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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/3/2008 10:24:12 PM   
RealSub58


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ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

Because I am so green, my Master gives all the ideas. He wants me to come up with some of my own. He is much more experienced. He has used pain to pleasure me and enjoys me showing my beauty to others when he is not there.


I mean NO disrespect, but Ron and Mike has said this well, only your Owner knows what pleases him.
 
And it doesn't need to be sexually oriented.
 
My Owner doesn't want a maid, Laundromat or chef.
He wants to know that during the day I spend my time wisely and follow his directions... he gives directions that are not impossible to follow.
 
This is pleasing and serving him.
 
If your Owner cant help you know what pleases him how can we give you advice or opionions based on not knowing him.  Maybe he is not as expereinced as he claims he is.
Sorry, just had to add that.  My owner makes no claims he certainly cannot back up. 

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 2:29:27 AM   
NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

My Master has sent me online to find ideas in order to please him. I am new to having a Master so my ideas are limited, but my curiousity is really alive. I want so much to please him, but don't want anything humiliating in public.



Furnish him with any of the following: an unrivalled cooking ability, a spot of your knowledge and skill, courtesy and gratitude with regard to your place in the pack, effort in your appearance........and you won't go far wrong.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 2:34:22 AM   
NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: umakemewanna

suck his cock hard?



As opposed to sucking his cock with a modicum of restraint? Look, even a burrow owl can find a way to get its cock sucked.....we're not exactly plumbing the depths of human innovation here......

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 5:43:42 AM   
windchymes


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

Not all men want to fuck you in the ass while you sing barbie girl by Aqua (also something wrong with that)
Ron 


They don't?


I think it would be great to get fucked in the ass by a guy while singing, "I kissed a girl, and I liked it...."

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 6:52:26 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Bake him cookies. Organize his sock drawer. Do stuff that makes his life easier.

We have a winner.  If he's coming up dry on new ideas (I understand that happens to some people) do some things for him to give him the time to look online for some things.  If this is all about the idea farm being all harvested, make it so that he can get on the net and look about.  You'll like that better anyway, as it might be fun for you to get an element of surprise out of the whole deal.

On the other hand, if it's about finding things that turn your crank, so he can exploit them, why don't you try a BDSM checklist of some sort?  Yes, I realize they can be kind of cheezy and some of the things might be a bit extreme sounding, since you're new, but it's a place to start.

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit
A lot of Masters like it when you stick a large dildo up their ass while whispering "This is what you get for asking overly ambiguous questions on Collarme.com" in their ear.

Try it. He'll love that


OK.  This was just funny.  Thanks for the laugh, MR.


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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 7:44:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

If he sent her out to have relations of whatever flavor with another man, somehow, I don't think the guy was going to give her lessons in sock drawer organization.  It doesn't seem like it was that sort of training.  *cough*


Cali




Serves me right to only read the op and not the follow up posts.

This is online only, that's obvious. Start going to munches and meet real people, maybe even go to play parties and let real people play with you. Tell him all about it afterwards.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 8:47:24 AM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Difficult to give advice to someone who posts a question the very day she joins CM...and hasn't been back in a week to see if she got a reply.  Seems she wasn't too interested in the advice others might offer. 

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 9:02:58 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Maybe he'd be pleased if you found another guy--someone with LOTS of ideas--to enjoy you while he watches?

That's kinda what a master deserves when he sends his slave online for ideas to please him.

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ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

My Master has sent me online to find ideas in order to please him. I am new to having a Master so my ideas are limited, but my curiousity is really alive. I want so much to please him, but don't want anything humiliating in public.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 10:04:43 AM   
MzCalisto


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Status: offline 		I have read through all of the posts before I throw My 2 cents in.  Now, I am not an "experienced Domme" only being in the style for a few years, so I am still learning, as I am sure that all Dom/me's continue to do inspite of level of experience.

I do not understand as to why He is having you go out to find a collar.  A collar is a "gift" bestowed upon the sub from the Master/Mistress.  How is it that you are told to buy your own gift?  That just blows My mind.

