Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Musings from the pub


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Musings from the pub Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 5:22:27 PM   
Aneirin


Posts: 6121
Joined: 3/18/2006
From: Tamaris
Status: offline 		I was down the pub this evening with some good and trusted friends, the conversation however it went got onto the subject of strap ons. The question we puddled was women that like to use strap ons, do they know how to thrust instinctively or do they have to learn it. The mind boggles at the thought of women tuning into porn to get the action right.

So here being here, a place where open minded folk gather, what is it, is thrusting instinctive, or do women go to lengths to learn it ?

A further question that was wondered was, do women thrust better than men, your thoughts are welcome.

< Message edited by Aneirin -- 10/5/2008 5:23:19 PM >

_____________________________

Everything we are is the result of what we have thought, the mind is everything, what we think, we become - Guatama Buddha

Conservatism is distrust of people tempered by fear - William Gladstone
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 5:26:50 PM   
VivaciousSub


Posts: 446
Joined: 9/7/2008
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline 		I can't speak on using a strap-on, cause I haven't, but let me tell you I turn to porn for a lot of stuff! Furthering fantasies, getting new ideas, laughing my ass off more than occasionally. I've learned a lot of good BJ techniques between that and the rest of the internet - so far, all I've gotten are heartfelt compliments. 

_____________________________

9.8m/s^2 + VivaciousSub + ground = ouchx10^9th

To yield readily--easily--to the persuasion of a friend is no merit.... To yield without conviction is no compliment to the understanding of either. ~ Pride and Prejudice

(in reply to Aneirin)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 5:38:28 PM   
hapistan


Posts: 83
Joined: 9/11/2008
Status: offline 		I think if the girl in question was thrusting like in porn, unless the arse in question had been pounded quite a few times before it could end up as quite a painful experience.....
except for her suddenly having an extra bit between her legs, its surely no different than for a fella the first time though, surely?

(in reply to VivaciousSub)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 5:55:22 PM   
missturbation


Posts: 8290
Joined: 2/12/2006
From: another planet
Status: offline 		Am i the only one thinking wtf?
Am i the only woman who thrusts when having sex?
Come on guys we don't just lie there like a bag of spanners, why would the womens movements be any different with a strap on to when without and we have a cock inside us?

_____________________________

What you don't witness with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. Proverb.

If it fit's in a toaster, i can cook it.

Buying 10 item's or less is not shopping !!

(in reply to hapistan)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:01:11 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		*snort*  well said, MIsst

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to missturbation)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:01:46 PM   
persephonee


Posts: 5089
Joined: 12/15/2007
Status: offline 		misst....No, its not the same thrusting...its like the mirror motion to me...
As a long time les, i had to deal with Oscar occasionally, altho i really thought i had the whole thing beat by insisting that i was the girl (bad joke).
i had to learn to do it. And it wasnt pretty. i dont dance well either...and have little to no sports experience....except horseback riding, which came in handy for other things. Posting is great in reverse cowgirl. i find myself wanting stirrups at times.
i also never really got over the ridiculous way i felt when dealing with either end of all that equipment. Finally one of my stonebutches explained about the clitoral stim while i was blowing silicone...and then i had a better grasp of things...but up til then i had trouble not rolling my eyes...which goes over with dykes as well as rolling your eyes would go over with Doms...
just my penny...not worth the whole 2 cents.

perse

_____________________________

You be the Captain; i'll be no one.

And You can carry me away....if You want to. ~Kasey Chambers

E*Whore, extraordinaire....

Nothing is exactly as it seems~Nor, is it otherwise.

(in reply to missturbation)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:04:30 PM   
MadAxeman


Posts: 4171
Joined: 8/28/2008
From: UK
Status: offline 		First up, being kinky is no guarantee of openmindedness. Missturbation is I feel largely right. Personally I go for a variety of trajectories, positions, speeds, curves and depths. This can also be achievd by a girl with a strapadichtomy by going at it from all angles and finding out what her partner likes.

_____________________________

Hitman for the Subby Mafia

(in reply to missturbation)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:12:23 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Am i the only one thinking wtf?
Am i the only woman who thrusts when having sex?
Come on guys we don't just lie there like a bag of spanners, why would the womens movements be any different with a strap on to when without and we have a cock inside us?


There is a huge difference being the thrustee as opposed to the thruster.  I am an efficient thrustee.  I would hurt someone seriously as the thruster. 

_____________________________



(in reply to missturbation)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:19:21 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		I was a thruster once, for a made for internet video.. had never done it before, and was told I was a natural .. *shrug*

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:19:23 PM   
missturbation


Posts: 8290
Joined: 2/12/2006
From: another planet
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Am i the only one thinking wtf?
Am i the only woman who thrusts when having sex?
Come on guys we don't just lie there like a bag of spanners, why would the womens movements be any different with a strap on to when without and we have a cock inside us?


There is a huge difference being the thrustee as opposed to the thruster.  I am an efficient thrustee.  I would hurt someone seriously as the thruster. 


Having experience as the thruster / thrustee im afraid i disagree.
There ain't much difference.

