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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 8:20:35 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Question for the Op. Just how long have you been a Dominant???

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 9:50:02 AM   
RealSub58


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Question for the Op. Just how long have you been a Dominant???


I was wondering when someone would notice the profile and the obvious inconsistencies in the original messages with the profile and the neediness.

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 9:57:25 AM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		The profile is crazy blank, listed as a Dominant female, but was collared and "taken"?  Taken where?  I personally, prefer to be taken to Chilis.  Their margaritas are awesome. 

I am also wondering if she ever got response to her emails?  Was there a happy ending?  C'mon, inquiring minds wanna know!!

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 10:38:36 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		I just can't get over the number of people that call less than 24 hours "refusing to contact her" or "distancing" or any number of other terms like that.  I guess I just can't relate to that level of "cling".



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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 10:42:47 AM   
VivaciousSub


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Status: offline 		Yeah, this level of cling makes me want to call it "Independent Wrap" not "Cling Wrap". That plastic stuff has nothing on the poster. 

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 11:27:36 AM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		actually, I am begining to notice that, in spite of the number of answers, the OP has not been back. I am starting to feel abandoned and wonder why she is refusing to contact me, when I assume she IS reading my posts....

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 12:07:17 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		is this D/s?  M/s?  she is old enough, i would think, to have a clue

24 hours.. a weekend... please!

ever think maybe it was done deliberately to see what your reaction would be?  a collar means a commitment.... on both sides.

OP, where is your commitment that you would freak out over a few days?

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 12:43:52 PM   
silkenfire


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Status: offline 		I dunno, I have been known to be just as clingy when I've expected such... one night Master sent me messages at work about how he was looking forward to our evening chat, and then he was unreachable by phone, unreachable online, etc, for the entire evening... I was ridiculously upset and clingy over it. However, had he not made such a big deal about me making sure I set the time aside to talk to him all that evening it wouldn't have been such a big deal at all.

Obviously the OP isn't back to the thread and has clashing issues between posting and the profile, but I think clingyness over a short time is warranted, especially if it's specifically supposed to happen. It's like getting stood up for a date-- people understand you being upset if you're completely stood up-- I think online/phone plans are similar in that way -- when there are specific plans that are ignored it can be a big problem, versus no specific plans and then not hearing.

I think a lot of this is based on context that we obviously do not actually have...

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RE: Cmon! - 10/6/2008 2:26:57 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: silkenfire
Obviously the OP isn't back to the thread and has clashing issues between posting and the profile, but I think clingyness over a short time is warranted, especially if it's specifically supposed to happen.


I don't know where you read that or if you're just guessing, but I saw nothing of the sort.  If that were the case, I think her short OP would have said "he was supposed to contact me but didn't".


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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/6/2008 2:28:52 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: forhim

my master just announced his taking of me on his profile but has not answered my emails, seen me or spoken to me all weekend

hes not interested right?

why bother to change the profile then?


Have you asked him?


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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/6/2008 2:50:57 PM   
forhim


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone for your advice.

I will wait and see for a while.

No specific plans were made - just mentioned and then not confirmed...

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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/7/2008 1:54:47 AM   
greyjay


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quote:

ORIGINAL: forhim

Thank you everyone for your advice.

I will wait and see for a while.

No specific plans were made - just mentioned and then not confirmed...


Multiple people have asked you why your profile states you are dominant.  It is interesting that you won't answer that simple question... makes me wonder what else you are not being truthful about...

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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/7/2008 2:34:05 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: greyjay

quote:

ORIGINAL: forhim

Thank you everyone for your advice.

I will wait and see for a while.

No specific plans were made - just mentioned and then not confirmed...


Multiple people have asked you why your profile states you are dominant.  It is interesting that you won't answer that simple question... makes me wonder what else you are not being truthful about...


Because dominants can submit?
Because she hasn't altered her profile yet?
Because she doesn't have to answer any ridiculous questions from strangers?
 
And seriously - why are you even bothered about what she is truthful about?  You haven't answered he question - one that is pretty simple and hardly needs in depth personal analysis, shes hardly giving over a life story that needs validating and shes not even in the same country as you?
.mindboggles.
 
the.dark.

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RE: Cmon! - 10/7/2008 7:00:31 AM   
OnYourKnees2Me


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Status: offline 		Hi i say hangin there, ive been with my Master 2 yrs and there were days he didnt call or write,i felt like u ignored, but i got past it, turned off my phone a few times whenhe tried to call me...hmm revenge is sweet...if he has changed his mind u will know it..u sound justlike me,i am needy but getting better, focusingon my kids and always put \them first... slave maryanne

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RE: Cmon! - 10/7/2008 8:42:00 AM   
amuzingtoyou


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Status: offline 		I have to ask...how long did you know him before he "claimed" you on your profile? Have you ever met in real life. It reads to me as we taked a few time in email and IM, he claimed me as his, and now he isn't paying attention to me. But is this a real relationship? It isn't reading to me as such. To me its reading as honey he is using you. Cut him loose.

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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/7/2008 6:10:21 PM   
greyjay


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: greyjay

quote:

ORIGINAL: forhim

Thank you everyone for your advice.

I will wait and see for a while.

No specific plans were made - just mentioned and then not confirmed...


Multiple people have asked you why your profile states you are dominant.  It is interesting that you won't answer that simple question... makes me wonder what else you are not being truthful about...


Because dominants can submit?
Because she hasn't altered her profile yet?
Because she doesn't have to answer any ridiculous questions from strangers?
 
And seriously - why are you even bothered about what she is truthful about?  You haven't answered he question - one that is pretty simple and hardly needs in depth personal analysis, shes hardly giving over a life story that needs validating and shes not even in the same country as you?
.mindboggles.
 
the.dark.

 
I'm simply following the conversation and making a (correct) observation.  A better question would be why you are so butt hurt about my observations.

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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/7/2008 6:42:38 PM   
lilmisssubmiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: greyjay

quote:

ORIGINAL: forhim

Thank you everyone for your advice.

I will wait and see for a while.

No specific plans were made - just mentioned and then not confirmed...


Multiple people have asked you why your profile states you are dominant.  It is interesting that you won't answer that simple question... makes me wonder what else you are not being truthful about...


Because dominants can submit?
Because she hasn't altered her profile yet?
Because she doesn't have to answer any ridiculous questions from strangers?
 
And seriously - why are you even bothered about what she is truthful about?  You haven't answered he question - one that is pretty simple and hardly needs in depth personal analysis, shes hardly giving over a life story that needs validating and shes not even in the same country as you?
.mindboggles.
 
the.dark.

 
i LOVE her posts.

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RE: master ignores after claiming - 10/7/2008 9:25:09 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		If the OP is worried, even after only a day, then one can only assume there is also something going on that she has not revealed that is causing this angst..either way her instincts are kicking in and she is questioning...and if she is questioning, then hence there is a problem..Tempting

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