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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 7:30:53 PM   
dsire2plsemj


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Status: offline 		I told everyone that I was new. As I am reading these messages I am getting a much better understanding about what to expect. I entered my relationship with my Master with little knowledge except what he hade told me. It is much more complex than what I first believed.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/6/2008 10:29:55 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		It would help us understand about you if you filled out your profile a bit. I went there, and there's no text. If you'd take advantage of that very basic profile feature, you could help us help you.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/7/2008 12:58:14 AM   
greyjay


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ORIGINAL: Usako

So he sends you to find ideas to please him. Sends you to stores to buy toys. Has you pick out (in the end make) your own collar. All of this before he even met you? What exactly DOES he do? All I've read is him making you do all the leg work. Are you using one of those virtual master programs?!?! 


I agree with you Usako. The guy is a douche bag and she is obviously pretty insecure and in desperate need of a dom, no matter how sleazy.  Sad really.  Should I have the opportunity, I intend to put forth full effort with the one I am with, as I have done before.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/7/2008 4:23:33 AM   
LadyLupineNYC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

I told everyone that I was new. As I am reading these messages I am getting a much better understanding about what to expect. I entered my relationship with my Master with little knowledge except what he hade told me. It is much more complex than what I first believed.



Problem, right there.  You are assuming he even KNOWS what he is talking about (doesn't seem so).  I mean, serious, do you have a safe word (regardless of what others might think, clearly this is a novice couple and need one)?  I would be concerned about him not knowing how to balance 'harm' from HARM, esp.emotional. etc etc.  Seriously, spend more time reseaching, talking both with him and others otherwise I foresee this not ending well.


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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/7/2008 8:29:13 AM   
amuzingtoyou


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Status: offline 		You entered a relationship without even knowing him. You gave yourself completely to a stranger. In my opinion he is taking advantage of you. If he lives close enough to you, that he could pop in on you at a club, then why in the heck was a first meet not arranged before this idea of "submitting". You have made the classic newbie mistake. Jumping in feet first without having the foggiest idea what you are doing. It is a recipe for disaster. Get to know someone first. And then, after a period of time..decide if they are the person you want to submit to.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/8/2008 8:28:44 PM   
Daes


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Status: offline 		Too late. She's gone off the deep end. >.>

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/9/2008 11:59:02 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Its always a good thing to at least make sure the pool has water in it before jumping off the high dive .

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daes

Too late. She's gone off the deep end. >.>

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/9/2008 3:11:43 PM   
dsire2plsemj


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Status: offline 		You are all right. I made a huge vanilla mistake. I deserve someone who has time for me and I know before I make any committments. Seeing it was first relationship with a dom/master/anything I jumped in to fast without doing any research. I have done a lot of research since my first blog and have decided to slow things way down and expect much more. I deserve that. Thanks for all your comments and goodbye.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/9/2008 3:20:37 PM   
akisha


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

quote:

Not all men want to fuck you in the ass while you sing barbie girl by Aqua (also something wrong with that)

Gee, thanks for that image, Ron!


I totally got a mental picture on that one and laffed pretty hard. Not showing this to my Master tho cause he'd think it would be something fun to try

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/9/2008 3:32:02 PM   
Kindandcruel


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Status: offline 		This is another good example of a wanna be slave and a wanna be master that titles themselves with a serious titel when they have no business doing so. If you want to be a slave then start out as a submissive and learn from the bottom up... if you had done that instead of calling yourslef a slave up front you would have know that the man you are now with is in no way a Master or even a Dominant. It is a shame that so many people are falsely representing themselves because of their ego or because it is the current Fad or thing to do. People like this pretend Master and yourself give this lifestyle a bad name.

If you want to be real then learn what it takes to be a submissive and then represent yourself as one that wants to learn to be a slave once you have experience. Be honest for once instead of being like the rest of the pretenders. Any real Master will not go running after with his dick in his hand; likewise no real slave would accept one that gave away his power so easily. If you want a serious Master than find one that requires you to make an application to his house. Tell the truth that you are not a slave. Be honest otherwise you will get what you deserve... exactly what you got.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/9/2008 3:44:58 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		Then why not offer some "real" advice:

First thing: get a donkey and put socks on it. The socks come off at night, back on during the day.
Next, puree mushrooms and breast milk into a face mask. Apply liberally.
Shave the left side of the pubis. Neatness counts. (His left, your right--everything is from his POV)
Whenever he is home do the crab walk, backwards.
Keep hair in pigtails so he can signal yes or no with your head when he asks you a question.
Wait by the mail drop with your mouth open to receive it. When it comes, receive it.
Wallpaper frequently and naked.
When driving nipple clamp both boobs to the right side of the steering wheel, thus eliminating left hand turns.
Bake cakes and pies into interesting but always sexually explicit shapes.
If there is not enough laundry for a full load, hop in.
When he is driving, trot to the left and slightly behind the car.
You will sleep naked, outside with the donkey...but then it's your turn to wear the socks.

