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Owner4SexSlave -> RE: EHarmAdultCollarMatchAltFinderMeSingle (9/25/2008 5:14:39 AM)
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I consider myself Quasi-single at the moment. In the last couple of years I have had one short term real time relationship, however she had issues with anger and drinking. However, I suppose I could have been more agressive in finding somebody in the last couple of years.
The truth is such, I have been taking time out for myself. I got out of a crazy 4 1/2 relationship that followed a 7 1/2 year one. I needed some time and space to myself to find myself, and deal with a few issues and sort things out.
I've not been on 101 dating sites, nor have I been out trying to pick up girls at the bars and other places. In fact very few girls have actually caught my sincere interest in the last couple of years. Then again, I have not been really too agressive in looking for somebody.
The last girl I was involved, she actually was looking and found me. In fact dare I say this, the two game players I got burned by on CM found me. They were the first to write to me and make a move. There have been a few profiles that caught my attention and I responded, but really that's the size of it. I've been kicking back and seeing what or who comes to me. Then again, I've not been very bent on looking for anybody while sorting things out in my life.
My Ex of 4 1/2 years emails me every so often or leaves me an IM. The last girl I was seeing, she calls me up and wants to get back together with me and I've been maintaining it as a friends without benifits type of deal. She's a little Jealous that I met somebody online now. But oh well, her problem not mine.
I suppose if I did not want to be single I could call her up and say, you know what, let's get back together. I'm not making that phone call any time soon. Even more so now.
Anyhoo, I'm Quasi-single at the moment. Meaning, I've been getting to know somebody for the last couple of months. We have talked everyday for the last two months. Talking voice, IMing and Text Message each other.
I'll make adjustments along the way as things progress. Yes, I have had to face some hurdles with some initial trust issues. Amazing how our past experience effect us at times. However, good old fashioned calm communication works really well. Even more so when the other person has similar issues.
I'm really not into being with somebody for the sake of not being single. I could have not been single awhile ago, and I've had plently of opportunties in the last couple of years. I look for that spark.
I don't know if anybody has ever noticed this, but for as open and forward I am at times here on the message boards, I'm somewhat distant at the time. I might exchange a few messages on the other side with people. I have made a couple of close friends from this site. A few people that I talk with on/off every week. In many ways, I'm sort of reclusive as I'm forward and outgoing. I can honestly say though, that there are probally only two people from this site that know me pretty well now. I've known one for almost two years now and the other a year and a half. I consider these two to be very close friends, and ironic as it is, they are not message board junkies either.
Anyways, I've been on CM for awhile now. Whiplashsmile, Owner4sexslave and Whiplashsmile2. I've been here mainly for the message boards and interacting with other people while I have sorted things out. I've had some really great insight and perspectives that other people have shared with me on here. So, I have been on here not really looking too hard, but more less as a place to read, write and interact with others.
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