I am sure that your Master is pleased that you are looking for ways to please him.  Although I am concerned that He does not seem to be taking the time or opportunity to get to know you.  My new sub is very inexperienced and is at times too shy to express his thoughts.  I have given him the task of journaling,  Just so that he will be able to open up to himself and Me.  I have learned much about him.  he is now more comfortable to express to Me his feelings.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 6:13:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzCalisto
I do not understand as to why He is having you go out to find a collar.  A collar is a "gift" bestowed upon the sub from the Master/Mistress.  How is it that you are told to buy your own gift?  That just blows My mind.

Just My own personal thought.

A collar is not a gift.  It is My personal thought that the collar in question belongs to Me.  I am not giving it as a present.  It's very true that he wears it, but that does not make it his.


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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 8:07:35 PM   
ApathyRomance


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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/4/2008 10:11:02 PM   
greyjay


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ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

Master liked me to go to a woman's erotic store and say to the salesperson that, "My Master told me to buy these things". He also wants me to find a collar. Haven't had any luck with that, but wouldn't that be something he buys for me?


He wants you to buy yourself a collar? He wants you to find another master for some kind of three way master slave thing? 

I'm not sure I want to find out what your master likes, he sounds like a total loser.  Definitely not how I would behave if I were to have a sub.

Then again, it takes all types, I just feel my blood when someone says there master told them to go get a collar.  I mean, can't he at least handle that part himself? sheesh...

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/5/2008 6:52:34 PM   
dsire2plsemj


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Status: offline 		I do check the message board for new ideas that pop up and I have to say am very grateful for all the contributions. I ended up making my own colllar out of lace and sequins. It was quite beautiful but I don't think what he had in mind. As far as meeting my Master...I went out to see a band last night where he suprised me for a first time meeting. He had told me to do and wear some things and was checking to see if I had done them (Yes, I had). It was overwhelmingly wonderful. He was patient and kind, beautiful and merciful, and he felt I was beautiful too. He calls me every day (and not just for kinky stuff) to see how I am doing or just tell me good morning. I am a lucky submissive who cares for her master. I will keep checking on replies...Thank you

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 4:55:14 PM   
Masterdarkone29


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Status: offline 		Here is a blog where some tasks are that you could print out and do for him and leave for him to read.

http://masterdarkone29.blogspot.com/

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 5:32:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

My Master has sent me online to find ideas in order to please him.


A lot of Masters like it when you stick a large dildo up their ass while whispering "This is what you get for asking overly ambiguous questions on Collarme.com" in their ear.

Try it. He'll love that


Oh my god... I love you Mad Rabbit.  I just do... twuely...

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 5:51:42 PM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

My Master has sent me online to find ideas in order to please him. I am new to having a Master so my ideas are limited, but my curiousity is really alive. I want so much to please him, but don't want anything humiliating in public.


I'm going to see Blah.... and Blah said to look  for way to make out time more enjoiable.  Tell Blah to stop being so lazy get up off their fat ass...  ya know put forth some effort into the relationship.... 

What irks me is that the mindless sub/slave whatever blah thinks to themselves  "Well shit why should I put any thought into this <pretty much what the capped Blah thouight> I will just ask a bunch of strangers what they think I will enjoi doing" 

There is always the excuse im doning what big blah told me ...SHESSH.   a couple of mindless folks

Have a nice Day   BadOne


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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 6:44:50 PM   
amuzingtoyou


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Status: offline 		how in the heck can you call someone your Master that you had not even met????? anyone else have a problem with this?

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 6:50:00 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		It's not my thing, but if it works for them, who are we to say that it's a bad thing?

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 6:56:09 PM   
Usako


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Status: offline 		So he sends you to find ideas to please him. Sends you to stores to buy toys. Has you pick out (in the end make) your own collar. All of this before he even met you? What exactly DOES he do? All I've read is him making you do all the leg work. Are you using one of those virtual master programs?!?! 

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 6:58:05 PM   
Subductrssss


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Status: offline 		Pick a time when He can give you his attention.  Dress like a reporter (how does a reporter dress? Watch the news ~ (Grin) Sit down and interview him and write down His answers, then put your thoughts with his answers and voila there you have it a mix of both of you and the answers He wants

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