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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/1/2008 10:52:12 PM

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Women who top and dominate and love to own slaves can be warm, sweet, cold, dour, serious, playful, quiet or expressive. They come in all sizes and shapes and personalties just like submissive women, or women with vanilla lifestyles, for that matter. If you are affectionate and love touching it's best to find a playmate or partner who feels the same way. That applies to a D/s or vanilla relationshiip. it's not going to work just to be Dominand and submissive unless the personalities and emotional makeups match up -- but when they do, and you also find compatible kinks, it's divine!

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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/2/2008 11:17:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

While I can't deny that there are many hostile profiles out there, I do think that many men read more into what is there based on their personal prejudices...or desires.

Lady Hibiscus,
This is one of those times where I have to disagree with you. There are some profiles I've seen which were so negative, cold and angry, I could never see my way past that to even consider trying to discover who the woman was behind the profile. To me, many of those profiles offer no invitation at all, but what do I know?

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I am a warm and loving person---often too much so. I wish that I had some kind of magic skill to warn ME of the cold males that are out there! I can't imagine being cold and disconnected from my friends or submissives, it would make our experiences together hollow.

Ditto in terms of cold females and being disconnected from my Mistress! I have no desire for hollow experiences either!

Sounds like a meeting of the minds.

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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/2/2008 11:56:26 AM

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Good point, Pixel, and I agree there are some damn nasty profiles out there from all genders and orientations. Personally, if I see a complaint about "fakes", I move right on by that person! Still, I am deemed hostile by more than a few on this board, simply because I state up front what I am NOT. You can't win, eh?

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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/2/2008 6:20:51 PM

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Just wanted to pop in and say I really appreciate all of the responses to this thread. Thanks everyone!

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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/2/2008 7:42:33 PM

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profiles are just a start in the search not the end. i read my M'ladys profile and chatted with her before meeting. it was the meeting that i found most rewarding in how W/we interacted. my M'Lady gets allot of mail from wannabe subs and i understand why some profiles are the way they are. don't look for whats wrong but what works for you. my M'lady is a very caring person and warm person this may not be the normal but it is how M/my family works.

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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/3/2008 11:18:16 AM

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Warmth and Dominance works for some subs and not for others...There are some subs that want a cold "Bitch Domme", a woman that is careless about their true feelings, needs and emotions. The Dommes that can pull that off are well aware that there are subs who are looking for this so they advertise themselves to be the Baddest Bitch!!... This sub may have a need for this type of person for their own reasons. Then there are the Dommes who can be the Mistress yet have a real compassionate and gentle side to them without missing a beat, that's just who they are. There are subs like yourself that enjoy this type of Domme.....I am a merciless Domme when it's called for but I can not be a cold hearted Bitch! Subs may be subs but to Me they are still human with emotions and feelings. I enjoy and rather have a warm connection with My subs even when they are being disciplined and under My command. Does not make Me soft or less of a Domme, I believe it makes Me more intuned and gives a better chance for a longer and healthier D/s relationship.

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RE: Warmth and Dominance? - 10/3/2008 11:32:03 AM

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Couldn't have said it better. Your view sounds like the "average" FemDom.

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