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Aneirin -> Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 5:22:27 PM)
I was down the pub this evening with some good and trusted friends, the conversation however it went got onto the subject of strap ons. The question we puddled was women that like to use strap ons, do they know how to thrust instinctively or do they have to learn it. The mind boggles at the thought of women tuning into porn to get the action right. So here being here, a place where open minded folk gather, what is it, is thrusting instinctive, or do women go to lengths to learn it ? A further question that was wondered was, do women thrust better than men, your thoughts are welcome.

VivaciousSub -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 5:26:50 PM)
I can't speak on using a strap-on, cause I haven't, but let me tell you I turn to porn for a lot of stuff! Furthering fantasies, getting new ideas, laughing my ass off more than occasionally. I've learned a lot of good BJ techniques between that and the rest of the internet - so far, all I've gotten are heartfelt compliments.

hapistan -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 5:38:28 PM)
I think if the girl in question was thrusting like in porn, unless the arse in question had been pounded quite a few times before it could end up as quite a painful experience..... except for her suddenly having an extra bit between her legs, its surely no different than for a fella the first time though, surely?

missturbation -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 5:55:22 PM)
Am i the only one thinking wtf? Am i the only woman who thrusts when having sex? Come on guys we don't just lie there like a bag of spanners, why would the womens movements be any different with a strap on to when without and we have a cock inside us?

GreedyTop -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:01:11 PM)
snort well said, MIsst

persephonee -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:01:46 PM)
misst....No, its not the same thrusting...its like the mirror motion to me... As a long time les, i had to deal with Oscar occasionally, altho i really thought i had the whole thing beat by insisting that i was the girl (bad joke). i had to learn to do it. And it wasnt pretty. i dont dance well either...and have little to no sports experience....except horseback riding, which came in handy for other things. Posting is great in reverse cowgirl. i find myself wanting stirrups at times. i also never really got over the ridiculous way i felt when dealing with either end of all that equipment. Finally one of my stonebutches explained about the clitoral stim while i was blowing silicone...and then i had a better grasp of things...but up til then i had trouble not rolling my eyes...which goes over with dykes as well as rolling your eyes would go over with Doms... just my penny...not worth the whole 2 cents. perse

MadAxeman -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:04:30 PM)
First up, being kinky is no guarantee of openmindedness. Missturbation is I feel largely right. Personally I go for a variety of trajectories, positions, speeds, curves and depths. This can also be achievd by a girl with a strapadichtomy by going at it from all angles and finding out what her partner likes.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:12:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Am i the only one thinking wtf? Am i the only woman who thrusts when having sex? Come on guys we don't just lie there like a bag of spanners, why would the womens movements be any different with a strap on to when without and we have a cock inside us? There is a huge difference being the thrustee as opposed to the thruster. I am an efficient thrustee. I would hurt someone seriously as the thruster.

GreedyTop -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:19:21 PM)
I was a thruster once, for a made for internet video.. had never done it before, and was told I was a natural .. shrug

missturbation -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:19:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Am i the only one thinking wtf? Am i the only woman who thrusts when having sex? Come on guys we don't just lie there like a bag of spanners, why would the womens movements be any different with a strap on to when without and we have a cock inside us? There is a huge difference being the thrustee as opposed to the thruster. I am an efficient thrustee. I would hurt someone seriously as the thruster. Having experience as the thruster / thrustee im afraid i disagree. There ain't much difference.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:21:54 PM)
There is if you are one of those people who have zero sense of coordination. [:)]

bamabbwsub -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:22:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I was a thruster once, for a made for internet video.. had never done it before, and was told I was a natural .. shrug Oh yeah, GT? And just where can we find that little video clip? <wiggling eyebrows> [:)]

missturbation -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:25:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 There is if you are one of those people who have zero sense of coordination. [:)] Agreed. My point is though that a woman with a sense of rhythm, coordination will have just as little problem being the thruster as a man who has a sense of rhythm / coordination.

GreedyTop -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 6:31:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bamabbwsub quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I was a thruster once, for a made for internet video.. had never done it before, and was told I was a natural .. shrug Oh yeah, GT? And just where can we find that little video clip? <wiggling eyebrows> [:)] UNfortunately, I don't think it's available anymore..that was in 2000, I think.

MadAxeman -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 8:20:31 PM)
*Didn't you keep a copy?*

GreedyTop -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 8:23:58 PM)
no.. iin fact, I never actually saw it.. just a 30 sec. trailer.

girlivy -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 8:36:38 PM)
Not sure really if women are Better at it then men. In my experiences it was just a matter of finding that rhythm. I have found it varies greatly between the women I have been with. Some it happens eaiser with than others. Cheers!

bipolarber -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 8:38:54 PM)
As a bi male, I've experienced both. Frankly, guys ARE better at penetration than women. (Sorry, ladies.) The reason is pretty simple, if you stop to consider that a prosthesis does NOT have nerve endings. It's like kissing just after coming back from having a wisdom tooth removed. Yeah, you can do it, there's emotional value in the act, but only one of you (the one NOT on novacaine) is really going to feel it. However... and I DO want to stress this... the women who have fucked me in this way were pretty damn good. The fact that they weren't brutal about it, and never caused any damage says volumes. Let me also face up to the simple fact that just the sight of a woman wearing a strap on is possibly one of the best visual turn ons I can think of. But I do wonder if the Dommes who have worked me over, were REALLY getting as much out of it as me and my prostate were. No doubt there IS that lovely rush of dominance and control over the person on the bottom, and I'm sure the friction against the clit and pressure on the pussy is great... but... well... I still prefer women for sex, play, and for being dominated by. To me, guys are more about agressive play, and mutual satisfaction. I play with guys... but I allow women to really posess me. Hope that makes sense?

Igot99Problems -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/5/2008 9:36:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VivaciousSub I can't speak on using a strap-on, cause I haven't, but let me tell you I turn to porn for a lot of stuff! Furthering fantasies, getting new ideas, laughing my ass off more than occasionally. I've learned a lot of good BJ techniques between that and the rest of the internet - so far, all I've gotten are heartfelt compliments. My one and only venture into watching porn was when I was 17. I remember it was the Bare Wench Project... six sexy girls go into a haunted woods to have mysterious orgasms. I was ruined off a bottle of goldslagger, and ended up making out with the TV, while my friends watched on laughing... that is until I threw up all over the TV, and by default them as well when they tried to help me up. Serves them right for corrupting my impressionable god fearing mind. I've never been right since :)

Lashra -> RE: Musings from the pub (10/6/2008 4:51:43 AM)
Using a strapon is not just about thrusting, its about getting the angle, speed, depth etc. No I didn't use porn to learn how to do this, I used my brain power and trial and error. I also read a book about it. Yup we strapon Ladies have to practice just like the guys do to get it right and with each partner it is different. Different because each person is unique. ~Lashra

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