_____________________________

What you don't witness with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. Proverb.

If it fit's in a toaster, i can cook it.

Buying 10 item's or less is not shopping !!

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:21:54 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline 		There is if you are one of those people who have zero sense of coordination. 


_____________________________



(in reply to missturbation)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:22:22 PM   
bamabbwsub


Posts: 566
Joined: 5/28/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I was a thruster once, for a made for internet video.. had never done it before, and was told I was a natural .. *shrug*



Oh yeah, GT? And just where can we find that little video clip? <wiggling eyebrows>

_____________________________

"Everyone is normal until you get to know them." - Dave Sim

I rescue animals. My pockets and gas tank are always empty. My home is always hairy and my inbox full of sadness, but my heart is full when seeing those that are saved.

(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:25:00 PM   
missturbation


Posts: 8290
Joined: 2/12/2006
From: another planet
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

There is if you are one of those people who have zero sense of coordination. 



Agreed.
My point is though that a woman with a sense of rhythm, coordination will have just as little problem being the thruster as a man who has a sense of rhythm / coordination.

_____________________________

What you don't witness with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth. Proverb.

If it fit's in a toaster, i can cook it.

Buying 10 item's or less is not shopping !!

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 6:31:09 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: bamabbwsub

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I was a thruster once, for a made for internet video.. had never done it before, and was told I was a natural .. *shrug*



Oh yeah, GT? And just where can we find that little video clip? <wiggling eyebrows>


UNfortunately, I don't think it's available anymore..that was in 2000, I think.

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to bamabbwsub)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 8:20:31 PM   
MadAxeman


Posts: 4171
Joined: 8/28/2008
From: UK
Status: offline 		Didn't you keep a copy?

_____________________________

Hitman for the Subby Mafia

(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 8:23:58 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		no.. iin fact, I never actually saw it.. just a 30 sec. trailer.

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to MadAxeman)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 8:36:38 PM   
girlivy


Posts: 699
Joined: 7/6/2007
Status: offline 		Not sure really if women are Better at it then men.
In my experiences it was just a matter of finding that rhythm. I have found it varies greatly between the women I have been with. Some it happens eaiser with than others.
Cheers!

_____________________________

AUTHENTIC SPIRITUAL GROWTH NEVER COMES FROM EXPERIENCES THAT THE EGO CAN PREDICT OR CONTROL.
OUR SPIRIT HAS ITS OWN AGENDA: OUR DESTINY.
Be yourself, everyone else is taken!

(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 8:38:54 PM   
bipolarber


Posts: 2792
Joined: 9/25/2004
Status: offline 		As a bi male, I've experienced both. Frankly, guys ARE better at penetration than women. (Sorry, ladies.) The reason is pretty simple, if you stop to consider that a prosthesis does NOT have nerve endings. It's like kissing just after coming back from having a wisdom tooth removed. Yeah, you can do it, there's emotional value in the act, but only one of you (the one NOT on novacaine) is really going to feel it.

However... and I DO want to stress this... the women who have fucked me in this way were pretty damn good. The fact that they weren't brutal about it, and never caused any damage says volumes. Let me also face up to the simple fact that just the sight of a woman wearing a strap on is possibly one of the best visual turn ons I can think of.

But I do wonder if the Dommes who have worked me over, were REALLY getting as much out of it as me and my prostate were. No doubt there IS that lovely rush of dominance and control over the person on the bottom, and I'm sure the friction against the clit and pressure on the pussy is great... but... well...

I still prefer women for sex, play, and for being dominated by. To me, guys are more about agressive play, and mutual satisfaction. I play with guys... but I allow women to really posess me. Hope that makes sense?


(in reply to GreedyTop)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/5/2008 9:36:41 PM   
Igot99Problems


Posts: 32
Joined: 11/27/2005
From: Tampa
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: VivaciousSub

I can't speak on using a strap-on, cause I haven't, but let me tell you I turn to porn for a lot of stuff! Furthering fantasies, getting new ideas, laughing my ass off more than occasionally. I've learned a lot of good BJ techniques between that and the rest of the internet - so far, all I've gotten are heartfelt compliments. 


My one and only venture into watching porn was when I was 17.  I remember it was the Bare Wench Project... six sexy girls go into a haunted woods to have mysterious orgasms.  I was ruined off a bottle of goldslagger, and ended up making out with the TV, while my friends watched on laughing... that is until I threw up all over the TV, and by default them as well when they tried to help me up.  Serves them right for corrupting my impressionable god fearing mind.

I've never been right since :)

(in reply to VivaciousSub)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Musings from the pub - 10/6/2008 4:51:43 AM   
Lashra


Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline 		Using a strapon is not just about thrusting, its about getting the angle, speed, depth etc. No I didn't use porn to learn how to do this, I used my brain power and trial and error. I also read a book about it. Yup we strapon Ladies have to practice just like the guys do to get it right and with each partner it is different. Different because each person is unique.

~Lashra


_____________________________

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”






(in reply to Aneirin)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Musings from the pub Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.102