;)]



patina -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 10:10:54 AM)

nah  shes from the IRS

patina



subtee -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 10:20:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: E2Sweet

Hmm... That's an awful lot of questions... How do I know you're not from the FBI?... [;)]


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nah  shes from the IRS

patina



Pfftt. FBI?!! Ha. IRS??!! Double HA!

~takes out notebook and pen~



BiteGirl -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 10:51:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: E2Sweet

Hmm... That's an awful lot of questions... How do I know you're not from the FBI?... [;)]


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nah  shes from the IRS

patina



Pfftt. FBI?!! Ha. IRS??!! Double HA!

~takes out notebook and pen~


Wow. Too easy to figure you out!

So, is this like a rant in the form of questions?



Dnomyar -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 10:56:43 AM)

Why am i single. Because I love different food's. Say I have Mexican tonight. Tomorrow I will have a Italian woman over. The next day a Greek one. ect. If I were married my wife would be bitching about  having them over.



subtee -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 10:57:11 AM)

Wait a sec...you asked me a question. ARE YOU RANTING AT ME? (tee hee)

No, they are questions that may seem ranty. Do they? It's not a popular post. What do you think, is it too personal? I admit I'm a nosy wench like the lovely Irish has suggested, and that is the reason I am asking. Like that.




CalifChick -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 11:44:45 AM)

Tee darlin', no more coffee for today.  And probably for the rest of the week as well.


Cali



sirsholly -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 12:10:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Why am i single. Because I love different food's. Say I have Mexican tonight. Tomorrow I will have a Italian woman over. The next day a Greek one. ect. If I were married my wife would be bitching about  having them over.


hold the phone....
if i were married to you and these broads brought dinner every night...i would never have to cook/injure myself.

Ray...will you marry me?



PrincessJ77 -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 12:16:58 PM)

And you think any of the HNGs would even answer any of them?   Most likely you'll get "Wanna fuck? No, just send your panties, then."



aravain -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 12:58:09 PM)

Why are you single? Because my last boyfriend and I broke up... 
Is it you? Partially 
Is it them? Again, Partially 
Do you know why? It was mutually beneficial. 
If you had to admit something(s) about yourself that contribute(s) to your singlehood status, what would it/they be? Hmm... Probably my tendency to be slightly crazy. And emo. WOAH emo.
Are you completely honest and frank with yourself about it? Why wouldn't I be?

 
Are you scared? Of what? Relationships? Pah. Not really. Sometimes I'm scared of the steps, but not of the core relationships themselves.
Are you picky? By some standards.
Are you in a place not conducive to a relationship? What, you mean college? OH, you probably mean mentally. My emotional status would actually probably lean me toward being ready for another serious relationship, though I don't know if I'd jump right into one right away.
Do you have other priorities? Other than relationship priorities? Hell yes. Who would want to date someone who didn't?
Are there characteristics about your personality or the expression of your submissiveness that make relationships difficult? Difficult, yes. Impossible, no. It just takes the right type of personality :)
 
Is it your location? Not really.
Lack of opportunity? Partially.
Are they all wankers and fakes? *shrug* Mostly just not my type. 
Are you having trouble matching because what you seek in a relationship or interaction isn’t readily available? Is it unique? I guess... I mean, it's not really unique, but it isn't readily available because of the mindset of most/close dominants.
Are they seemingly looking for (general) characteristics that preclude you? If so, what do these characteristics seem to be? Are they changeable? Yes... 24/7 lifestyles, Master/Slave dynamics all the time... that sort of thing. And no, they're not changeable.
Do they have (general) characteristics that turn you off? Again, what are they and are they changeable? See above answer.
 
Do you actively “seek?” In what ways? Not particularly. I look through profiles idly, but I'm not, like, gung-ho about it.
Do you reach a certain phase of the seeking and encounter problems? Is it chronic? Yes, and yes.
Is it something(s) outside of your control? Haha, if I had the ability to change peoples' likes, dislikes and kinks, then no. Unfortunately, yes.



subtee -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 12:58:49 PM)

Let me clarify. I'm a writer, and I have a natural curiousity. I am also single, and therefore have my own answers/explorations to the questions. Thirdly, I dig y'all and wanted to understand your thoughts.

See?



sappatoti -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 1:19:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Tee darlin', no more coffee for today.  And probably for the rest of the week as well.


Cali



Cali, you wouldn't be so cruel as to actually take Tee's coffee away? I've been deprived of my coffee intake since Saturday and I'm turning into a mindless zombie. Please do not do this to Tee.

As for Tee's questions...

I refuse to answer any of them on the grounds that my responses may incriminate me.



E2Sweet -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 1:21:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: subtee

....I dig y'all and wanted to understand your thoughts....


Our thoughts? Oh no, where did I put my tinfoil hat? [;)]



shyhuzzy -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 1:26:32 PM)

Oh my....yes and no to all the above in any order.  and yes it is to many questions  but love them anyway..[:)]
Just don't take my singlehoodness away from me.....



wulfgarw -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 1:41:04 PM)

I know exactly why I'm single.  I haven't found a woman that meets my impossibly stringent requirements of, alive, available and likes me.



NuevaVida -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 1:42:26 PM)

OK tee, I'll give it a go.  But whatever I answer is subject to change at a moment's notice.  [;)]


Why are you single?   The man and I broke up.
 
Is it you?  Is what me?  The reason for my singleness?  It's both.
 
 Is it them?   See above.
 
Do you know why?  Yes.
 
 If you had to admit something(s) about yourself that contribute(s) to your singlehood status, what would it/they be?    My last relationship became unhealthy for me.  Now I am more discerning, and have work to do on myself before I can commit to another.
 
Are you completely honest and frank with yourself about it?   You betcha.
 
Are you scared?  Nope.
Are you picky?   Yep.
Are you in a place not conducive to a relationship?  Yep, but that's changing.
Do you have other priorities?  Yes.
Are there characteristics about your personality or the expression of your submissiveness that make relationships difficult? (Or impossible, even?)   Difficult, yes.  Impossible, no.
 
Is it your location?   No.
Lack of opportunity?  No.
Are they all wankers and fakes?  Well, everyone has a bit of wankerness in them.  But no to "fakes". 
Are you having trouble matching because what you seek in a relationship or interaction isn’t readily available?   I wasn't looking for a match, but if I were, it is available.
Is it unique?   Not sure.
Are they seemingly looking for (general) characteristics that preclude you? If so, what do these characteristics seem to be? Are they changeable?   Yes, don't know, depends. 
Do they have (general) characteristics that turn you off? Again, what are they and are they changeable?   Yes, a variety, and probably not.
 
Do you actively “seek?” In what ways?   No.
Do you reach a certain phase of the seeking and encounter problems? Is it chronic?   I haven't sought, so no.
Is it something(s) outside of your control?   Don't know / doesn't apply.
 
What else? Still working things out from the last relationship so not ready for any commitments.  Spending time with someone who seems to be very cool, but he is aware of my situation.  Plus, my views on submission have changed/are changing.
 
Is this too many questions? Yes?   Nah, I like questions. :)
 



subtee -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/24/2008 2:47:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Tee darlin', no more coffee for today.  And probably for the rest of the week as well.


Cali



I know, but you should see the amount of stuff I got done today! The more I write, the more I write.

And I would rather cut off my left one than give up coffee....[sm=flash.gif]



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