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RE: humiliation - 10/9/2008 7:48:40 PM

Jeptha

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ORIGINAL: pridedenied

Hey humiliation's out there that's for sure.

Humiliation can run the whole gamut, though, from "out there" to very mild.

I had an ex who told me she hoped I would treat her as though she were my doll; a living girl doll. Sometimes I would take that as a cue.
Occasionally I'd dress her in things she wouldn't typically wear; things that were a little too fuzzy and pink (she trended more towards black, gothy stuff.)

My present partner I like to have model things for me; sometimes actions, like pretending to jump rope with an invisible jump-rope; sometimes poses, like shooting make believe arrows, etc. ( I got on a little kick like that since I saw a documentary-type book about 1950's and 60's romance comicbooks. It showed pictures of the artist's wife ... or maybe it was the comic book publisher's secretery, I forget...posing for photographs which would later be made into the drawings in the comic panels.)

Those things are probably more mild embarrassment than humiliation, but I think it's all part of a continuum (or can be).

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RE: humiliation - 10/21/2008 9:26:48 PM

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Humiliation, to me, is feeling dehumanized, devalued. I hate it.
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RE: humiliation - 10/21/2008 9:39:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

I recently saw an ole girl really humiliate herself on national television. She's running for like the second highest office in the land and she couldn't name a single Supreme Court case except Roe v. Wade. Now THAT would be totally humiliating to me. How embarrassing!

luci

And that old guy who hired her.. whew.. how humiliating! LOL

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RE: humiliation - 10/21/2008 11:38:12 PM

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im kind of a weird bird. i need humilation but i don't want to tell the Master that i do. i feel like he should discover it and what buttons to push. is that weird?

i feel its part of his job as a Master to get into my head without me having to tell him everything.

i want a Master to discover i need humilation even when i tell him i don't.

i have thought many times how humiliating it would be to be bound up and ignored, used as a footstool, forced to eat out of dogbowl with hands cuffed behind back, or having Master feed me by taking a bit of food, chewing it once or twice and then spitting it on the floor for me to eat up.

licking Master boots clean whenever he comes in the door.

being peed on and in.

it's almost like i feel taken over when the Master finds out i need these things rather than having to tell him. is that being a pushy slave?

also having no hair would be humilating, even no eyebrows.

also penis locked in chastity would be humilating.

having a hood locked on my head all weekend.

maybe i just want the Master to prove he is one by getting in my head and finding out i need to be humiliated and degraded to be a better slave.

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RE: humiliation - 10/22/2008 8:47:08 PM

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Seems many people have different working definitions of the word 'humiliation.' For me, it's the feeling I get when I'm put in an situation where I feel particularly vulnerable or shy, as if something I'm rather bashful about was put front and center. But don't get me wrong, I absolutely love it!!

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RE: humiliation - 10/23/2008 3:54:48 AM

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Sign me up now I love it especially in public places! You can take this dirty lil bird out on the street & make me kiss your feet in front of a crowded lot of strangers! Hell you can strip me down to my bare little body & walk me down the street on a dog leash. I actually tried that one a local quiet street just down to my booty shorts and a half top maybe I will go further next time!

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RE: humiliation - 10/25/2008 4:44:46 PM

Max1000

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For me its retrospective. Things can be humiliating at the time but if you're still cringing about it a week later. It really was humbling.

For me being dommed by someone younger, stupider and more immature is quite humiliating. Simply because it makes you feel more uncomfortable and pathetic.

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RE: humiliation - 10/25/2008 6:34:15 PM

CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

May I please have a working definintion of humiliation and some concrete examples?

firebird,

*raises an eyebrow! surely you jest!

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RE: humiliation - 10/26/2008 6:26:23 AM

maskedsow

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The act of humiliating; degradation.
The state of being humiliated or disgraced; shame.
A humiliating condition or circumstance.

Thesaurus: humiliation
noun

A lowering in or deprivation of character or self-esteem: abasement, debasement, degradation, mortification. See respect/contempt/standing, win/lose/recovery.
Loss of or damage to one's reputation: bad name, bad odor, discredit, disgrace, dishonor, disrepute, ignominy, ill repute, obloquy, odium, opprobrium, shame. See respect/contempt/standing.

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RE: humiliation - 10/26/2008 10:15:42 AM

CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking

May I please have a working definintion of humiliation and some concrete examples?

Not until you stop hiding your profile!

CP

something is really screwy here as thiie above was not my comment on this post, where is mod 11 when she is needed.

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RE: humiliation - 10/26/2008 10:26:47 AM

CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: MistresseLotus

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

I recently saw an ole girl really humiliate herself on national television. She's running for like the second highest office in the land and she couldn't name a single Supreme Court case except Roe v. Wade. Now THAT would be totally humiliating to me. How embarrassing!

luci

And that old guy who hired her.. whew.. how humiliating! LOL