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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 4:35:14 PM   
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Third place: skin coloured latex gloves of the housework kind.
Second place: blue latex gloves of the medical kind
First place; black latex gloves of the piercer's kind....big time drooling knicker wetting fetish. Love the snap sound of them being put on, love the scent of them, especially when i am blindfold or hooded, love the feel of them and love a fist in a latex glove....god cold shower time.....anyone who asks me what my main fetish is i would be happy to talk at length about it....


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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 4:42:14 PM   
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http://education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/fetish

If you take the word fetish for what it means then I don't have one. I enjoy ceratin aspects of BDSM but I do not have to have them to get off.

http://education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/kink;_ylt=AvdTJnaFgss2MIlelZNXdwUZvskF

Now the above definition is more intune to me.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:23:04 PM   
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quote:

 If you take the word fetish for what it means then I don't have one. I enjoy ceratin aspects of BDSM but I do not have to have them to get off. 


Thank you!  All I can say is "ditto" !!

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 8:13:03 PM   
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Whats your fetish? What would you admit to liking? how far would you answer that question to a stranger?


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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 11:26:56 PM   
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scarlet, I have to agree with you *fans self*

If some guy (or girl) used that line on me, I'd probably be too stunned to actually say something witty. But were my head in the right place, I would probably have to borrow CalifChick's line about "What's in your toy bag?" As long as she doesn't mind me doing so

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 11:28:16 PM   
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Temporary thread hijack: I'm not vanilla anymore!! *dance party*

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 11:39:01 PM   
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Just hope they did not bring  a pinata stick with them after  they make a pretty package of you, hanging you from a tree   and shout free candy ..

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I would answer that I enjoy being bundled up snugly and decoratively and then suspended from a tree branch on a semi-cloudy afternoon.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 2:05:56 AM   
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"Which one?" 

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 4:27:33 AM   
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i think that if i was on my own, or with my girlfriends then i would not say much and try to change the subject.   i can sometimes feel rather vulnerable being a slave as i have huge trust issues with strange men, especially vanilla ones.  It is not as if i go round with it written on my forehead, but i have a healthy, or maybe unhealthy, need to keep them at a distance.   But if Master was there then i could have lots of fun with that random stranger, knowing that Sir was watching, approving and paying close attention... one of my lesser played out fetishes is shocking vanilla folk with my fetishes lol!

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 5:52:12 AM   
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If I was in a bar and a totally strange female asked me this I would probably answer.  Afterall, what do you have to loose from answering the question?  Most likely if she is asking you that question then you can ask it right back.  Plus, besides online how often do most of us get the chance to talk about things like this outside of the internet?  Could be very fun... 

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 8:03:25 AM   
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I can't say it is a fetish exactly, since I enjoy sex and play even if this is not part of it.  But the smell of rubber makes my knees weak.  I dont mean latex either.  It has to be rubber, the sort one might find in tires or even better, cock rings and gas masks.
My eyes want to close, my knees get weak, and I become disoriented, malleable, complacent and horny as heck.
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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 9:07:28 AM   
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I'm glad someone pointed out the difference between fetish and kink.

My fetish is, quite simply, oral sex (giving, of course). I can't think about (and am not even interested in) getting off with another man if I don't get at least a minute or so of it. If someone else is even in the room I can't do it without that.

All my fantasizing during 'alone time' is about giving oral sex too.

*shrug*

My kinks are many and varied.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 9:48:53 AM   
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I would think that most well-read adults would know the difference between a kink and a fetish (but hey, I could be wrong).  Common usage has found it acceptable to use them interchangeably, not merely by the strict, clinical definition.

If some hot tomato asked me what my fetish was, I don't think I'd give him (or her) a lecture on the definition of the word. 


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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 10:17:22 AM   
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If some stranger in a bar asked me that i'd say " Trying to find a rich man to trap into a marriage with an unplanned pregnancy. Wanna take me home?" and smile prettily. No one seems to hang around long.

I can't stand cheesey pick up lines.

When people i know ask me that, i answer honestly.  I really don't have any other then wanting a loving Dominant in charge of me.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/3/2008 9:04:33 PM   
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Wow, if a vanilla guy asked me that.....I woudl have to say "sex with another man while my husband watches.......you game?"  LOL  Add a whip, a flog, and i am so there.... 

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/4/2008 4:03:03 AM   
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BDSM Television? You'll be collecting BDSM stamps and buying BDSM ice cream next. You need to get out more Dear! I will answer your question though, I have a wild penchant for girls dressed in arabian nights harem stuff. LadyLove likes arab men in their tradional outfits, but only with immaculate beards.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/4/2008 5:46:24 AM   
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It depends on "who", "when", and "where".  But the answer would come from how comfortable I felt right up to that question (and that would also include what sort of environment I was in when that question was raised).  If it were a flirty conversation, then that can be a disarming situation...while in an ultra public place with too many ears around; well the answer might not be so forthcoming.  In that case, I'd end up with a conservative and never-failing "Anything dipped in Chocolate" answer and laugh it off, and see if it is pushed further keeping an open mind (as best as a male can have in these particular situations....yeah...right).    

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/4/2008 6:16:16 AM   
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first of all, thanks forall the interesting replies...
@ tweedydaddy, lol... I get out a lot.. but honestly most tuesday nights at 8pm, I'm going between studying and keeping my mind from melting...thats just me :)

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/4/2008 6:31:01 AM   
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No, it's not a correct use of the term, but most people out there in vanilla land don't know that.  I'm not sure if I'd be up for a vocabulary lesson in a bar.

By the definition of the word, I don't have a fetish.  I am perfectly capable of having and <gasp> enjoying sex without any kink involved.

Still, even with working with the misconception, I would have absolutely no trouble in offering a response.  Yes, I have done so in (similar situations) in the past.  I just turn My head, smile, look that person directly in the eye, and say one word.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/4/2008 6:37:38 AM   
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...hmmmmm.... like most everyone else who's answered here, it would First and foremost depend on the surrounding circumstances ... and Who asked the question. 

If a total stranger used a "line" like that as a conversation starter ... I'm certain my initial response would be to take offense and quickly move away.
If it was asked by someone I had felt drawn to and were already conversing with ... I'm certain my response would be .."why do You ask??"
And any further conversation would depend on what He responded with ... and in what manner he responded.

... there's such a HUGE difference in a man who's simply obnoxious, horny, and pushy and a Truly "Self Secure" Dominant man  ... in my opinion ...
*sighing at the thought*
There is Nothing sexier in the world then a Dominant Man taking charge!!

But ... even having said that ... Even if it were a Strong Dominant Man who asked me a question like that ...  I'd no doubt "act" offended .. turn tail and Runnnnnn!!!
( after all ... isn't that the way good girls have been trained from birth to respond? )
... but ... 
*whispers*
If a truly Dominant Man ... asked me a question like that .. safe at home  ...
I'd no doubt fantasize about him, and what "might" have transpired.
*more sighing*

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