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RE: When you question where you fit in this lifestyle - 9/29/2008 7:52:44 AM

SrchngCpl73112

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I also know exactly how you feel about fitting in here. I recently posted on just that. My D/s relationship is different. We arent into the technical BDSM scenes. I serve him and love him in every way possible and he is a wonderful dom. We have more of a DaddyDom relationship but it is still hard to define it at times. I dont like to even really try to define it because it is unique to us. We have found what works for us and thats what matters. I have found out from these forums that its basically in the way we all think and feel inside. Whether we are sadists, masochists, slaves, subs, doms, whatever you are you do fit in here. It's in our hearts and in our souls. That makes us all fit in this wonderful range of lifestyles on this site.

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RE: When you question where you fit in this lifestyle - 9/30/2008 7:51:45 PM

boytoyinatlanta

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i fit nowhere...people need to fit in with me

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RE: When you question where you fit in this lifestyle - 3/7/2009 3:59:45 PM

quietcontrary

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No one can tell you where you fit. To be perfectly honest, labels are over rated, you fit as an intelligent indivijual who is happy with their position in life. That's the best place you could ever fit.

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RE: When you question where you fit in this lifestyle - 3/7/2009 4:17:38 PM

oceanwynds

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I am not sure if i still fit here but it gives me a lot to review and think. I found the labels more confusing then not. I spent the majority of my life trying to avoid labels until I met the person that I used to call Sir. One aspect of me that i will keep is the none label, though even in that it is a label. There are many aspects that are a part of me, but my core is not to explain myself as this or that. I will still be active on the posts here and there. Though I am not seeking anyone, I have found the posts and many of the people here enjoyable and enlightening to me.

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RE: When you question where you fit in this lifestyle - 3/7/2009 4:28:43 PM

kallisto

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I think if you fit in with yourself (meaning, you're happy doing what you do) and you fit in with your Dom (Sir) and He's happy with you doing what you do, then you've won the battle. No two relationships are identical and we are each unique in our own way. I can understand the "needing or wanting" to fit in with a group and I really don't see where you don't fit in here. (I think you do)

If you find something that another sub wrote and it peaks your interest, pm her and tell her (or him). You never know who may be wanting to talk to another sub (just like you).

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