Good luck!

< Message edited by subtee -- 10/9/2008 4:18:17 PM >

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/11/2008 3:50:57 PM   
serisa


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Status: offline 		find some sexy music and practice a dance routine to it..When you are happy with it perform it for him either naked or with sexy outfit.  or learn lap dancing, pole dancing if you think he may like that.  yes, the pole dancing could be a hard one to do at home so might not be the best choice... but if this could be something he might really like, dont know if there is anywhere in your area where you could take him to watch you?

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 10/11/2008 4:50:14 PM   
tweedydaddy


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Status: offline 		If your Master told you to have some ideas of your own, what the hell are you doing here? He obviously wants something from YOU, use your imagination for crying out loud!

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New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/14/2008 12:12:39 PM   
thedavezone


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From: South Korea
Status: offline 		I understand what you're looking for:
If he likes to spank you - find something new for him to use, (and look up figging).
If he likes to tie you up - get some restraints he doesn't have yet.
Go online and look up kink and just find something new!

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/16/2008 10:02:00 AM   
lilgirl2008


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Status: offline 		I think this happens a lot. A new submissive knows nothing other than her desires. Meets someone and thinks this is how things are done. I think at one point or another we all have made some newbie mistakes. I have been involved in this for many years, but when I think back to some things I did when i was new, and this was pre internet, I am thankful that I turned out ok. I have seen this term "wannabe" thrown around so much, and it bothers me. People are new, don't know better, and make mistakes. That is why they come here. To ask questions and maybe figure out, that one can learn from their mistakes.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/16/2008 11:21:33 AM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: thedavezone

I understand what you're looking for:



Ummm... *cough*... no, you don't.  She came back and has wised up a bit.


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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/16/2008 2:08:18 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dsire2plsemj

My Master has sent me online to find ideas in order to please him. I am new to having a Master so my ideas are limited, but my curiousity is really alive. I want so much to please him, but don't want anything humiliating in public.


Stick tobasco up his ass and then lick his ass!!!  I am sure he will find your tongue very pleasing....  the tobasco is just to spice it up alittle.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/17/2008 12:42:16 AM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		Your willing, intelligent, graceful submission is a hell of a large gift. Don't just go throwing it at the head of someone who calls themself a "Master". Too many men assume that just because they have dangly bits and an opinion(and too many women just because they have sexy boots and an opinion) that they can be the master. His dominance is a gift he's giving you too. When you exchange the gifts, you need to be standing on equal footing. This means you protect your physical and mental and emotional self before you meet him, you take along a friend for that lunch date, you arrange a safe call for the first play session or you do it at a play party where you know the dungeon master/mistress and the other doms will step in if it goes wrong. Once you know he's safe, once you have your life and safety and health protected then, yes, then you can relax into submission. This isn't being bitchy, this isn't being a switch. This is being healthy about doing this. For that matter, the male dominants I socialize with do this too. They talk with the girl long enough online to see if inconsistencies in her story show up, they do a public lunch or dinner meet, they play at a play party the first couple of times, and they progress the relationship slowly and cautiously. Guys have some pretty valuable things to lose too; they're just less likely to wind up dead if it goes wrong than we are.

Needless to say, if he isn't willing to go through the steps to make you feel comfortable that he is a safe play partner, at minimum? Don't play with him.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/17/2008 8:33:19 AM   
antipode


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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

Not all men want to fuck you in the ass while you sing barbie girl by Aqua (also something wrong with that)
Ron



They don't?


Nah. I don't care what you sing while I fuck you in the ass.. it's gotta be in tune, though, an ass has got to have perfect tune.

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RE: New Master wants me to find ideas to please him - 11/17/2008 8:41:56 AM   
antipode


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how in the heck can you call someone your Master that you had not even met????? anyone else have a problem with this?


No, I do not have a problem with this, I just don't take trolls whose sexual gratification comes out of a computer seriously. Typically, people who have a profile such as "her"s, with no information, no text, no interests, no nothing, who then ask concocted very brief meaningless questions on forums with strange terminology ("mechanical devices" - what it that, gas powered lawn mowers?) in written rather than spoken English, to me are folks who may be lying about their gender, and are getting their gratification out of posting completely fictitious stuff that others then fall for. They are generally so communication challenged they can't even manipulate real people, but can only do so with strangers, anonymously. Just sad.

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